婚外生子怎么挽回婚姻

　　hunwaishengzizenmewanhuihunyin，hunyinlidelengbaoli，tongchangshihunyinpoliedezhengzhao。fuqizhijianzhangqixinglengbaolizenyangniuzhuanjumian?zheiyeshixuduofuqizaihunyinshenghuozhongdoushihuiyudaodewenti。

　　danmianduizheizhongqingkuang，youruhedapozheikunju?xiamianjiurangxiaobianweidajiaxiangxijieshaosanzhao，bangzhunixunsupoyilengbaolikunjing，zhongshihunyinshenghuodewenxin。

　　第一招：积极破冰之旅，打破僵局

　　lengbaolibuduandezhuyaoyuanyin，tongchangshifuqiliangrendoufangbuxiamianzijijidixiatou，cushiduizhidejushigengjiawufajiejue。shishishang，baituozheiyikunjudeguanjiansuozai，zaiyumaichudiyibudeqipo。

　　bufangjijizhangkou，napazhiyoupaochuquyijuqingsongyukuaide“jintianchishenmecai?”huoshiguanxinlejie“jinqigongzuozenmeyang?”，doukeyihuanjiebingrongxiangjiandefenwei。

　　jilao，jijibingbushidaibiaozhefushu，gengshiweilexiubuzhiliposuizhijiandeguanxi，shiduiyuhunyinchengdandeyongganzhishi。

　　jutizuofa：keyixuanzeyigeqifenqingsongyukuaidejihui，biruwanfanshihou，huatitaoluncongwuguanjinyaoderichangsuoshixiashou，qianwanbuyaolijijiechufenqiguanjian。

　　zheiyangcainengzhujianzaitamenzhijianzaicigoujianqigoutongqiaoliang，ranggoutongjiaoliudetujingzaidushunchang。

　　第二招：表达感受，并非斥责

　　lengbaolibeihou，yibanshikucunjiyaxujiudexintaiweinengdedaofaxie。xuduofuqizaichaojiashi，xihuanyongchizedekouqibiaoshibuman，xiang“niconglaibuzaihuwo”“nizongshizheiyang”zheizhongyujusuikoushuochu。

　　danshi，zheileibiaodaxingshizhihuirangduifangzaochenggengqiangdadedichuqingxu，jinyibujiutuobujue。

　　fanguolai，yekeyichangshiyingyongyi“wo”kaishidejuzilaibiaodazijidezhenshitihui，liru“woganjuehengudu，zhiyaowomenjinqigoutongjiaoliutaishao”。

　　hunwaishengzizenmewanhuihunyin，zaijutigoutongdeshihou，jinliangjinliangbimianshiyongyi“ni”kaishidezhizexingyuyan，daduocaiyong“wo”zikaitoudebiaoshu，nengrangduifangkeyizhenshilijienineixinxiangfa，bingfeijuedezijizaizaodaojingong，jinergengxihuandakaixinfeigoutongjiaoliu。

　　第三招：生产制造小浪漫，重新点燃爱情

　　zhangjiudelengbaoli，feichangrongyirangfuqijiandeaiqingzaiqiaoranwushengzhongjianjianzhileng。zheishi，zhizaoyixiexiaolangmanwuyishizhongxindianranaidehuoyandeqiaomen。

　　liru：ninenggenjulingyifangdexihao，jingxinanpaiyifennuanxinxiaolipin，huoshicehuayichangqieyideyouqiyouhui。

　　yebuyongtaiguozhuangzhong，zhongdianzaiyunengrangduifangtihuinishikeba ta fangzaixinli，dui ta deguanxinhezaiyicongmeijiangdi。

　　tongguoyishangsanzhao，woxiangxinnizhenduiruhedapofuqizhijianzhangqixinglengzhandekunju，youleqingxiderenzhi。jijipobingzhilvdakaigoutongjiaoliu，biaodaganshoutigaolejie，zhizaolangmanzhongxindianranqingyi，zheigefangfakeyizhujianxiufuhunyinlideliefeng。