男人怎么样挽回婚姻

　　nanrenzenmeyangwanhuihunyin，zaiganqingdaolushang，youshiyehuiyinweiyixiewuhui、cuxindayihuozhechijiudeleijigongzuoyali，zaochenglaopoduilaogongxincunliangyi，duiyuhunyinfeichangshiwang。

　　zheishihou，nanrenyinggaijijiweichiganqing，jinzaojiejuelaopoxinlidebukuaiyujiaolv，zheiyangyouliyuranghunyingengjiarongqia。

　　shijishang，meiyifenhunyinshenghuo，doushizhidehaohaodezhenxihewanliu，zhixunanshengbuduannuli，yongzhenchengyuxingdongyingxianglaopo，jianxinnvshenghuizaiciduizijidezijintouruzhenxin。

　　guigenjiedi，dangqiziduilaogongxinhuiyilengxinhanshi，laogongruguonenggoucaiqujijixingdong，nuliquzuoxialiesanjianshi，wangwangnengranqiqizideaiyi，wanliutadexin。

　　一、坦诚地和妻子沟通交流，了解她心灰意冷的主要原因

　　youxieshihou，laopoduilaogongdexinhanbingfeiyicuerjiu，ershitongguorichangshenghuozhongdediandiandidijidianchengde。

　　zheishihou，laogongyinggaizhudongdapojiangju，zuoxiaheqizijinxingshenrudehuihua。

　　zaijiaoliuguochengzhong，laogongyaobaochinaixinhelingtingdexintai，buyaojizheweizijibianjiehuochizelaopo。

　　zhiyouxianzhangwolaopoxinlidexiangfahetihui，cainengfaxianwentidezhengjiesuoshu，jinerzhenduixingdichuliwenti。

　　yiner，zaixunwenlaopoxinhuiyilengdeyuanyinshi，laogongxuyaozhuyiyuqiheyongyu，fangzhiranglaopojuedebeipipinghuojingong。

　　liru，keyichangshiyong“wojuededajiajinqiyouyixieshengshu，nikeyigaosuwonideqingxuma?”

　　huoshi，“wozhuyidaonijinqisihubutaigaoxing，shiyoushenmeshikunhuoni?”

　　tongguozheizhongmiaoshu，jibiaodalezijiguanxin，youjilelaopoqingtukongjian，youzhuyuxiaochulaopoxinlidejiedihewujie，weixiufuguanxidiandingjichu。

　　二、处理老婆的精神需求，积极投入

　　hunyinli，laopozhenzhenzhengzhengqidaisuodedaode，shizhangfudeguanhuaidalizhichi。

　　dangqizijuedexinhuiyilengxinhanshi，henkenengshiyinweitajingshenxuqiu，meiyoudedaomanzu。

　　yiner，laogongyingdangziwofansitamendexingwei，kankanyoumeiyoushenmedifangzuodebugouhao。

　　zheigeshihoujiuxuyaolaogongjijidifuzhuxingdong，manzuqizidejingshenxuqiu，jijijitatouru，rangqijiandaomingtiandexiwang。

　　liru，nikeyiduoshouhoulaopo，guanzhutarichangrichangshenghuo，zaizhongyaoguantoudaijitalijiehezhichi。

　　youbiru，ninengjitafendanjiawu，huanjietayali。

　　bingqie，zaiteshurilitou，ninengjitaxiyuelipindeng，zheixiedouhuirangnvrenjiandaozijidefuchu。

　　nanshengyongyoushijixingdong，yidinghuiranglaopoganshoudaozijideaigenguanzhu，jinermanmanqingchutaxinzhongdexinhanhebuman。

　　qici，laogongyeyaodongdebiaodazijiaigenganenzhiqing，ranglaopoganshoudaozijidebiyaoxing。

　　liru，keyishidangdeduilaoposhuo：“xiexieniweilezheigejiafuchudeyiqie”，“wozhendehenaini”dengyuju。

　　nanrenzenmeyangwanhuihunyin，youzheiyangdezhenxinshiyiqiezhenqingnongnongdeyujuli，henrongyishilaopoganshoudaozijidetouru，dedaolerenkehezhenxi，dangranhuizaiciduizijidezijintouruzhenqing。

　　yiner，laogongzairichangshenghuozhong，yaoqingtingqizidexinsheng，lejietaxiangfaheganshou。

　　zhudonggentagoutongdeshihou，yidingyaobaochiduiwaikaifangyuzunzhongdexintai，bubiqieduanlaopodejianghuahuofourentajianjie。

　　zhiyouxianlizailaopodejiaodulaidongta，cainenggenghaodedadaotajingshenxuqiu，ranglaopotihuidaobeiguanhuaishiyong。

　　三、提升和妻子的交流，多和她亲密

　　goutongjiaoliu，shiweixifuqiganqingdezhongyaoniudai，erqinminaishizengjinfuqiganqingdezhongyaotujing。

　　dangqiziduilaogongjuedexinhuiyilengxinhanshi，jiaqianggoutongjiaoliushishifenzhongyaode。

　　laogongyingdangduoyulaopogoutongjiaoliu，lejietadexiangfaheganshou，tongshihaiyaofenxiangzijiqingxujijihua。

　　zaijiaoliuzhong，yaojinliangbimianshiyongchizehuozhiyideyuyanbiaoda，changyongbaorongyulijiedexintai，laikandailaopodejianjie。

　　chukaiyanyushangdegoutongjiaoliuwai，laogongyekeyitongguoshentijiechu，laijiaqiangheqizideqinmi。

　　liru，zaishidangdeshihoujiairenyigeyongbaohuojiewen;zaikandianshihuoliaotiandeshihouzuodaolaoposhenpang，qingqingdiwozhutadeshou;shuiqianjiairenyigewennuandehuaibaohewananwendeng。

　　zhengshizheixiexiweidexingwei，dankeyizaiwuxingzhongzengjinfuqijiandejianju，ranglaopotihuidaolaogongdeguanhuaiwenxin。