婚姻挽回：老公怎么挽回婚姻的心

　　laogongzenmewanhuihunyindexin，aiyo，xiaohuobanmen，tingwenjinqiyouxierenxianruhunyinshenghuode“xiaokunjing”，bujibuji，wozheibushilailema!zuoweidajiadezimeitiqinggandashi，wojintianjiuyidingyaolaiyichang“hunyinshenghuoqiangjiu”，jiaonimenwubumiji，rangganqingshengwen，balihundeniantoueshazaiyaolan!nizhunbeihaolema?womenkaijiangla!

　　第一步：理智!先按住“停止键”

　　aiyo，womingbai，yishuodaoliyi，xuduorenjidexinjihuoliao，henbunenglijixingdong。keshi，xiaohuobanmen，womenxianyaopingjingxialai!xiangxiangyixia，nizhengkanyibuchaojiaolvbuandeju，shifouyeyaoyougechaboguanggaoshinihuankouqi?hunyinshenghuoyeshizheiyanga，dangnimenzhijiandeguanxijinzhangdeyaobaozhashi，xiananzhuneiyige“tingzhijian”，jiduifangyidianshijianyukongjian。

　　zenyangzuo?feichangjiandan，zhaoyigeheshideshijian，heduifangshuo：“womenjinqidoulengjingyixiaba，jiduifangyidianshijianhejinglixiangyixiang。”jilao，zheigebushiduobi，ershiweilegenghaodeyingdui。ninengliyongzheiduanshijian，qulvyou、qujianshen、quhepengyoujuhui，zongeryanzhi，jiushirangzijicongjiaolvbuandeqifenzhongjietuochulai，huangejiaodukanwenti。

　　第二步：思考!找到“发病原因”

　　haola，lengqueqiguoqule，jiezhejiushiyaohaohaofanshengle。xiaohuobanmen，hunyinshenghuochuxianwenti，jiuxiangrendebingyiyang，dezhaodao“fabingyuanyin”cainengshibangongbeia!yinci，niyaowenziji：womenweishenmehuizoudaozheiyibu?jiushiwohushilenaxie?haishizhijiandejiaoliuchuxianlewenti?

　　xianbiejizhebaguodoutuijianjilingyifang，hunyinjiushilianggerendeshiqing，yigebazhangpaibuxiang。kenengshinigongzuomang，hushilebierendeganshou;huoxushidajiazhijiandejiaoliufangfayoushenmewenti，yizhijiufengzhijiqianbeishao。xunzhaowentidebenzhi，caikeyizhenduixingdichuli。

　　zheilihaiyougexiaojiqiao，nikeyishizhexiechunimendeguanxinanti，suihouzhuyifenxi。biexianmafan，zheiyibudanshizhongyao!

　　第三步：沟通交流!开启“心扉”

　　zhaodaowentiyihou，jiezhejiushishangliangle。xiaohuobanmen，goutongjiaoliudanshihunyinshenghuode“runhuaye”a!haoduorenhunyinshenghuochuxianwenti，shiyinweigoutongbudaowei，zaochengwuhuihejiediyulaiyuduo。

　　laogongzenmewanhuihunyindexin，zenmegoutongni?jide，yaozhenxinshiyi、yaonaixin、yaolingting。zhaoyigeshiyishijianhedidian，genduifangzuoxialiaoyiliao。xianbiejizheqieduanlingyifang，yexianbiejizhebianbo，xiantinglingyifangjiangwan，ranhoubiaodazijidekanfa。

　　zheiliyouyigegoutongdejiqiao，chengwei“wo”yuyanbiaoda。liru，yekeyishuo：“wojuededajiajinqigoutongjiaoliuyoudianshao，wojuedehengudan。”erbingbushi：“nizongbuliwo，nigenbenbuzaihuwo!”neiyangbiaoshu，lingyifangleyujieshou，yebuhuiyinqibubiyaozhengchao。

　　第四步：更改!从“我”逐渐

　　goutongjiaoliuwanhou，jiezhejiushiyingxiangle。xiaohuobanmen，jilao，genggaishiyi“wo”kaishi，erfeiyaoqiutamengenggai。shouxiannidezuohaobiaolv，nengrangduifangjiandaonidefuchubianhua。

　　liru，jiarunimendeguanxinantidoushiyinweinigongzuomang，hushilelingyifang，neimenikeyichangshidiaozhengshizhang，duopeibanlingyifang;jiarunimendeguanxinantishiyouyugoutongbudaowei，neimenikeyichangshigenggaijiaoliufangshi，duoqingting、duolijie。

　　genggaibushiyichaoyixideshiqing，xuyaoshijianhexixin。keshi，zhiyaokennuli，lingyifangyidinghuikanjiannidezhuanbian，jiuhuishoudaoniweihai，jianjiandizuochudiaozheng。