laogongzenmewanhuihunyindexin,aiyo,xiaohuobanmen,tingwenjinqiyouxierenxianruhunyinshenghuode“xiaokunjing”,bujibuji,wozheibushilailema!zuoweidajiadezimeitiqinggandashi,wojintianjiuyidingyaolaiyichang“hunyinshenghuoqiangjiu”,jiaonimenwubumiji,rangganqingshengwen,balihundeniantoueshazaiyaolan!nizhunbeihaolema?womenkaijiangla!
第一步:理智!先按住“停止键”

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zenyangzuo?feichangjiandan,zhaoyigeheshideshijian,heduifangshuo:“womenjinqidoulengjingyixiaba,jiduifangyidianshijianhejinglixiangyixiang。”jilao,zheigebushiduobi,ershiweilegenghaodeyingdui。ninengliyongzheiduanshijian,qulvyou、qujianshen、quhepengyoujuhui,zongeryanzhi,jiushirangzijicongjiaolvbuandeqifenzhongjietuochulai,huangejiaodukanwenti。
第二步:思考!找到“发病原因”
haola,lengqueqiguoqule,jiezhejiushiyaohaohaofanshengle。xiaohuobanmen,hunyinshenghuochuxianwenti,jiuxiangrendebingyiyang,dezhaodao“fabingyuanyin”cainengshibangongbeia!yinci,niyaowenziji:womenweishenmehuizoudaozheiyibu?jiushiwohushilenaxie?haishizhijiandejiaoliuchuxianlewenti?
xianbiejizhebaguodoutuijianjilingyifang,hunyinjiushilianggerendeshiqing,yigebazhangpaibuxiang。kenengshinigongzuomang,hushilebierendeganshou;huoxushidajiazhijiandejiaoliufangfayoushenmewenti,yizhijiufengzhijiqianbeishao。xunzhaowentidebenzhi,caikeyizhenduixingdichuli。
zheilihaiyougexiaojiqiao,nikeyishizhexiechunimendeguanxinanti,suihouzhuyifenxi。biexianmafan,zheiyibudanshizhongyao!
第三步:沟通交流!开启“心扉”
zhaodaowentiyihou,jiezhejiushishangliangle。xiaohuobanmen,goutongjiaoliudanshihunyinshenghuode“runhuaye”a!haoduorenhunyinshenghuochuxianwenti,shiyinweigoutongbudaowei,zaochengwuhuihejiediyulaiyuduo。
laogongzenmewanhuihunyindexin,zenmegoutongni?jide,yaozhenxinshiyi、yaonaixin、yaolingting。zhaoyigeshiyishijianhedidian,genduifangzuoxialiaoyiliao。xianbiejizheqieduanlingyifang,yexianbiejizhebianbo,xiantinglingyifangjiangwan,ranhoubiaodazijidekanfa。

zheiliyouyigegoutongdejiqiao,chengwei“wo”yuyanbiaoda。liru,yekeyishuo:“wojuededajiajinqigoutongjiaoliuyoudianshao,wojuedehengudan。”erbingbushi:“nizongbuliwo,nigenbenbuzaihuwo!”neiyangbiaoshu,lingyifangleyujieshou,yebuhuiyinqibubiyaozhengchao。
第四步:更改!从“我”逐渐
goutongjiaoliuwanhou,jiezhejiushiyingxiangle。xiaohuobanmen,jilao,genggaishiyi“wo”kaishi,erfeiyaoqiutamengenggai。shouxiannidezuohaobiaolv,nengrangduifangjiandaonidefuchubianhua。
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