冷战是什么意思？再婚夫妻需要这么做来维护好婚姻

 lengzhanshishenmeyisi？liyishizaisuonanmian，erhunyeshizaisuonanmian。liangrenbuhe，guobushangyiqi，liyishiyigefeichanghaodetiaoxuan。liyibushishuoliangrenjiufeidezhengfengxiangdui，lihunzhihouliangrenhaikeyishipenyou，shiqinren，jiarudajiayouxiaohai，xiaohaihuanshinengbianchengdajialianluodeqiaoliang。yudaojiabaodezhengquezuofayounaxie？zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？

 erhunshijishangshiyigehenjiannandexuanze，bingbushisuoyourendouheshierhunde。youxierenjiuhaoxiang“wantong”，jishilihunle，yekanbujianzishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongdebuzhengque，huoshiquedian。lengzhanshishenmeyisi？zheileirengerenganjueyouliang，yagenburongyiganjuezishenbutaihao。youxierenlihunlehuifansiziji，fansizijizaihunyinshenghuozhongshibushizuodehaibugouhao，shifouhaiquefanaxie，shifouzishenhenbuchenggong。yudaojiabaodezhengquezuofayounaxie？zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？

 zheiyangderen，shanyufajuegerenquedian，shanyujiuzhengzishen。danshishangyizhongrenshanyufajuetarendequexian，bingqiebabuzhengquedouguijieweiyutarendeshenshang。

 cengjingdewomenkande《jiayouernv》bianshiyigehendianxingxingdeshili，shijishangneiyidajiazibianshizaihunjiating，dantamenhuodebingbuyuanzaihunfuqi，zaihunjiatingneimaku，neimayoumaodun。

 fandao，neiyidajiazi，xiaohan、maomaoyu、liuxingtamensangefandaojiaowangdehenkaixin，jinguanyoushiyoushuoyouxiao，danshijishangxiongmeimendouhenenai。

 ziranneijinjindianshijujubenneimaxie，xianshishenghuozhong，zaihunjiating，zaihunjiatingli，fufuyingdangyaozenmezuo，ruheyishizhuxing，ruhequyingduilingyifangdeernv。

 zheiquanshitaibenlinengsuibianxiedejuqing。danshixianshishenghuozhong，zaihunjiating，zaihunfuqi，zenyangjiaowang，shijishangshibixufangfade，bingbushiqingyideliangrenjiukeyiyishizhuxingdaoyiqiqu。

neima，zaihunfuqi，zaihunjiatingyingdangbaozhengshenmeshier，caikeyibaitouxielaoyishengni？

第一、要有相互的话题讨论和喜好

 erhunbianshiliangrenzaiyicizaicigouchengjiazhong。jirandiyicidehunyinshenghuomeiyouqudechenggong，neimaduoduoshaoshaozhiyinweinimenzhongjianjianghuimeishenmegongtongyuyan，huoshisanguanbuhe，zaiyoujiushiliangrenmeiaile，huoshihunyinshenghuoliyongyoucanzha。

jiranerhun，haowuyiwenquanshiqidaiguodexingfukuaile，xingfudezongtimubiaoqude。sheiyebuyuanerhunyicihuanshibuchenggongba？

 jiranneiyang，jiuyingdangzhaoyigehezishenyougongtongyuyan，gongtonghuatiderenzaiyiqi。jiaruliangrenzaiyiqimeiyouyiqiegongtongyuyanhexihao，neiyaoyouduofawei？yudaojiabaodezhengquezuofayounaxie？zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？

lyouyiduanduanzandehunyin，haiyouyigeguinv，guinvlijingtadeqinfen，gensuita，pingchangquanshixiaohailaolaozaidaiwa。

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zhihoulcaizhidao，zheiyinvxingyuanxianlilehun，danmeiyouxiaohai。

 tamenlejieledayueyouyinianduoyihou，lxiangtagaobai，tashuo：“renmenyouguoduoxianghudexihao，renmenyeyouliaobuwandehuatitaolun，woyiqianyizhimeiyougennigaobai，shiqidaidajiadounengxianghuzhijianzhangwoduoyidian，lejieshenyidian，woxiangniyinggaibudichuwo。wohaoxihuanni，naizhiaizheni，xiwangnikeyijiwoyigejiyu，jiaojiwohuiaizheni，renmenchangyouyicihunyinpolie，zheiyici，xiwangdajiadoukeyihaohaodikandaizheiyicihunyinshenghuo。”

 zuizhong，zheiweinvxingyuanyile，tamengouchenglejiazhong，shishishangtademuguangmeiyoucuo，zheiyinvxingshanjierenyi，bingqieduitadeguinvyehenhao，tamenliangrenyoushijianghuihuiyouyuyibudianyingliaodeshengengbanye，jinguanyoubuyiyangdejianjie，danxianghuzhijiandouzhongshilingyifangdejianjie。

lganjue，zheiyici，bianshitale。

第二、互相都争着为家中努力

buyuanweijiazhongnuliyidianwupinren，kendingshizisizilide。

 yuanbenjiuhuiyouyicihunyinpolie，huoxudiyicihunyinpoliebianshiyouyuniyiziwoweizhongxin，zhilejiexiangyouerbuqingchunulidaozhide。

diercihunyin，jiuyingdanggaizhengzishenzheiyihuaixiguan。

 hunyinshenghuo、ganqing、zhenqingshijishangyeshixuduoleisidediqu，youxierenjianghuiganjuezhenqingzhongjiandenulibingbushiyingdangdema？shijishangbingbushi，zhenqingyebixuweihubaoyang，zhenqingyebushilingyifanglisuodangrandenuli。ganqingjiugengbingbushile。

ganqingyingdangyaoxianghuzhijiannuli，jiaruliangrengouchengleyigexindejiazhong，yiqianchangyouguoyiduanhunyinpolie。

cikeniyinggaimingbaile，hunyinshenghuo、jiazhongshibixunulide，yidingyaojijinuli，jijiweijiazhongzuoyixieshier。

第三、互相关注和贴心

 jiaru2gelenglengdandanderenzaiyiqigouchenglejiazhong，haowuyiwenbutaikenengxingfukuaile。shenaiderenzaiyiqiyidingshireqingde，yidingshiyoureqingde。

 liangrengouchengjiazhong，bianchengyijiaren，jiuyingdangyaosuishihuxiangzhaogulingyifang。guanzhuzishendelaopo，guanzhuzishendelaogong，tashizuijibendeshier。

 zhaoyigehuijijilaiguanzhuzishen，tiexinzishendenanshenghuoshinvxing，wulunruhe，2gerendexindouzaiyiqiyidingyaoxianghuzhijiantiexin。

youqishizaihunjiating，jiarubumingbaitiexinlingyifang，bumingbaiguanzhulingyifang。haowuyiwenburongyixingfukuaile。

 youhenduonvxing，diercihunyin，huifangzhidiyigezhangfuneileinansheng，jiuxiangzhaoyigefeichangtiexinzishendenansheng，yincizaitiaoxuandequanguochengzhong，jiuwubitiaoxuanyigebizhangfuyeyaotengzishen、tiexinzishenshijibeidenansheng。

shengbinglenengzhaoguhaoziji，duzienengweizijizuohaochide，yaobudiyishijianweizijimaichidezheileinansheng。

zaihunjiating，jiujingyingdangzenmecainengliangrenbaitouxielaoyishengni？woshangbianshuodezheisandian，kendingshiwubide。

jiarumeifazuodaozheisandian，biranbutaikenengguodexingfukuaile。

 jiranerhun，neimejiuwubikaolvyixiayiqianzishenbuchenggongdediqu，bubiyizhikanjiantarendebutaihao，yedeziwofansiziwofansigerenquedian。

erhunle，haohaoshoulianxingqizishenbutaihaodediqu，duilingyifanghaoyidian。

 lengzhanshishenmeyisi？wulunshinanrenhenvren，yaoshixiangguodegengqiang，yaoshixiangdiercihunyinbidiyicihunyinshenghuoxingfukuaile，doudeziwofansishangyiduandebuchenggong，suihoubaozhengshangbianzheisandian。