有小三怎么挽回婚姻

　　youxiaosanzenmewanhuihunyinhunyinshenghuo，neigecengjingbeichengzuorenshengdaoluhaigangdeci，xianzaiquechenglexuduorendexinli“weijisifu”。zaizheiyangyigejiezouqingkuai、gaoyadeniandai，fuqizhijiandefenqihaoxiangbiyiwangxuduo。zhengzhi、lengbaoli、naizhigebendongxi，zheixiecengjingkanqilaimanzhangdeci，xianzaiquepinpinchuxianzaiwomendeshenghuo。danbiehaipa，zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi，wojintianjiuyaojinixianshangyifen“wanhuihunyinbidumiji”，rangnimendehunyinzhongranxiwang，rangganqingzaiduzhankai!

　　yi、kanqingxiankuang：hunyinbushierxi，danshiyebushijuedi

　　zuixian，womenyinggaimingbaiyigedaoli：hunyinbushierxi，juebuqingyanfangqi。danshitongshi，hunyinshenghuobingbushijuedi，buguanyudaoduodajiannan，doushiyoujiejuedefangfa。yinci，dangnifaxianhunyinzoudaojintoushi，bufangpingjingxialai，wenziji：“wozhendejinlilema?wozhendemeiyoubanfalemeiyou?”

　　youxieshihou，renzhisuoyiganjuehunyinshenghuowufawanhui，shiyinweixianrusixiangdemangqu，kanbujianfazhanfangxiang。shijishang，zhixuhuanyigejiaodu，huanyigexinlizhuangtai，nijiuhuifaxian，yuanxianhunyinlihaiyouzheimeduozhidefuchuhewanliudewupin。

　　qishixiangzhuishangyigenvsheng，zhiyaohuixianliao，jiuhuiyoubachengjiyuzhuishangta。youyuchuduixiang，benzhijiushiyige“tan”zi，henvshengtanshenghuo，jiaoxin、tanweilai，zhixunigentatouyuan，caiyoufazhandekongjian。jiarunibianshizuibaben，xianliaogangtiezhinan，neijiulaiweixingongzhonghao--"beigongyuzenixiji"，gongxiangniyifen，dingjiandeliaotiansiweidaotu，shinibawoliaotianguanjianqiaomen，heshiyaofengqudian，heshiyaogaoqingshangdeliaotian，yucitongshirangniyitaodingjianxiaoshouhuashu，shinijiejuebutongdechangjingdeduihua，doukeyidexinyingshou，henjiandanjiunengjiangnvhailiaonadaoshou。

　　er、hezuoshigongluqiaoliang，doushiwanhuihunyindediyibu

　　goutongjiaoliu，shihunyinlizuizhongyaodeyihuan，doushiwanhuihunyindediyibu。xuduofuqiwangwanglaidaofenshouchengdu，shiyinweigoutongbudaowei，zaochengwuhuihefenqijileichendian，zuihoubaofa。

　　倾听

　　lingting，shijiaoliudejiben。dangnifaxianyubanlvzhongjianyouwentishi，bufangfangxiazijideguandianheyijian，jingxialaitingyitingduifangxiangfaheganshou。huoxunihuifajue，yuanxianlingyifangbushinixiangxiangdeneimemanbujiangli，ta/tadouyouzijidekuchuyuwunai。

　　表述真实体验

　　lingtingyihou，bianshibiaoshu。danbiaoshubingbushichizeheweiqu，fanershizhenqiedibiaodazijideganshouhekanfa。liru，yekeyishuo：“woganjuenijinqiduiyuwoyouyixielengmo，zheirangwoganjuedaohentoule。”erbingbushi：“nicongbuzhaoguwo，niyagenjiubuxihuanwo!”qianzhebiaodaganshou，dierzhongshichizeheweiqu，shijixiaoguojiongranbutong。

　　探寻相同点

　　zaigoutongzhong，yidingyaonulitanxunxiangtongdian，erfeizhuzhongmaodun。liru，niyexudouxiwangnengjiatingxingfu、haizixinlijiankang，zheibianshixiangtongdian。weiraozheixiexiangtongdianjinxinggoutongjiaoliu，huirangnimenbijiaorongyidachengyizhihetuoxie。

　　san、lijiejiushisuochi，kaiqibicizhijiandexinfei

　　youxiaosanzenmewanhuihunyinlejie，shiwanhuihunyindeyaochi。youxieshihou，renzhisuoyiyubanlvfashengzhengzhi，shiyinweiqianquelejie。renmenzongshicongzijidejiaoduqukannanti，quehushilebierendeganshouheguandian。

　　换位思考一下

　　huanweisikaoyixia，shilijiedeqiantitiaojian。ruguoniyubanlvchanshengmaodunshi，bufangshizhesheshenchudidesikaowenti。huoxunihuifajue，yuanxianbierendexiangfahefangfabingmeiyouneimemanbujiangli，ta/tadouyouzijidedadaolihekuchu。

　　尊重个体差异

　　meiyigerendoushiduyiwuerdegeren，douyougezidexingqing、xiguansiweimoshi。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，yidingyaoxuehuizunzhongduifangdechabie，erfeisheqiuyizhi。jinyouzunzhonggetichayi，caikeyikuanrongbicizhijian，caikeyiranghunyingengweihexiemeiman。

　　表达感激

　　zaihunyinshenghuozhong，yidingyaoxuehuibiaodaganji。ruguoduifangbangnizuoleyijianshiqing，wulunhezhong，douyaojishibiaodaxieyihechengzan。neiyangnengrangduifangjuedebeiguanzhuhexinren，congertishengxianghuzhijiandeqinmiganhexinlaigan。