面对冷暴力婚姻，夫妻要学会这6个原则

 zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？hunyinshenghuozhongguanzhuheguanxinlingyifangshibunengquefade，niruguobuguanxinnidelingyiban，henyoukenenghuijitamendaozhiyizhongnimeiaitadejuede。lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？yinweilengbaolilihundechulifangfayounaxie？jiejuefuqiganqingdeliugebiaozhun，xuehaohoujinihunyinshenghuogengxingfukuaile。

1、认识自己，关注另一方

 hunyinshenghuozhongguanzhuheguanxinlingyifangshibunengquefade，niruguobuguanxinnidelingyiban，henyoukenenghuijitamendaozhiyizhongnimeiaitadejuede。zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？yinciyidingyaochangchangguanzhulingyifang，guanxintajinqidongtaixing，shitayouyizhongbeigaoduzhongshidejuede。lingwainiyebaozhengrenshiziji，jienazijideyoudianhequedian，zhinengzailejiezijiyihou2geyouxiurencainengzhangqidehexiexiangchu。lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？yinweilengbaolilihundechulifangfayounaxie？，youyudajialiangrenyuanbenwuqinwugu，jiushishuoyouyuenailecaixianghulaidaoyiqi，huxiangzhaoguhuxiangshouhou，womenyaoxinhuaiganenlingyibanweirenmennulidequanbu。

 eryanyuzishenni，jiushishuoyaoguanshuzishendegerenxingwei，feichangshihuisunhaidaolianrendeyixiegerenxingwei，yaoqujiuzhengdiaojie。youderenduihunyinshenghuobuchengdan，xiaizongrongzishen，quebuzhidaoneiyanghuijijiazhongchanshengjidadesunhai。

3、忠实爱人，冷藏感情

 zhongshishiweichiganqingjianchixiaqubibeitiaojian，jiaruduilianrenbuzhongshihenyoukenengweihaidaonidejiazhong，jisunhailelianrenxiaohaiyesunhailezishen。suoyishuozhongshilianrenshishifenbixude。lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？yinweilengbaolilihundechulifangfayounaxie？

 zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？erganqingyebixulengzang，youyuzishenganqingbuduanzaochengdereqingshijianhenduan，zaihunhoushenghuozhongdaliangdehuanshibixuzhongguidaopingpingdandanzhong。danhunyinshenghuoyebukehuoqueganqing，jiarumeiyouaiqingdediaoji，neiyishizhuxingyehuiyuelaiyuefaweile。neizenyanglengzangganqingni？shizhichixudefajueganqingdeshenduguangduheshenceng，shizhegenggai，duiganqingchixubaochihaoqixindexintai。

4、换位思考一下，擅于聆听

 shijishangbujinshiyaotibierenguanxin，yeyaojiejinsuonengdeganshoubierendejianxin。liruxifuyunimaiyuanjiawuhuojianxin，dannifandaozhizetabumingbainigongzuodepilao，zheigeshihoujiubixufufulizaibiciguandianshanghaohaodiganshouyixia，ganshouyixialingyifangdetihui。

shanyulingtingjiushishuozailingyifangxiangzheniqingtudeqingkuangxiayongxindeting，weichixixin，bukeyiwuyuanwugujiunaopiqi。

5、重视另一方，一心一意

 renherenjiaowang，zhongshishizuijibendeqiantitiaojian，yeshifuqihemudezhongyao。eryixinyiyishizhizhenzhengzhenxinshiyidekandaizhixiqinshu，bubisanxineryi，chizhewanlidekanjianguozhongde。biaocengshangkanjianyixinyiyizijintourujiazhong，danxinliqueyeyoubiede，niantouneiyangduifuqiganqingdehemubaihaiwuli。

6、立即沟通交流，坦诚以待

 xianzaiyouxuduofuqijiandegoutongjiaoliuquanshishixiaode，zheixieshuobailedegoutongjiaoliujiuhaoxiangzhilingyiyang，duinishuozheijianshiqingyinggaizenmezuo，wubiyaoyizhaotadeniantoulai，jiarubutingtadehua，tamashanghuigenniyoukuyounao。neiyangdegerenxingweishijishangbujiaogoutongjiaoliu，zhishichizehebaoyuan。

 zhenshidegoutongjiaoliukendingshigongpingde，shizaidajianeixingoujianqiyizuogongluqiaoliang，rangxianghuxinlidehuanenghuxiangchuandi。eryichengxiangdaizhenduixuduofufueryanyemeiyoubaozheng，liruxiaijishoujishangshemima，danxinranglianrenkanzishenshoujishang，zheizhongquanshibuzuyichengxiangdaidezhuyaobiaoxian。lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？jinguanshuobiciyingdangyouzishendeyishizhuxing，dandudeweixinpengyouquan，danzheizhongdoubukeyijiushinibuyichengxiangdaidetuoci。jiuyingdangneixinruhexiangde，ranglingyifanggaoqingchuzhangwo。