作为儿媳妇应该如何处理婆媳关系?

 shenpangzongyouxuduorenmaiyuanzishengengonggongpopodejiaowanghenjiannan，feichangshigenjiapo。tingchulaidenantidaduoshuquanshishuo： poxizhijian jiapotaiguoqianghan，naxiebixuguan，naxieshiqingbixutalaidingdengzheizhongdeshenghuonanti。zhongguiyuangujiushishuojiapobukenfangkaishou，erxifumeiyouguanliquanyoubukendixiatou，poxizhijianquefagoutongjiaoliunantijiujianjiandidechuxianle。wojuede，huiguotoukanrichangshenghuozhong，zishengenlaogongliangrendoushiyoukekebanbandeneishihou，genqinshengfumudebabamamayehuichaozuiduqi，genjiapoyouweishenmehuimeiyoufenqi?shijishang，meigerendouyouzishendeniantou，yebuxiangyaobeitaren“caozong”，gengbukenhuozaitarendeguidingxia。ruhechulipoxiguanxi?

一、如何处理婆媳关系

 yingguokanaijishuoguo：“jiarunishiduide，haiyaoshizherouhedi、fangfadiranglingyifangyuanyini;dangnibudui，haiyaokuaisuerrechendirenke。zheiyaozhibizishenzhenglunhelihequweideduo。”

meishenmeshiershigoutongjiaoliunanyijiejuede。

 fajuejiapozuodebutuo，zhaogeshidudejihui，yongshidudeyuyan，gaozhita。fajuexifuernaerzuodebutaihao，zhaogejiyushuochuqu。jiaruchajuezuobudui，yaomingbairenke。

jiarupoxidoukeyihuxianglijie，xuezhehuxianggoutongjiaoliu，jiumeiyouneimaduodenandianle。

yiqianyouwangmingenwoliuyanbanliuyanshuo：woweihedui1gewuguanjinyaoyouduizishenbutaihaoderenyongxin。

 budui，jiaporuhegenniwuguanjinyaoni?tashizhangfudemuqin，jiushinidejiapo。jiranbianchengyijiazi，haiyaomingbaixuehaoyunying。

rutongnigongzuozhong，haiyaogenyunyinggenpengyoudeguanlianxiangtong。jiapodeguanlianruguonihuayidiudiusixu，jiuburongyifeichangcaogao。

 renherenzhijianshiyouyouhuolide。niduiwomenhao，wotihuihuode;niduiwomenyouchengjian，yinweiwonengfaxian。jiuyonglianghaodexintaikandaipopoxifudeguanlian，nijiuhuifaxianjiaowangqilaidoushifeichangjiandande。

poxixiangchuzhidaoxiaoqiaomen：

01、youshihoujijiapodaidianxiaolipin，rangjiapogaoxingyixiaxia。

02、youshihougenjiaposagejiao。

03、fuqinjiehuozheshengchendeneishihou，falezhuyuanhuoshixiaodahongbao。

04、youshihouzuofanzuoyidunfan，huoshiqingjiapoxiayigeguanzi。

 wojuederenyurengoutongnenggoufeichangjiandande，zhaodaonantidedianbiannengdedaojiejue。gaibuyaoxiangtaiduodeneishihou，buyaoxiangtaiduo。gaifangkaishoushifangkaishou，xianghulijie，weichibixudejianju，fenqijiuhuiyuelaiyuedi。