无性婚姻中，夫妻婚后冷战，应该怎么做才好

 shenmeshilengbaoli？hunyinshenghuoshi2gelurenzhongjianmeiyouyiqieqinshuguanxi，bingzaiyipangjianjiandibianweilianren，zuizhongjindaojiazhong，tashitianmanjianxinzheishijiedequanguochengzhong，yixiexingfukuailedaolao，danyixiexiajiang。hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？

 shenmeshilengbaoli？meiduifufudouqidaizishendehunyinshenghuokeyixingfukuaile，bingbuyidingdehunyinshenghuonenggoushizhideyiman，youdehenmeimanhunyinjiugangkaishidingjuyishizhuxing，juedezhujiantundiaoshi，qiyanlidewaitao，zhiliuyouyibandetixingshi，hunyinshenghuorutongyimianjingzi，xiangping，weidanrushui，zhinengchaimiyouyan，eryixiezebushiganyupingfandegezhongfenqichanshengzaihunyinshenghuo，shiyigexiaozhengzhimeiguojiri，tashijiechudewaiyu，wuzhishilengbaoli，zaochengwuxinghunyinchuxianhunyinshenghuo。hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？

zenyangbaozhengzheiyidianyezheili，wuxinghunyindenanti，gaixiaohuojuede，“fuqixingshenghuo”？yongxintingnanshengdexinsheng。

1、我只有不断的工作中来让自身活力分散化

wodelaopoyuwoqinaidedelejie，zaiwomendenianji，henda，zhangdehunyinshenghuowanbiqianwanhunhaikeyishijiude，xiangqinyuehui。

 hunyinshenghuo，tadelaopozaijializhaoliaojiawuhuo，wochulaigongzuozhongbijiaomang，danyesuanyigepingpingdandandeshenghuokuailehuijiayourefan，shuijueshi，suizhezhetadelaopozaineili，wojuede，neiyangdeyishizhuxingyouzaoyihenkaolv。

 danhenduonianguoqu，womendehunyinzaoyigenggaile，genggailetadelaopo，yiqianwenrouxianhuidexingqing，xianzaishixunsudemaiyuan，woyebuzhidaoyinggaizenmeban，woyebuzhidaodaodishiduibuqi，zuizhongbianweizhiwurenxingmingdehunyinshenghuo，tadelaopobuxuwopengchupeng。

 woshiyigeyiqiezhengchangdenansheng，yigezhangqixingwuxingshenghuo，shenmeshilengbaoli？zuoweiyigenanren，yinweiwoyoushenglixuyao，queshimeidiqukedaokushushuo，dangwojuedeguoxingshenghuo，wozhiyouzaijiezaili，rangzishendedongnengfensanhuade，neiyangjiukeyitangxialairushui，yebuhuihusiluanxiang。

2、我难以忍受无性婚姻，我出轨了

 woyebuzhidaoweishadehunyinshenghuobianchengwuxinghunyin，wanhunshifeichanghaode，wohenxihuanrenzhengongzuo，jiazhongdeshishizhongburongyirangtadanyou，tajinjinzhaoliaoxiaohaidejiukeyile，wodeguidingbingbugao，youfanchirutonghuijiale，dantazongmaiyuanwozuodebuzuhao，jinrishuolisijiazhongyoushenmehao，shuosangebiaohemaiyiliangxinqiche，mingri，tazongganjuetarendewupinshihaode。hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？

 woyexiangjitaxingfudeshenghuo，danwozhishiyouzheiyigongzuonengli，you90pingdexiaowuzi，cheliangshifougaoduande，danyeshiershiwan，ertayizhixianmutarendehao，woyoumuyoutiaoxuanzuizhong，jiazhongyebuyuanhetajianghua，dantahuanshimanhengwuli，yigegenwoshuohua，bushangsanmawomeiyong，zuizhongwonaizhibukeyirumiantataileile。

 danwoshiyigenansheng，zaineiyangxialai，shenglixuyaowufadedaokaolv，fuqixingshenghuochulenanti，wonanyirenshouwuxinghunyin，wozhongyuchuguile，womingbaiwobaoqianqinren，danwoyebuzhidaoyinggaizenmeban。

3、和陌生人聊天到很晚，直至累的入睡

 meirenyaoxiangyigemeimanhunyin，jiazhongnengyougukezhishangdejuede，danzheixieniandehunyinshenghuo，wobuhuiganjueyitianjiri，wowenhuayishubugao，doumeiyouyijizhizhang，zhiyouzaijiagongchangjinxingzhuangpeishengchanxian，jinguanpingwendanshouyibijiaoyouxian，bukeyijixifuyigeyouliangdeyishizhuxing，wojuedetakenengshimeiyouyongde，ta。

 zaifuqixingshenghuozhong，tayijianshidexintaizishizhizhongshifashaoganmao，zaijialiyefeichangshaogenwoshuohua，danzidashenglexiaohaizi，tadabufenmeiyouwanhundeyishizhuxinghewo，meiyicishiwobixu，tayizhiyougezhonggeyangyuanyintuiwei，shijianzhangle，wojianjiandiyizhiwodefanzaobuan，suoyiwodehunyinshenghuojiangbianchengyigewuxinghunyin。

 cikedexinqingyeyuelaiyueyulaiyufengbishi，dangnixiangqijiehunhoudeyishizhuxing，woshiyigeluren，zhonghouqiliaodeshengengbanye，zhizhitaileileshui，rangzishenyibuquxiang。

 yiju：hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？hunyinshenghuo，wuxinghunyinshihenfeichanghaode，neiyangbudanhuijinyibuebianfuqiganqing，jiangzuochuyansurenzhendeairenwaiyu，yiner，baituohunyinshenghuowuxinghunyinde，tashiyoufangshilaichulidejiaodayaosushimeiyougoutongjiaoliuquanbudegenhunyinshenghuodenanti，bugoutongjiaoliu，yinciyaoxuehuigoutong，ranghunyinshenghuodenantijiangshiyigehelidejiejuefangfa，kehelibimianwuxinghunyin。