婆媳之间的难题怎么解决：如何缓解婆媳关系紧张

 poxizhijiannantihaoxiangconggudaojinshizhongcunyou，bingqiewulunyiqieguojiedenvxing，doutaobuguozheizuzhou。jiehunhoupengdaosuanyiqiezhengchang，meipengdaosuanhaoyun，zhenkeyishuonvxinghunyinzhongdejiaodalanluhule。poxizhijiandenantizenmejiejue?ruhehuanjiepoxiguanxijinzhang?

一、婆媳之间的难题怎么解决：如何缓解婆媳关系紧张

 poxizhijiandenantizenmejiejue?ruhehuanjiepoxiguanxijinzhang?suiranshishangmeiyounvxingshibuhaipajiapode，danshiqizaifazhan，queyouyuelaiyueduozuoweixifuerde，gangkaishitihuidaojiayouyilao、ruoyouyibao，yincibianyouchaoren2jiapodetouxianchuxian。

 jinriyebazheizhongchangbeixifuermenyuweihunyinguocuidejiapozhonglei，shuliweiyixia10zhong，dangniqiahaojiushishuozheiweihaoyunxifuer，shenpangyongyouneiyangdegaopinzhijiapo，haijidehaiyaohaohaodiaixizheilaizhibuyideyuanfenni!

1、不摆架子

 yixiejiapohenduonianlai，dangjiazuozhuguanle，hanyoufumutiejiazi。haodejiapobixuyaocaiyongminzhuhuadegongzuozuofeng，rangerxifujuedeniduitashigongpingde，

2、不在经济上小肚鸡肠

 mouxiejiapozishenfuyoudanlianmaibaxianmiantiaobixushenchushouwenhaizi、erxifuxuyaoqian。haizierxifuxiaojinglaonianrenshiyingdangde，keshizaijingjishangguoduxiaodujichang，huiweihaiqinrenqinggan。

3、不轴力公平公正的看待媳妇儿孩子

 yixiejiapobahaizixifuerfendehenqingxi，yizhidianjizhehaiziruheruhe，congbuhuichongfenkaolvxifuerdeniantou。zheiyidianerguanjianfanyingzaihuaxuewuzhiguanzhushang，jiapoweizijizinvmailaiwupin，biewangjierxifuzheifen。baozhengyiwanshuiduanping。

4、没有孩子、别人眼前说媳妇儿说闲话

 jishixifueryouweicizongshibaixintaizhuangtai，naizhiduizishenhaiziyesanjianqikou。xifuerzaijiapodelingzhexia，daduonengshunlichengzhangdirongjinpopo，huoxudi，xifuerhejiapojianlianggerenchudefeichanghao，yijianhemu。

5、争吵时帮着媳妇儿

 poxizhijiandenantizenmejiejue?ruhehuanjiepoxiguanxijinzhang?haizi、erxifuzhengchaoshi，bubibaerxifudangbieren，zunchonghaizizhongjiushiduide。duozhaobangqierxifu，huikuaisutishengpoxizhijianzhiqingkuaisutiwen。huzhehaizifanerrangzheijiufenanjianfandaoyuegunyueda，nayigemuqinbuqidaihaizixifuerkaixinkuaile，

 yincijiapodeyiyanyixingdoushishenshendiweihaidaozheiyizixiaomeiyouyiqichengzhangdexifuer。bielaoshizishiweixiaobeihao，jiapobubiganyusuanshishide『zaihuni』。

6、不墨守成规

 mouxiejiapochangchangshuozishendeerxifushibaijianv，changchangmaixinyifukuzi。haodejiapobunengyongzishendeshenmeiguanhexiaofeixiguanxingquguidingerxifu，yaoxuezhezhuisuierxifujienaxindeyishi。

 poxizhijiandenantizenmejiejue?ruhehuanjiepoxiguanxijinzhang?jiapohaiyaozhuanbiansixiangle，jiuyaoxifuermenquzuo，zishenshoushangdezhongdanyeqingle，poxizhijianyezuohaole，bufangyishini?douqilaobashilehaidanyoudongdanyouxiyelingrengengweichengdan。

7、不唠叨、家务活上但是分规定

 kaimingdejiapojuededangdaifufuquanshigongxinzu，jiawushihubanghuzhudoushiyingdangde，zhenduihaizi、xifueryikuaierzuojiawushinengchedilejie。

8、重视私密空间

 burongyitantingerxifudeyinsibaohu，erxifubujijishuodejiubutan。haizi、erxifudewoshibubisuiyijin。dahuoerquanshichengrenle，zunzhongtarencaihuidedaozhongshi。

9、儿媳妇生孩子尽心竭力照料，重视儿媳妇的生孕意识

 zaidaiwashizhongshierxifu，biezaierxifuyanqiantaiguochongnixiaosunzi。xifuerzaiwenhuajiaoyuzishendexiaohai，haodejiapodouburongyichahua。

10、不必男尊女卑

 poxizhijiandenantizenmejiejue?ruhehuanjiepoxiguanxijinzhang?wulunerxizhangchudedenanhaierhuanshinvsheng，bixuyiwanshuiduanping。xiangzhezishendemuqinhaibingbushizhangchuzishen(jiapoziji)，xiaopengyoujiankangdezhongyaoxing。