为什么现在的许多女孩子找不到男朋友，女生一直没人追的原因是？

 rujinweishenmexuduonvhaizizhaobudaonanpengyou，nvshengyizhimeirenzhuideyuanyinshishenme？zaishijizhong，dequeyouhenduonvhaizizaoyidaojiehunnianling，naizhizaoyibianchengledalingshengnv，danquerengranlianmubiaoyemeiyou。wuzhongnvshengzhaobudaonanpengyoushinawuzhong？

目前状况

 zaihulianwangzhongyejiandao，youxuduonvhaizimaiyuanzishenweihezhaobudaonanpengyou。bingqieyouxuduonvhaizizaoyidaohenjiadenianji，querengrandanzhe，biaomingyaojinzaojiangzishentuixiaochanpinchulai、jiaren。

keshi。yemeiyouchangchangtingjianyijuhua，jinyouzhaobudaoxifudenansheng，burongyiyouzhaobudaonanpengyoudenvxing。

 keguanshishiyedequezheiban，jincongzaiwoguoderenkoubilishangkanlai，nanxingrenkouzongshujiubinvxingkongchule3000duowanyuan。bingbingbushinvxingzhaobudaonanpengyou，zhishinvxingdezongshubuzujinanxingfenpai。naizhiyourenmindaibiaomingquetichuleyiqiduofudetiyi，nvhaizizenmekenengzhaobudaonanpengyou、jiarenni。

neima，jiujingshishenmeyuanguzaochengyouyixienvhaizizhaobudaonanpengyouni？wuzhongnvshengzhaobudaonanpengyoushinawuzhong？

女性本身找对象条框的束缚

 pingshizaiwennvhaizitanduixiang、zhaoduixiangdeguifanshi，daduoshunvhaizidoushihuihuiying：“meiyoushenmeguiding，zishenxiai，duizishenhaojiukeyile”。

 nvshengyizhimeirenzhuideyuanyinshishenme？keshizhenzhenzhengzhengrangtamenxuanzedianshi，youhuipingbaiwuguchuquyidaduiguiding，renyaogoushuai、shengaoyaogougao、jingjishiliyaozuodaoyidingdeguifan、wenpingbukeyixiaoyuzishen、naizhiyaobizishenhaoguimidenanpengyouchusezheixie。

 youhuijiangchuxindeyifanhua：“bukeyiqingyijiangzishenjiaren，bukeyicouhe，ningquewulan。jiaruzhaobudaohehuzishenguidingdenanpengyou，ningkedanzhe”。

yibianhenjiazhe，yibianyouweizijizhaonanpengyoumeidinglehenduomenkan。

bulunshidanshendanshennvxing，huoshilihundanshennvxing，zhaoduixiangdeguifanyebudi。bingqie，zheizhongguifanzhitibujian。

 tashizaochengxianrujinjuedaduoshunvhaizizhaobudaonanpengyoudeguanjianyuangu，yeshizaochengyixiemiaolingnvshengbianweidalingnvqingniandeguanjianyuangu。

 yinci，keguanxingdejiang，bingbingbushirujindenvhaizizhaobudaonanpengyou，zhishitamenbazijishufuzailezishenzhidingdeneiyitiaotiaozhaoduixiangdebiaozhunzhong，buyuansuibianjiangzishenjiaren。

burandehua，woguoneimeduodanshennanxing，yixiazinenggourangzheizhongnvhaizimenxunzhaoyigenanpengyou。

女性本身精准定位要素

 wuzhongnvshengzhaobudaonanpengyoushinawuzhong？henduonvshengdouxiangzhaoyigegaoshuaifuzheileideyouzhinanzuonanpengyou，quebucengyongxinkaolvdaoguo，benshendebiaozhunshibushiduideqishangyouzhinan，youzhinanshibushikeyikandeshangzishen。

 zhaoduixiangshiyigeshuangxiangjiaoliu，bingbingbushinvxingdanfangdetiaoxuan。jiaruduibenshenbiaozhunmeiyouyigeqingchudelejiehejingzhundingwei，biannanyixunzhaonanpengyou。

 genghekuang，youzhinandezongshushibijiaoyouxiande，qiangguozaojiumingcaoyouzhu！jiaruyizhirichangshenghuozaiduiyouzhinandexiangxiangzhong，bianzhiyouzhiliuzaizishenshougongbianzhidezaimengli，yizhidanshenxialai。

男性的一部分要素

xianrujindeyibufennanxingzhenduichuduixiangyebuhuizaineimarezhongyu。

 yiqianyige20laisuidexiaohuoerzaijienafangtanshibiaoshiguoneimeyixihua：“rujinhenvshengchuduixiangtaishaoqian，daobushishuobushedetaoqian。guanjianshiganqingdejiangudupianruo，huoxunatiannvhaizijiubianxinle，nanyizuihouzouruhunyinshenghuodeshengdian。daotoulai，nanhaierdejieguoshihouhuanwuqiong，bingqiehaidange、xiaohaoledabadeshijianhehuoli。neiyangdetanlianaihaibibushangbutan，bibushangjiangshijianhehuoliyongzaixuexipeixunhegongzuoshang”。

 zheiyixiaohuozishijishangjiangchulexianrujindeyizhongzhuangkuang，youyixienanxingyeyiyangbuhuizaixiangyaosuibianchuduixiang。naizhiyouyixienanxingshibeishijizhongdeyixielizihedehaipachuduixiang，zaochengyizhongkongliandexinlizhuangtai。

zheiyeshizaochengrujindenvhaizizhaobudaonanpengyoudeyibufenyuangu。

zhongjiuchuduixiangshiliangrendeshi，bixushuangfangdoushiyouyixiangcaixing。

 jieyu：nvshengyizhimeirenzhuideyuanyinshishenme？zongdelaijiang，rujindenvhaizixiangzhaogenanpengyoushijishangbingmeiyouneimanan，zhongdianzaiyutamenxiangbuxiangzhao。xianjieduan，nvxingzhaoduixiangdejuedingquanyuanyuandichaoguonanxing。