婚后冷战，为什么丈夫总是对我冷暴力

 zenmechulijiatingbaoli？buqingchushizenmehuishi，womeimaodanduguanxianshiershao，kedaixiaohaizi、nengyangjiahukou、haibagonggongpopohongdehenkaixin，chengdeshangdangjinhaoliangmu，juranrangzhangfujuedenanshoule，zheihuojurangangkaishiyijianshijiatinglengbaolile！shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？

 gangkaishiwodoubuganjue，keshitachixusantianbugenwoshuohuadeqingkuangxia，wowanquanpanduantashilaiqueshi。zenmechulijiatingbaoli？wodiyifanying，biequqifen，womeirijialijiawaimangdeyaosile，nijuranhaigenwogaojiazhongwajie。shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？。

 zenmechulijiatingbaoli？wozuibianenatongyi，naozhongqueqianguazhelibaitiandeyongdejiaoxuekejian，yeyouxiezuokexujiaodewenzhang，wotaobaowangjinrixudaodehuo......，

zongeryanzhi，naoronglianglideshiqingmeiyouyijianhezhangfuxiangguan。

zhangfuyinqiejiqigenwoliaogongzuofangmianyixieshunyihuoburuyidexiaoshi，wodeqingkuangshibunaifan。

yizhidaokaifanle，zhangfuhaiyaoliao。

 xiangtingtajianghuadekonger，daocantingchufangjihaizinalewan，youjiwangminhuilexinxineirong，haikanguoyijidianshilianxuju，youshihoufanyingshenlaifuhezhangfujiju。

quanbuquanguocheng，quanshitayigerenzaishuo，keshiwoyagenmeizaiting。

wohaijidedianshijizhongdejuqing，dantaneishihoujiangguonaxie，wochedibujide。

bujinzheiyici，yicicixianliao，quanshitayigerenzaishuo，erwohaizaiganqita。

2、接下去的追忆，更为要我心惊。

wobujinmeitingtajianghua，haishifenshilidebaxianliaojiqieduanle！

youyufanchiwanlewoqumangle，zaixiantandanwushijian。

zhangfudejiqingrutongbeiguanbidianyuandeshoujishang，yaranerzhi，tashenqingyixiefanmen。

woxuanzehulvetadexiaoxintai。

zaixiaoshufang，wobingmeiyouqueshizaimang，dajigezi，shuayihuiershoujishang，sangezhongtouguoqu，caixielehaojibaizi。

rutongyiweichuangzuozheshuodeneiban：“nibushiqueshizaiqinfen，zhishizaiyanchuqinfen！”

zhengzhongjiantayaowozaoxiexi，wochedimeidangyihuishier。

woningyuanhuaizheshoujishangshuachushierdian，yebuyuanyipeitaliaoyihuiertian。

jiushishuozheizhongxiaoshirangzhangfujuedebeilengdan，manmanbazhangfudeguanzhuhexixindoujixiaoqianmeiyoule。

 renmenzongshiyiweihunyinshenghuozaoyilaogu，zaigongzuoshangzijintourudeshijianhehuoliyulaiyuduo，chixujiyachengxingheqinrenjiaowangdeshijian，jiushishuoneiduanduanjiaowangshijianli，doubuyixinyiyidekandailingyifang。

3、碾过骆驼图片的最终一根稻草

wohenxihuanjingchangaoye，zhangfuganjuejingchangaoyeduishentibuhao，wobuhuishui，tayebushui。

woxiantayongkurouji，xiangbudaotashibizhewozaoxiexi。

youshihouwoxiabanzao，tahaimeiyoushui，xianggenwoliaoyihuier，wotingbujian2miaojiuhanranrushui。

haikanbushangdeshuoniyigenanderuhejiuliaozheizhongwuguanjinyaodeshiqing。

shuodeduole，redezhangfufahuo：“neimewogenniliaosha？fuqitantaoguoshime？”

deque，richangshenghuoyuanbenjiumeijigedashi，doushiyixiewuguanjinyao，errenmenbuguoshiyibanyanhuofuqi。

pengyoudavshuo：“richangshenghuodewuguanjinyaobenjiushishuofuqizhijiandelequ！”

woyizhimeitihuidaozheihuadezuigaojingjie。

neiyitianzhangfuyizhihenkaixin，yizhizhidaohenwan，xiangzaigenwogongxiangyixiatagongzuozhongzaoshoujiangshangdeshiqing。

woxiangtashixiangyaowozanmeitajiju，jieguowoyichurukoujiushishuo：“youmeiyaoduoshaoqian，duiyume。”

woduitazaigongzuoshangdeqinfenzhiruowangwen，duitatuchuchengjishushiwudu。

zongganjuejiajiahuhunanshengdouhuiyangjiahukou，nizuodeyemeiyoushenmefeichang。

4、这不是突发性的难题，只是存款已久的症状

jiatinglengbaolicongbushiyitianliangtiandefenqichanshengde，xuduo qingkuangxia，womenzaijiaowangzhongfanlexuduo buzhengqueerbuzizhi。

chediyikaolingyifangdebaorongherenshou，junhengxianghudeguanlian。

 liru，woyizhijuede，zhangfushibeigonggongpopoguanaiguoduo，qianquedulijingshen，yincichangchangbatayijianshidefadiayikaodegerenxingweizuoweijiaogui，buyemener，youshihouhenshiyanjuan。

 huiyikanyixia，zhangfubingbingbushizongfadia，zaiwaimiantajiulenglianmiantan，xuduo shijichuquanshitayigerennaxia，congbuwoyongcaolao。

keshiwoni，wokanqilaigexinghuadandu，qishiwaiqiangzhonggan，sixubijiaomingan，feichangrongyifahuo。

zhangfuyizhizaiweijiatingxingfuqianrang，yemeiyouqiadangjiangjietadegerenxingwei。

 woyizhiyiweizishennulidedaliang，yizhihenlinzanmeilingyifang，kexuanzexinghushitayiyangzaiweizheiyijiaqinfennulidekeguanshishi，ranglingyifangxinrusihui。

5、家中和工作的均衡难题

 zhangfushigehenchuantongshideren，zaitayanzhong，qinrenshizhongshidiyiweide，zaizaijiacongxiaoyishizhuxinghaibucuo，babamamayemeiyoushenmechengdan，haichangchangjitamenzhutui。yincitaduiqiancaimeiyoufeichangdeqipan，yedaozhiletameiyoufeichangqiangdegongzuoyexin。

 keshiwo，haozhangshijiandouyishizhuxingzaijingjifazhangongzuoyalijiaoweidadeziranhuanjingzhong，jiusuanzaoyijinyiyushi，xinlidezaodongbuanconglaimeiyouxiaotuiguo。

youqishiwunianqian，babadebingzhuyuanzhiliao，wogangmailaifang，shoushangqianhenshao，shifendanyouqianbuzujibabakanbing。

jinguanzuizhongcouqileyiyaofei，keshiyijianshijiangwoxinliduiqiancaideqipansuoyoujiqichuqu。

yijianshieryan，babamamagonggongpopoyulaiyulao，zhinengyulaiyuduodeqiancaikeyiweihuwodefumu！

bingqie，woxinzhongdeyeyoushiyuyuanfang，wogengxiangyaohuashijianquzhengqian，erbushitongqingdali。

liangrendoumeiyoucuo，youyiyideshirenmendeyishi。

lejienantichuzainali，chuliqilaijiufeichangrongyile，wojijiquzhaonanpengyouxianliao，yibuxincunyuanqidedengtajijihehao。

zhangfufeichanghaohong，yigezhenzhengainiderenzhendeshishebudeniduohuaqilihongta，yeshebudejinishangxinzhangshijiande。

richangshenghuoyouchengqianshangwansuosui，zheiyebuguoshizaiqizhongyixiaojian，lianggerenxunsuzhongguiyuhao，xiufuwangrideshenghuodejiezou。

 hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？lijingzheijianshiqing，yinweiwogaoqingchurendeyishengjiaozhang，yehenduan，liangrenhuxiangzhaogudewennuan，zongshengyuyirendudangyimiandehaozhuang，youshihoutingzhuheshenbianrenyiqishangxiyanxiadejingse，caigengyouqilixiangqian。