夫妻婚后冷战怎么办？如何修复这些裂缝

 jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？fuqijianbixugoutongjiaoliu，gengbixulingting，bubirangjiatinglengbaolibingshuangzhunidehunyinshenghuo。hunyinshenghuozhong，fufubicibixuhuxiangzhaogu，huxiangguanhuai，huxiangbaorong。zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？

 lhexiaojshiliangxiaowucai，gaoxiaomeidaxuebiyejiuhuijiajialinglejiehunzhengshu，biyelebandeyanxi。jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？ljiaoweiyaohao，xiaojni，youdianerwusuozuowei，kegaoxiaoqinei，lbingmeiyoufajuexiaojshizheiyangderen。keshijiehunzhengshudoulingle，younengruheni？lyeshigeyaomianzideren，jiushizheiyangjiangjiuzaiyiqile2nian，neiyitianqueshishichengshoubushang，lyiguopianjidehua、mingquetichuleliyi、doubujijilianluoxiaoj，daizhuxiaohaihuileniangjiaren。zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？

zuizhongtamendehunyinshenghuojieguozenyang？kewulunzenyang，fuqijianbuyinggaichanshengxialiezhuangkuang。

一、争吵时向另一方说偏激得话。

 fuqizhengchaohenyiqiezhengchang，zhongjiufuqijianyeshibixuxiangchude。kefuqijianyinggaishidakaixinfeidegoutongjiaoliu，erbushiyiweidexutaohebaoyuan，shijishangrichangshenghuohuanshinvxingjiaoweifeichangrongyineiyang，bingjiangzheileifangfashizuogoutongjiaoliu。

 jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？buguanzenyang，goutongjiaoliuquanguochengyeshiyigelingtingdequanguocheng，zongrannvxingdeyuyanyoudianerjianruide，youdianermanbujiangli，zuoweinanshenghaiyaohuoda，ananwenwenditingzishendenvxingjiangwanzishengaoxingdebukaixindeshiqing，guohouzaikaizhanjinyibudegoutongjiaoliu，jianxintashifangfa。yaoburanfeichangrongyizaochengguojixingwei。

 jiarushuolepianjidehua，gaizenmeban？jilingyifangyigexiangyong，yigewen，yijuwennuandehua。huoshiyouyifangjiutiaoxuan“ng”、“a”、“e”deyinggaihe。zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？

二、争吵时无缘无故就明确提出离异。

 nvrenxiangyaoxuxutaotaojijushiyijiduren，zhengchaoquanguochengxintaiyuanbenjiuxingfen，feichangrongyilengyanlengyu，danzhongjiunvxingzhaoliaojiazhongbijiaoduo，nanxingnenggouduolejieyixia。“liyi”erziqingdahuoeryebubisuibianshuochurukou，feichangrongyirangfuqijianzaochengliefeng，qingganhuijianjiandidejiandi，genghuirangfufufenqishengji，bicidoushizaochengyuanhen，naonuxiadekuangyansheiyemeifabakong。

 qingfuqijiangoutongjiaoliuyaozhangwodu，xuehaojijikuanrong，jilingyifangbiaoshudejiyu，bubizhinengzeguaiyuruma，zuizhongyaodeshixiankongzhizhuzishendexintai，jiaruqueshililehun，nishiqueshifeichanggaoxingma？jiushiniyaoxiangdejieguoma？yiqieqingsansierhouxing。rutongwojiarenzongshuo“shuohuanenglijingrendedanaoma？”“nizheixiaohaizenmeliaotianbulijingrendedanaoni？”

三、争吵后从来不积极联络承认错误。

 juedaduoshufuqizhengchaohoutiaoxuanmeihua、bulicai。youshihoushuohuayeshibuduijing，neiyangdetiaoxuanshicuode。fufumeiyougeyechou，duima，jiaruyouyuaiyuqingmian，zuochurangzishendehouhuideshi，nijuedezhidema？jiaruqueshibuyuanyihelingyifanglingjuligoutongjiaoliu，nenggoutiaoxuanshoujiweixin、qq、duanxiaoxidengfangfakaizhan，jiaruzaibuhao，nenggouhuanyigehuatitaolun，danhaiyaoxuduorenmingquetichulai，wojianyizheigerenyingdangshinanxing。

 yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？zuizhong，fuqijianyingdanghuxiangzunzhong，xianghulijie，yiqiebaifangzaimingbiaomian，bubiziyanziyuziyanziyude，xiabaoyuan，xiachize，shuoyishenghanhanhuhudehua，youyiqilingyifang，zuizhongdajiahuihuodenaxie？liefeng，bunengxiubudeliefeng，liyi，yifayifabukeshoushidehunyinshenghuo。