为何婆媳之间平时和谐，做月子却能让婆媳关系恶变

常听人说“家家有本难念的经”，我觉得最难念的经還是 婆媳 之间这道坎了。特别是在是在坐月子期内，许多分歧的启迪点就是说在这一那时候，但是为何原本算是和谐的婆媳关系在坐月子期内就会出現再大的分歧呢?如何处理婆媳关系?婆媳相处之道是啥?

 penyoupanpangennanpengyouwanhunyihoushizhongshidulizhude，keshiyouyuhejiapolidebingbushitaiyuan，yinciyoudeneishihouxialezhutibanhuigennanpengyouyiqijiapojiazhongcengfan。neiyangjifangzhilemeitianzaiyiqiyouyumouxiesuoshierzhengchao，youburongyiyouyuyuanjulierzaochengshuligan。yincipanpanhetajiapodeguanlianhaisuanshibijiaohemu。zhihoupanpanhuaileyun，jiapojinguanbuyongshuo，keshitongyixingdongshangquehenjijizhudong。santianliangtoudejiuxiangqupanpanjiazhongkanyixia，jitatiqianzhunbeimouxiemeiweide，huoshishiyoudeneishihouhuipeizhetachulailiuda。panpanganjuetahejiapodejiaowangfangfahenhao，henshigaoxing。xinshengerzhihou，jiapojiumingquetichulaiyaobanzhizheilizhaogupanpanzuoyuezi。panpandoumeiyouzhixiang，jiulijitongyile。youyutaganjuehejiapodeqinggansuanshinenggou，zheimeduonianjiaowangchulaiyemeishenmefenqi，zuoyuezijiuyiyuedeshijian，yingdangyeburongyiweihebukaixindeshierchansheng。ruhechulipoxiguanxi?

 danshishierbingmeiyouxiangxiangdezheimejiandan，haibushangshijitiandeshijianli，panpanjiuhejiaponaodehenbukaixin，bingbushiyouyufanshibuhekouwei，jiushishuoxiaohaichinaibuliji，huanjuhuashuopanpanhejiapodeqinggansuanzuocongzheiyizuoyuezilixiaoqianxiaoshidaijinle。erpanpandoushiqingxuhenbutaihao，yizhiyuyuguahuan，weihaidepanpandemuruyebingbushihenchongyu。panpanyoushihouhennaizhixianglainiangjiarendeyuwang。weihebenlaiguanlianfeichanghaodepoxiguanxi，laidaozuoyuezijiubianweilekandaojiufanni?poxixiangchuzhidaoshisha?

一、交往時间

 yiyuezi，shuozhangjinguanbingbushihenzhang，keshizhendui2geyitiandaowandoudaiyiqideliangreneryanshijianqueshibuduande，yincichuxianfenqidegailvdaziranyehuitishengxuduo。jishishifufu2geyiqishijianzhangleyehuiyoujianyihebulaizhengchaodezhuangkuang，hekuangshipoxizhijianzheileiguanlian，jiushishuo2gemeiyouguanliandenvxing，shenglayingzhuaidezaiyiqi，nengbuyoufenqime。

er、baomamadeshengwanhaizixintai

 zishenlijinjianxinshengchulaidexiaobaobao，queyaozaizishenyuanbenjiumangrandeneishihouzaodaochize。zhendui1gechuxuezhebaomama，zhenduiyihubaobaoquanshibixu1gequanguochengde，zaizheiyiquanguochenglihaowuyiwenshiyouxuduodebugouhetixindiaodan，zheiyineishihoujiapohuizishizishenyangbiandahaizi，yincizhenduiyihuxiaohaiyouxuduodegongzuojingyan，huiduierxifudeyuerjiaoyufangshi youxuduodechize。meirenqukuanweihejili，jiashangmurujiarubugouyehuizaoshoujiapodezeguai，shuozishenmeiyougongzuonengliyangxiaohaizheixie。zheizhongquanshihuiweihaizuoyueziqidebaomamade。

san、jiapobujienaxinyuerbaodian

 jinguanshuojiapoyouguoyuerxinde，keshirujindeshehuifazhanhezhiqiandeshehuifazhandabuyiyang，yiqiandezheixieyuerxindehaowuyiwenzhenduirujindexiaobaobaodoubushihe，lirujixiaobaobaoyongniaobushi，jixiaobaobaobangtuizheixie。niaobushizaiyingyongdeneishihoujiaruchaihuanbulijijiyoukenenghuirangxiaobaobaodetunbuchuxianqianmazhenhehongpiguzheileide，bingqierujindexiaobaobaomeiyoubangtuizhishuo，yeshiburongyichuxianoxingtuidezhuangkuang。xuduodeyuerjiaoyuhexintainiandoubuyiyangde，yincizaisuonanmianchuxianyouyujianyibuyizhierchuxianfenqi。

 yinciwangbianganjuewulunshifouzaizuoyueziqi，popoxifuhuanshibixuweichibixudejianju，neiyangbaochiqilaicaihenrongyi。jiaruzaiyiqi，jishishizaiduodeguanlianyehuixiangtonghuichuxianlieheng，zhinengliangrenxianghuzhijianzhongshi、xianghulijiecaikeyibapoxiguanxizheiyiqianniannantijiejuederuhutianyi。