老公宁愿自己解决也不碰老婆，这样的婚姻何时是个头？

　　我和丈夫结婚七年了，但是我们已经三年没有夫妻生活了，他宁可自己解决，也不愿碰我。老公宁愿自己解决也不碰老婆？

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　　其实我想过离婚，但是不知道离婚的原因是什么。离婚是因为夫妻生活不和谐吗?老公宁愿自己解决也不碰老婆？suoyibierenhuichaoxiaowo。gongpoduiwohenhao，bangwozhaoguhaizi，wobuyongzuojiawu。suiranwolaogongduiwomeiyoufuqishenghuo，danshitazhengdeqiandoujilewo，taduihaizihenhao，woyemeiyouliyoulihun。

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