二婚夫妻冷战怎么办？怎么做才正确

 yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？hunyinshenghuorutongchuchunmianmianbuduandemianmianxiyu，ziyanglerenshijiandehuacaozhiwu，chanshenglemanzhangdexiangnianqichang，henzhangshijiansuoraodajiadexinzhong，buyuanlikai。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

 yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？fufushibainianlaoxiudetongchuandu，qiannianxiudegongzhenmian，renshijiandeduoqingderensuiduo，keshizhenshikeyibaitoudaolaoquebingbuyi。fshiliguoyicihundenvxing，qianyiduanhunyinshenghuojitachanshengguoduodesunhai，tadexinfeiguandiaohenjiu，naizhibuzhunbeierhun。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

 youduoshaoshenqinghouyidenvrenhenanrenzaihunyinshenghuolizhengchao，xiaoqianmeilexianghudeganqingyihou，daizhushanghenleileidexin，tiaoxuanlegebendongxi。

 zaimamadequandaoxia，fjienalefenpeidexiangqinyuehui，lejieleyiyangshilihundez，yihoudeluhaijiaozhang，fdexiaohaiyebixuyifenjieshidefuqindeai。

 hunyinshenghuoshirenshengdaoluzuiduodelu，meirenkeyiyuliaozhengqianfangdeqiannanwanxian，ererhunfufubaitouxielaoyeshiburongyi，danjiarukeyitingguo“sibu”，haikeyitatashishixiangbanyisheng。

第一步：结婚前期，创建浓厚的夫妻关系，塑造新意。

 jingliguohunyinshibaidenvrenhenanrenzhenduihunyinshenghuodoushizaochengxindeganshou，zaipingfandeshenghuoli，haiyaoshikesuzaofuqizhijiandeqinggan。

 jiehunqianqi，laogongzjiuyaoftihuilaidaoyourutouhunqingkuangxiadetianmeiheyiwaijingxi。zshiyigehenzaiyixinyideren，tashuo，yishizhuxingbenbianshipingpingchangchang，bianshiyouyuyongyouxinyi，caihuibeihaijide，caikeyijuededaoyishizhuxingdexingfu。

 tabameiyigeguanjiandeshenghuodoutizaobeizhumingchengzairilibenshang，laopodeshengchen，guinvdeshengchen，yuefumudeshengchen，meiyigejieri，tadousisidijilao，zhunbeichongfenhaomeiyifenyiwaijingxi。

 richangshenghuodexiaoxiwanghexiaojingxi，gouchenghunyinshenghuodexingfu。fduilaogongzaicisikao，ganjuetatiexinxixin，xingziyeba，taweitamenzuodeyiqiedourangtajuedewenxin。

 manmandi，fxiguanzheileixinyideyishizhuxing，fuqijianjingchangyouyuyixie“xinyi”erjuededaolingyifangdenuli，juededaolingyifangdeai。

 jiehunqianqi，jiuyinggaishineiyangzaisanduidai，pingfandeshenghuo，huizhujianjiangaiqingxiaoqiandiao。yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？zhiyouchuangjianhaofuqijiandexiangchumoshi，suzaoxinyideshenghuoxiguan，hunyinshenghuocaihuixinxianqilai。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

第二步：以诚相待，谈好钱，创建婚姻生活中的相处模式。

 tanqianshangganqing，keshizaihunyinshenghuoliqiancaiyeshiyigebixurenqingdenanti，youyuqian，xuduofufuhuizhongxiafenqi，liuyouanquanyinhuan。

flejieerhunfufudeqianbutaihaoguan，guandebutaihaobianshiyigelantanzi。

 zzaiqudexinshuidediyishijianjiubacunzhejilef，tashuo，tabuchouyanbuhejiu，jiaojiyeshao，youshihougoumaiyifumuguangbutaihao，bixuxifuyangebaguan，neiyangjisuanxialaijiumeiyoubixuhuaqiandediqu，yincijiazhongdeqianxifuguanzhebijiaohao。

 fjieguole，bameigeyueyingdangyongdeqianliuyou，yongbushangdeqianyebuhuihuluanhuaqian，youshihouhuigentashuoyishuojinqijiazhongdekaizhi，meiyibidouqingqingchuchu，rangzganjuetajimingbaiqinjianchijia，bingqiehaihuijixuzhunbei。

 bingqie，meiguojiritabianhuikanyikanlaogongdeqianjia，jiarufajuetadeqianjialimeiyouyaoduoshaoqianle，douhuiqiaoqiaodesaiyixieqianjinlai。jiuyouyuzheiyixiaoxiaoxingwei，rangzdexin，hennuan。

jiazhongbixuhuadaqianshi，fyehuiguoduanbazijidecunkuannachulai，shiyongz，zhichengdianqizheiyijia。

haodehunyin，wubitanqian，bingqieyaohuxiangyichengxiangdaiditanqian。

 fufuzaiqiancaicengmianyichengxiangdai，zai“qian”shangdachengxieyi，xincaikeyizaiyikuai。enaibuyi，hunyinshenghuocaikeyixiangruyumo。

第三步：对小孩保证关怀备至，彼此之间学好换位思考一下。

erhundefufuzaikandailingyifangdexiaohaishi，yaomingbailizailingyifangdeshijiao，yinweiaiqingta，yinciaitadeyiqie。

 fduizishendexiaohaixincunneijiu，fensuidehunyinshenghuorangxiaohaizaoshoulesunhai，taqidainenggouzaizhihoudeshenghuolijiejinquanliditianbu。

zkeyiqianjiufzuoweiyigemuqindeqingxu，wanhunzhichu，jiulingyifshuo：“fangxin，zhihounidehaizibianshiwomendehaizi。”

 tabudanshuodao，yekeyibaozheng，pingchangxiabanlequanshitaqujiexiaohai，changchanghuijihaizimaixinyifuxinxuezi，xiaohaidexuexipeixunyeyizhiquanshitazaizhua。

 jianjiandi，xiaohaiyegangkaishijienatadehao，jijihanta“fuqin”，zaibierenyanzhong，tamenjiuhaoxiangzhenshideyijiaren，huanhuanxixi。

 erzuoweilaopodeta，suiranzdexiaohaiheqiziyiqishenghuo，keshitameiyiciweizijixiaohaisongliwuhuoshiyifukuzishi，yehuijizqizidexiaohaibeishangyifen，rangzdailaixiaohai。

aidezhendi，bianshilejie。lejietadetong，lejietadexi，lejietadechou。aiwujiwu，wanquanderongjintadequanqiu。

disibu：jiandingbuyixinlidexinxin，buguanfengchuiyuda，jinwolingyifangdeshou。

hunyinshenghuolibixufufuliangrenzaipengdaojiongjingdeqingkuangxiaxianghuyingdui，jixianghuzixinxin，jiandingbuyizishendetiaoxuanhexinxin。

 fgoumaiyifudeqingkuangxiahuixiankaolvdaolaogongshifouyingdangtianzhiyifule，zjiandaohaokandeshipinyehuiqiaoqiaomaixialai，jitayiwaijingxi。

 youyici，jiapobingle，bixutaoqian，fquchuzishendeqian，erqiehaizhaoniangjiarenjiekuanjijiapokanbing。zheiranglaogonghejiapodouhendadong。

 yeyouyicifdebabayouyicibeipianshijiwan，zlaolaodidiwozhefdeshou，yiqixiangbanfajiejuezheijianshiqing。buguanshiduoshaofengchuiyuda，fufudexinzaiyiqi，shenghuojiunengwennuandeguoxialai。

 tamendouzhenxiyongyou，zhenxidangxia，burongyiyanfan，burongyinifan，dianjizhelingyifang，lingyifangyebazijimeishimeikefangzaixinli。

 rizishizishenyiguocaizhidaozenmeyang，tamenzaiyiqideshijian，zhenshihaoxiangyiduibutongxunchangfufuyingdangyeyoudepingpingdandanhexingfukuaile。

 dangyishizhuxingzaoshoujiannanshi，xianghudoulaolaodidiwozhelingyifangdeshou。fufuliangrenganxinqingyuanweiyigejialaoliu，jianxinhenuliyiwufangu，qidaineiyangdeshenghuonenggouzhangyidianzaizhangyidian，zheijiushixingfudeshenghuo。

 hunyinshenghuojiuhaoxiangrenshenglushangdeyizuogaoshan，yaoxieshoubingjianyiqipandeng，caihuifulandaomeilidefengjing，zaizuichuncuidekongqizhongxiangyongxianghu。

 erhundefufubaitouxielaobuyi，yincigengyingyouyikejiandingbuyidexinhezouxialaidexinxin。zheisibu，shierhunhunyinshenghuozhonggenbensuozai。

 erhundefufuzaiwanhunzhichu，jiuxuyaojiandingbuyizishendexinxin，wulunzhihouderizishidaqingtianhuanshilianyinyu，bixuwojinlingyifangdeshou，maixiangzhengqianfangdexingfukuaile。

 fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？fufuhuxiangnulidezhenxinshiyi，yingdangyaohaohaozhenxi，shouhaolepingfandeshenghuo，qianyirendeshoupeizijikanjinrenao。