面对丈夫的冷暴力，如何正确对待

 nilejiejiatinglengbaolima？zenmechulijiatingbaoli？youbieyuyoucikejianderoushencanhaidejiabaogerenxingwei，jiatinglengbaolidalianglaiyuanyuanshizheweixie，yuyanjingong，helixingcaozongfangfa。shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？

 shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？yongjingshenzhemocanhailingyifang。zenmechulijiatingbaoli？tashiyizhongjingshenshizhilingnve，zheileifangfazaochengdejidajingshenyalihuishilingyifangtiejinbenkui，lingwaisuizhezheshihunyinshenghuodejiedihebuxinren，zuihouzaochenglehunyinshenghuodewanbi。

 xinzhongguochengliheyzaoyijiehunwunianle，youyuyderentiyuangu，tamenyizhidoumeinengyaogexiaohai。ybijiaomingan，danxinxinzhongguochengliyinerliquta，yeshiyidabadefuyao。xinzhongguochenglidemama，yejiushiydejiapoyekanbushangy。laixinzhongguochengliheyxiaoxiaozhushi，yizhianyuyixiebushengdandelaomujizheileidehua。ypiqiruan，jiapodewenhuajiaoyurangtahuangkongbuan，quehuanshihuoshengshengdejienajiapode“shanjierenyi”tiyi。

 zongsuan，ydeqifuhaoxiangranglaotianyetingjianle，ychiwanhenduoniandeyaoyezongsuanyongyoujianxiao。zaiyueshituichileyizhouyihou，yannabuzhuzishendejidongdexin，qumailaiyanyunshizhi。zaijialimanhuaizishenjiaolvbuandexin，lveweizhandoudeshouhaoxiangzaoyizhuyaobiaoxianleydeqingxu。dangyanyunzhishangchuxianruoyinruoxiandeergenlvxianshi，yzaoyinengtingdaozishenxingfenyoujiaolvbuandexintiaoshengle。shiduofenzhonghou，yzuozhezuobianqishang，liuyoulezishendeleishui。tazongsuanhuaileyun。

 xinzhongguochenglishoudaoydedianhua，yshitaxiabanlezaodianhuilai。wentashenmeshiqing，yyoushenshenmimibuyuanshuo。xinzhongguochenglitankouqijinguantaweicengchizeguoynaxie。keshimamadekuaisutuozhan，congbabaneiyibeigangkaishidanchuan，xinzhongguochenglibuxiangqitazheiyibei，bianchenglebuxiaozhizi。

 yxingfendekanjianneizhangyanyunshizhi，tazongsuanwuxuzaikanjiapodemiansele，xinzhongguochengliyebuhuiyizhineimayuyuguahuanle。tazhidaolexinzhongguochenglixiabanle，xinzhongguochenglibujiumenkai，tajiuxiangpudaoxinzhongguochenglideshenshang，keyixiangqidulixiaoxiaozaoyichengxingdeshiguanpeitai，taannaixialezishendezishi。tashuo，xinzhongguochengli，huaiyunle，renmenzongsuanyongyouxiaohaile。

 xinzhongguochenglitingzhulehuanxuezidezishi，mangwen，shizhendema？niquedingma？woyaodangfuqinle？shuozheshangqulaolaodijinbaoy，youdianjizheyhuaileyun，mangsongdiaoshou，haipasunhaidaoxiaohai。xinzhongguochenglimangfuzheyzuozhe，xixinlejieguanjiandian，suihoujibicibabamamadoubaolezheiyixibao。

 jiapoyemangzhezhuangbaowupin，tiqianzhunbeihuilaizhaoliaoy。yijiarendouchenjinzaiyyunqi，xinzhongguochengliyouhoudeyuyuezhong。ykaishixuexizenyangzuogemama，yegangkaishijiezhefububingbuda，xiashoutiqianzhunbeihaizichushengzhihoubixudewupin。xinzhongguochengliyuelaiyuegengweipinminggongzuozhong，weiyzhihoushengchanzhizaozuozhunbei，jiapoyeyibuduiylengyanxiangdai，yuelaiyuefanbeiguanaile。

 yquyiyuanjiancha，jiapopeizheyqu，dafubayjiaojingongsibangongshi，nazhebinganduiyshuoshenghuarenshen，zheiyixiaohaibukeyiyao，jinzaoshoushuzhiliaoba。jiapodeweixiaoningjiele，ylengzhule。jiapobiwenjiumeiyoubanfalemeiyou？dafubaibaishou，duiyshuo，jinzaoshoushuzhiliaoba，shoushuzhiliaoyoufengxianxing，nijianghuizhihoumeiyoujiyuhuaileyun。

 jiapoheychechugongsibangongshi，jiapolikelengxialelian，gaoshengzhiyiyzaolenaxienie。biantuozheyhuilejia，likebazheijianshiqinggaozhilexinzhongguochengli。ychuileilizaiyipang。xinzhongguochengliyishizhijianjienabushangzheiyishier，zhuantouchulejiamenkou。

 diertianxinzhongguochenglihuijia，yxiangqianyinglai。xinzhongguochenglibuluhenjidelakaileyqianqushoutibaodeshou，zhuantoujinwofangbaochuquyichuangbeizi，shuo，nishentibuhao，woshuixiaoshufangba。ybenjiuxinliqiaocui，tingdaoxinzhongguochenglizheihua，bengjindeshenjingxitongyishunjianbengkuile，tagaoshengzhiyi：“nandaoshuobukeyiwanjiuzheiyixiaohaishiwojuededema！”xinzhongguochenglibaibaishou，wulunydebenkui，shierbujiandelikai。shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？

 zenmechulijiatingbaoli？congneishiqi，xinzhongguochengliduiylengyanxiangdai，shiruowuyiwu。jiapoduiyyouguozhierbuji，ydexinbengkuile，jibianshiyyigerenlaidaoyiyuanmenzhendongshoushu，yyigerenchengdanzhesangshixiaohaideqingxu，beijiapochizezhe，xinzhongguochengliyeduitabuwenbuwen，zaitazuibixuguanhuaideqingkuangxia，zheiyijiameiyoujitagaiyoudewennuan……zhangfudexintaishenshendidecijixingzheyzaoyikuaipinweiposuidexin……ynaizhixiang，jiaruxinzhongguochengligaoshengxuanxiejiuhaole。

 tajiukeyibaituole，congzheiyiyayigandeyinyudejiatinghuanjingzhongbaituochuqu。danshixinzhongguochengliquandoubuyongshuo，xinzhongguochenglibuguanzhutadeyiqie，yeyibuduitayoububiyaodexintaile。ylejie，xinzhongguochenglizaibizhetajijimingquetichuliyi，danshiyshebude，tazhinengchengdanzhe，zaicirenshouzhe。

 zaihunyinshenghuoli，fuqiganqingfashengzhengzhihou，gangkaishiduilingyifangdexintailengdan，kandailingyifangdeyiqieshierdouzhuyaobiaoxianchubuwenbuwendemoyang，zheiyeshiyizhongouda。rangbeihaifangxintaiyalichengdanzhida，daozhidesunhaizhizhong，shibunengyugude。

 dangzaochengnantihou，youxuandediyizhongbiaozhunziranshijijizhudonggoutongjiaoliu，qujiejuekunnan。jiaruzaoyilaidaobukeyichulidechengdushi，gengyaojinshendekaolvdaoqingxi，buguanzuochunaxietiaoxuan，qidaidajiadoububihouhuimoji。

jiarufufuyiqianzaoyigangkaishizaochengjiatinglengbaoli，gairuhechulihejiejueni？

1、彼此必须先理智，在沟通交流

 zhenduijiatinglengbaolidingshixianghujiaowangzhongchuxianlenantibingqianquegoutongjiaoliu，xuduo fenqishijishangquanshishenghuosuoshi，danhuxiangdoubuyuanxuehuifangxiazishenxiaoxiaomianbuqurangbulingyifang。zuihoudejieguojiushishuofenqiyuelaiyueda，fuqijianyounaxienantijiugoutongjiaoliushenmewenti，huxiangdeyichengxiangdaihexinlairangxianghudouhuodebuneimalei。dangyigerenxinhenlei，jiuzhixiangchenmo，yiqiedou“buxiangshuo”jiushishuojiatinglengbaolidougangkaishi。

2、积极“缴械”向另一方忍让

 xianghudoutaiguoqianghan，zongshitongguiyujin，rangbicishenxianwufamibudechengdu。nanshengshizhongxiai“wenroutitie”deairen，nvxinggengxihuan“paerduo”。youyu“paerduo”budanpalaopo，aiqizi，gengpalaopofahuo。

3、不可以两地分居

 xuduo lengbaoliyikaishideqingkuangxiajiushishuoliangdifenju，suyushuo，fufushiwoshichuangzhengchaochuangjiaohe。yidangangkaishiliangdifenju，jiulianzuijichude“chuangjiaohe”dejiyudoumeile。yikaishilengbaolizaiyiqiyexuyixienankan，danhuoxujiushishuoyipenghuoshiyichujianjiujiejueleyiqiandebuyukuai。

 zenmechulijiatingbaoli？fufudoushiyigangkaishidelurenfazhanqushichenglianren，quanshi2gedulidegeren，zaixianghudeyishizhuxinghexiangchuzhong，haowuyiwenyeyoumoca，zhinenghuxiangdekuanrongheyuanliang，caikeyizoudegengzhangyuan。zhinengxianghudeqianjiu，caikeyirangaiburongyimiediao。zhinengliangrendouweileaituoxie，caikeyikaikuotiankong。