夫妻婚后冷战，最痛苦的是什么

 hunyinshenghuobenyinggaishixingfukuailede，danshiqueyingezhongyuanyin，zaocheng lezhongduotongchudehunyinshenghuo、yayigandehunyinshenghuo、buxingdehunyin、yeyouyoumingwushidehunyinshenghuozheixie。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？jinguan“meimanhunyinquanshileiside，erbuxingdehunyindouyougedebeiju”yiyuguinalehunyinshenghuodeqingkuang，keshihuanshinengdagaixiaojiechu，zheixietongchudehunyinshenghuoshinaxiede，tongchangmeiyizhishenbeijuhunyinshenghuodereneryan，douganjuezishendehunyinshenghuoshizuitongchudeqingkuang。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

neima，hunyinshenghuoli，zuitongchudeshishenmeni？

一、一方冷暴力，却不放手。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？jinqiyulaiyuduodezixunzhe，fanyingzishenzhengzaoshouhunyinshenghuodelengbaoli，henshitongchuheyayigan，buqingchugaizenmeban。younianqingfufu，yeshizhonglaofulaoqi。lengbaoli，jianghuihuiyinweigezhonggeyangyuangu，lirumeiyouganqing，liruyifangfancuowu，liruyigerendegexingburongyigoutongjiaoliu，zheixie。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 keshi，jiarushuoqingganchuxiannantibunengdiaohe，nisheqihunyinshenghuo，duifenbieyeshiyizhongbaituo，danshi，lengbaolihaibufangshou，naizhishixianglengjiuleng，xiangrejiure，zheizhenduixiangaixihunyinshenghuodereneryan，xiangdangyulajushidecuican。

二、一方爆力，却无尽头。

 baoli，yeshisunhaihunyinshenghuodeyidazhimingxingyaosu。youkenengshirentibaoli，yekenengshijingshenbaoli。fuqijian，youfenqiyouzhengzhidounenggoushiyiqiezhengchangde，keshi，chulizheizhongfenqidefangfa，jueduibunengyongbaoli。yongbaolidefangfa，zhiyoushisunhaihunyinshenghuo，erburongyiwanhuihunyin。

 lingrenchibuxiaodeshi，zheileibaoli，haidecunjinchi，yuelaiyueyanzhong，nikanbujianbaolitingzhideshenghuo，haoxiangyaoshiyoufenqi，mashanghuiyoubaoli。lingrenzaodongbuandeshi，niyongyuanbuzhidao，nayitianhuranlingyifangjiupaifeng，niyejiumomingqimiaozaodaolebaoli。yinci，zheileihunyinshenghuodetongchu，qujueyuzaodongbuandehaipahejiaozao。

三、一方外遇，却不再回头。

 cengjingdewoshuoguo，waiyushihunyinshenghuodeaizheng。yidanwaiyu，hunyinshenghuomeibanfazaizhongguidaoyiqiezhengchang。zheizhenduihunyinshenghuolibeipanbiandeyifang，shibukeyichengdandehunyinshenghuozhitong。leidian，jianxindian，doubukongbu，kongbudejiushishuopanbian。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？bingqiezheileipanbian，douhaimeihuiguotoudezhengzhao，wulunnihaohuashuojin，yewulunninaodaotianfandifu，tarengranzijizuozijide，quanranbugunidetihui，yebuguanbugujiadeshengsiyouguan，zheileiwaiyuquejianchibuzaihuitouderen，shijishang，bubiyehao，shengde，zishentongchu。

四、一方痴心，却被无情。

 chiqingderen，yizhibeizishendechixinsuoshang。youyuchixin，zaoshoulingyifangdeaixi，neibianshixingfukuaile。jiaruchixinpianyaopengdaojueqingderen，tongchangjiushishuoyizhongtongchudeqingkuangle。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 ninuliquanbu，qingqingkandai，quehuanbudaolingyifangdexincunganen，haiyiweilisuoyingdang。yinci，zhenduinidenuli，tazhiruowangwenchongerbuwen，tazhituzishendetihui，niaizenyangzenyang，neijiushinizishendeshi，yutabuxianggan。

 zheileiren，zisizili，zishen，quebudongzhenxi。buzuosunhainideshijiushishuodaxingle，youderenhaixiangfanguyishanghaizuini，buaixihaisunhai，haiwuqing，zheileiqingkuang，jiushishuochiqingderenzuitongchudekeyoukewuqingkuang。fangyewangbudiao，guoyeguobutaihao。wulunzenyangtiaoxuan，quanshizaizishenzhemoziji。

五、一方软弱无能，却还败家女。

 youyizhongren，zixiaojiaoguan，zhangdalechengjialiyehou，meiyougongzuonengliyangjiahukou。nianqingdeshihou，jianghuiyoubabamamaxiangbang，shenghuocouhecouhe。keshi，babamamasuishuyigao，huoshishentibuhao，bukeyizhaoliaotale，neimatarengrantianxingbubian，bunuliquzhuanqianyangjiahukou，querengranchengxizishendebuliangxiguan，chihepiaodu，meiyangbaijianv。zheileiren，duinijianghuiyefeichanghao，keshijiushishuobuchengdan。ruanruowunenghaibaijianvderen，shilingrentoutongde。

六、一方大逆不道，却也有理。

 anchangshuo，zheileiqingkuangbuhuizuchenghunyinshenghuodetongchu。danxuduoqingkuangxia，fufufenqihuoshizhangqixingbuhedegenbenyuanyinyejiulaiyuanyuzheigewenti，poxiguanxihuoshiwengxunanti。yuanbenfufubicijiechengfufu，lingyifangdebabamamagenzishenjiubianchengyinqin，jinguanbibushangxueqin，danyouyuzishenzuiaideren，yeyingdangyiqidanfuxiaodeyiwu。dantongchangjiuhuiyouyifangzhenduilingyifangdebabamamadanibudao，naizhishijuelie，huoshilingnvedeqingkuang。

 danibudao，jiudanibudaoba，taqueyeyouli，haoxiangdanibudaoyeshilisuoyingdanghuoshizuigaichuanyangdeshi。zheihuiranglingyifangshifentongchude。yinci，youcizhuangkuangde，ruoxiangzhuyile。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？hunyinshenghuoli，zuitongchudeshijianghuiyeyouxuduozhuangkuang，keshisuoyourendetihuibuyiyang，nengjienadeshuipingbuyiyang，yexu，suoyourenyanzhongzuitongchudeqingkuangyebuyiyang。danwulunruhe，hunyinshenghuocunzaidewenti，jiuyingdanghaohaodidechuli，buyongduobi，yaoshishibingzhexingfukuailedemudi，ailingyifangdemudi，meiyounanyijiejuedenanti！xingfukuaile，queshishibixuliangxinyiqideqinfen！