知道老公出轨，可是还是想挽回他怎么办

 zheihuadayueshiquanbuzaoshoulezhangfupanbian，laiwozheizixun，qiwangwanhuizhangfudenvxingmingquetichudeshuzuiduodeyihuo：“buchufata，fandaoduitagengqiang，neitashifouhuijuedeyemeiyoudaodedixian?zhihouhaipanbianwogaizenmeban?tashifouhuidecunjinchigengkanbuqiwo?”-ruhe wanhui

 shenmeqingkuangzhangfuqingganyiwei、jiawaiyoujian，laoponenggou wanliu?zenyangjiwanliuhainengbaocunzizunxin?zenyangmingquezhangfuzhongguizhihouhewaibiandenvxingwanquanfenli?

jinriwoyelaihedahuoerjiangxiazheisangenantidejiejuefangshi 。

 zuixian，zaiwanliuqianzheisangenantibixuzuolaopode，zishenhuiying，binggaohaoxintaizhuangtaijibenjianshe，zhinengneiyang，wanliudeluchengcaiburongyitaimangran，huanjuhuashuoburongyituranzhijianzoubuxialaile。

一：什么情况丈夫出轨能够 挽留?

wocengjingjiangguo，youyizhonglaogongchuguijiao：chukaiwaiyubiededoufeichanghaodezhangfu。zenmezhidaoni?

1、丈夫有经济发展工作能力、会挣钱并且会给家中钱，不辜负小孩与你;

2、丈夫没经济发展工作能力，但家务活、照料小孩全是以他主导，看待你爸爸妈妈也非常好;

3、外遇后，丈夫积极规定重归，并积极干了一些挽留;

4、你经济发展工作能力暂且不能单独，小孩没有人照顾;

二、怎样既挽留还能保存自尊心?

1、一次努力就期望另一方重归是空想

xiaomincengzaiwozheierzuozixun，yizhaowodechudejihuafanganhetazhangfugangkaishiwanliuzhixing。

 dandiertiantajiugaosuwo：zheiyifangfabenzhibuqizuoyong，wogentaheaikeqin，tayijianshiailibuli，benlaishitafancuowule，woquedisanxiasimeishenmezizunxin。

tashixuduowanliuxingnvxingchangchangfandecuo，juedewoyebuzaihule，wohaifangxiazijidejiaoaoleniyaoxiangruhe?

fuqijiandefengxibingbushiyiridaozhide，yinciyebutaikenengyicijiuwanliu。

 shijishangzhenduichuguidelaogong，yaotamenzhenshiguanniandaozishendecuomeibanfa，feichangshijiaruxifufeiyangbahu、lansan、manheng、buxianshu、shengsilijie，neimatadewaiyushizhenzhenyoucide。

lizaitadeshijiao，shenmejiaotazhongguideyinyou?neibianshiwenxindejia、rouheerkuanrongdexifu。

jiqiewanliu，quewanglesheqiubenjiushishuoyizhongbuzhengque。

wanliuqianniwubiyaomingquenishibushinengjienabuguantazenyanglenglian，wanliuqinei，nidounenggoubaozhengrouhe。

dangnizijuedemeifazuodao，neimejiujinzaosheqiba。

2、又打又闹又上诉，才算是最没自尊心的主要表现

 wanliushiyibianhunyinshenghuo、weilebaobao、yibianzishenjianglaixingfudeshenghuo，bingqiewanliushifuqijiandegerenxingwei，zaifuqijian，guoduzhuzhongzizunxinyuanbenjiumeibixu。erneileidangjiedadisanzhe，daozhangfuqiyewanshua，qugezhonggeyangqinpenghaoyouyanqiansuku，daozuizhonghaibuyuanliyideyouxiurencaishizhenmeiyouzizunxindegerenxingwei。

3、挽留道德底线是，在挽留期内和丈夫拉开距离

jiaruyimingquezhangfuzaiwaibianjiawaiyoujian，neimawanliuqineijiubixuhezhangfuweichiyidingdejianju。

diyi，yibianweihuzishen，zhongjiubuzhangwowaibianneinvren，yibianzishendeshenxinjiankang，jinliangbuyaotanxian。

 dier，lakaijuli，doushigaozhizhangfu，wohaizaiqinfengaibianxianzhuang，qinfenwanliu，qinfenrangniwennuan，danwojuedeyiweizhewokuanrongleniyijianshidesunhai，wobixushijianyexiangyaoniyongxingdonglaigenwoshuo。

 disan，youyibufenquanweizhuanjiachangchangshuofufuyoufenqibubihezhangfulakaijuli，yingdangguanliangenghemucaihao，zheishijishangshiduiyuneileizhangfumeiyouzaiwaibianyoujiande，jinjinlaogongjingshenchuguidefufu。shijishang，zhenduinanshengeryan，wanhunshiduoniandexifuduitadeyouhuolizaoyibingbudale。zheiyineishihoushidulakaijuli，youbuhenyuan，rouheraneryoujianju，caizuiyoupohuailide。

san、zenyangmingquezhangfuzhongguizhihouhedisanzhewanquanfenli?

 shijishangmeiyoufangfaquedingzhangfushibushihedisanzhehuiwanquanfenli，bingqiemeiyoufangfafenbiantashifouhaihuiyouxiayiciwaiyu，danjiaruzhangfuzhudongzhonggui，zhudongyunishenjiao，zhudongganlexuduoniqiangzhiguidingtazuodeshier，yibanzhuangkuangxia，hewodisanzheburongyihaiyoulianluole。

neishifoumeifaquebaozhangfushibushihuiwanquanzhonggui，shibushiburongyizaipanbian，jiububiwanliuni?

ziranbingbushi，youyudangnierhunzheizhongnantiyiyangmeifaquebao。

baxingfukuailejiyuzaitarendeshenshangzishenjiushishuobushifenbukekaode。

wodeyigeqiuzhuzhedeganshou，gongxiangjidahuoer。

wanliubingbushimudi，genjuwanliutigaozijicaisuanshi。

 wanliubingbushizailingyifangdeshenshangzhaowenti，zhishichixuziwowanshan，rangzishengengqiang，gengrouhe，gengyouxinlaidegongzuonengli，gengkeguansisuo，jingshenshizhigengdandu。

daidaowanliuxianqi，xubuxuyaota，jiushinilaiding，bingbushita。