想要成功挽回前女友，一定不能做的几件事

 renmenbeifenshoushi，neixintongchangdoushijuedexurongxinbijiaoyanzhongdezaoshouleyanlidaji，zheileibeiyiqidejuedezaishehuixintaixueshangchengweiyouerruyuanjiaolv。-ruhe wanhui

 dangzhiaiderenliquzishendeneiyike，zheileitongkudezaochenghuiwomenyiqizuochuxuduopianjidegerenxingwei，zuihouguanlianyuelaiyuejilie。

jiaruniyaoyaoxiangwanliunishenaideta，neimajiuwubiyaofangzhixialiedegerenxingwei!

一，不必尝试打听你的竞争者。

beidisanzhechazuyingdangshinanxingshenkedetongle。

shenaidenvrenaidaoleqitanansheng，yaoyunitichufenshou，nidediyifanyingyidingshi“nizennengpaoxiawo?

tadaodishisheini?wonaerbibushangta?”

yincininengfeijinxinsiyiqiebanfawenlingyifang：

“neigerenjiujingyoushenmehaode?zuixihuantanaxie?”

“weihewodenvrenhuitiaoxuangentazaiyiqi?”

“neigerenyidingshigehuaidanba!tayidingshejifanganlexuduodezhaoshu、yidingshixinhuaipoce!”

ninengxinjidedatingneigerenxinxineirong，zhiwennvhaiweihe。

 danbuguannvhaimiaoshuneigeren，nidoushijuedetashiyigeshifencaogaoderen，feijinxinsiyiqiebanfashuodongnvxinghuijia，xiangyaozhidaozishenjiujingshuzainalile?

danshijishang，xuduorenwaiyuyebingfeinagedisanzheduomedejiannanxianzujianzha。zhishinimenliangxianghuguanxiyuanbenjiuchuxianlenanti!

yincinidecezhongdianzhendeyingdangshineigeren，eryingdangshizheiyinvhaiduinidexintai!jiqitaduinideguandian!

举例说明：

 jiaruyigerenshentigaidequeshi，neimatadangranjiuxiangqumaiyunfugaipianbugaibuxin。erjiarutanaxieyebuque，jiuchedimeiyoubixuquxunzhaobubiyaodezibupin。

yincizheibingfeiwaibiandeyunfugaipianyinyouleta，zhishitajuedelebushufucaihuixunzhaoyunfugaipian。

dangnidenvpengyoujuedeneigerencaikeyijitaai，neimanigengyingdangfanshengziji：nijitadeai，lingyifangqueshijieshoulaidaome?

 zongeryanzhi，guoduodesichannvhai、sichannagenidoubuqingchudenansheng，zongshijinidexintaiwufakongzhi、gengweinaonu，yizhiyuebiannimenliangxianghuguanxi。

liangzhezhijianrangtarenlaijiedingni，bibushangjinzaogaibianxianzhuang、fujianxiyinzhu!

二，不必追踪调查她。

 beiyiqihuizaochenggengbijiaoyanzhongdemeiyouanquangan，zaizheileiyouerruyuanjiaolvdeposhixia，nijianghuixiangquchalingyifangdeshoujishang、zhuizonglingyifang。

 xiangkanyixialingyifangshifouzaiwaibianlingyouzhuangkuangle，yaoxiangzhangwozheiyinvxingdaliangdexinxineirong，yaoxiangweizijixinliyigecankaodaan。

 dangnvxingmingquetichufenshoushi，shijishangjiuzaoyiduinizaochengleyanfan。dangniyeyouzheileihenmingsichandezhuyaobiaoxian，neimajiuzongshitishengtaduinideyanfanzhiqing。

 yiqianwoduizenmezhuinvshengdoushiyiwusuozhideren，zhizhiwangbianyaowokanguoqingshenglaoludewenzhangneironghoucaizhidaoyuanxianzhuinvhaizishiyijianduomedejianyideshier，tadexiedewenzhangneirongliyouxuduozhuinvhaizidejiqiao，yaoxiangkandedixiongnenggou baiduqingshenglaoluqingshenglaoluxielexuduolianaimiji，congdahuanvhaidaoyouhui、yizhishiqujiudiancanting，doujiangdehenxini。

dangniqueshikongzhibuledeyaoxiangzhangwota，neimanenggou lijixiangtalejie。

 jiarunvhaibuxiangyaobiaoshude，nihaikeyizhaoyixielejienimenliang、keyixinlaidepenyoucongtaneibianlejieyixialingyifangjinqigongzuofangmian、yishizhuxingshangmianyixienaxiedadebianhua，danqiejirangnvhailejie。

youyuzaiquanbunvxingyanzhong，yigehuizhuizongdiaochataderentongchangquanshichaojibiantai，quanshineixinwaiquderen。

三，严禁电话轰炸，短消息搔扰。

dangnvhaifahuojiaruheimingdanrenmendeneiyike，xuduorenyaojiqiebiaoshu，yaoxiangxiaochuwujie。

yincijiudakailedianhua、duanxiaoxidekongxi，yaoshilingyifangnenghuiyijuhuaneixindoushishufuxuduo。

 dannvhaizaixintaidebaozhadianshang，shibenzhibuxiangyaotingyiqiebiaoshude，yexuyeshineigetaxiangjielifangzhidecijixingyuan，yejiushishuoliankandoubuyuanjiandaoni!

yiqiegenniyouguandexinxineirongchuxiandoushidianbaotadexintai，tiaoxuanlijipingbidiao。

 yincizheishijueduibingbushijiangli、tongdianhuabiaoshudeshijihui。zheishiniyidingyaodeshijitashineikongjianjingyijing，rangtahaohaodilizhi。yongshijianquxiaochutaduinidefumianxinxiyinxiang。

四，严禁一系列威协的事儿。

 dangnibuyuansangshita，danzaoyimeiyouzichanwanhuilingyifangdeneishihou，youxierenjiuhuicaiyongshifenjiduanhuadefangshi——weixienvxing。

 “nifumubuqingchuniyunanshengtongjushenghuoleba?niruguotichufenshouwoyeduinishuodeqinren，nigenwoshuilehenshuci，haiyuwotongjushenghuole!”

“jiarunikeyigenwotichufenshou，neimejiujiangwojinidequanbulipindouhaihuijia!”

“jiarunikeyigaosuwotichufenshou，woqiannideneijiushi40wanjiubiexiangyao，woyimaoqianyeburongyiguihainide!”

“niruguoyuwotichufenshouwoyeyunidexiaohuobanmenshuonichuanguochan，kanzhenihairuhebaochineizhuangzuotianmeidepinpaixingxiang。”

zuoyouquanshirenmendexueshengzuoguodetaiguodeweixie，naizhiyeyouzaiyongzishendexingmingzuoweixie：

“niruguoyuwotichufenshou，woyetiaolouzisha、tiaohu、zijinjinimen!”

 zheizhongquanshishifenjiduandefangshi，jinvhailiuyoulebijiaoyanzhongdexintaichuangshang;yejinideweirenkanqilaihenjiduan，lingrendanxin，xiangdujue。

ruguonizuochuzheizhongshierdeneishihou，zaoyibazishentuiluchediduankaile。

jishiyounvhailinshirangbu，neimadoushisuishisuiditiqianzhunbeizhehaiji、taochu。

 heyigeqingxubuwending、jiduanhuadenanshengzaiyiqi，shishilingrenjiqiquefaanquangande，zongshirangtarendujueni!shizhongyibuhuijia!

五，不必无事献殷勤。

xuduonanshengzhishizhizhongdoujuedeyaoshiduinvxinghao，nvxingjiuhuiaishangta、jiuhuihuijia。

yinciwunaidetahuigezhonggeyangsongli!gezhonggeyangbiaozhongcheng!gezhonggeyangzhiqian!gezhonggeyangquyue!

dantashinanyijiejueshizhinantide。

又一个板栗：

 rutongyigexiaohaizikaoshichengjibutaihao，niyibiantahuikaoshichengjitigaojiujitamenmailingshi、goumaishouji，kaolvtaquanbudechongdong。

zuizhongtachihaochihaolahenxiexieni，danxuexifangfahuanshiyiqiaobutong。

cikeniyaomaiyuan，wohaihaochihaohededuinini，niruhehaibuchengqi。

danzheihaoxiangbingfeizhengbuchengqidenanti，zhishinibenzhibuqingchunantizainaer，yongbuduifangshi 。

 yiyangde，dajiatichufenshoudeyuanguma，yebingfeinimeisongtamaizheihaoduogelipinzheimejiandan，zhishilianggerenjiaowangdeneishihouchuxianlexuduodefenqi，youxuduodegerenxingweifangshidebuzhengque。

 danchunxingduitahaoshijuebuhuileyiqienanti，niwubijiaohuizheiyixiaohaiqiadangdejiaoxuefangshi，chulizheiyinvxingzhenshikunhuodenanti!

 ruguoniduizheiyinvxingtouhuaisongbaodequyueshi，nirengranbumingbaizenyangjiaowanglianggerendeguanlian、bumingbainvrendexin、buqingchunvxingzhenshiyaoxiangdeshisha。

yincinvhaibuxiangyaohuilaishouzui。

jishinvxinghuijiale，neiyejinjinlinshidebeishougou，zongyouyitianhaihuiyouyuniweimanerlikai。

bingqieguitianyiyangwanliuzuikongbudejiushishuo——cihouniyizhizaitayanqianyaoguizheguoyibeizi，shizhongyezhanbuzhu。