婚姻结束了该怎么挽回

　　hunyinjieshulegaizenmewanhuizhangfuyouwaiyu，liyihenyoukenengbingbushizuihaodejiejuefangan，keshibuxianglihunwomenyinggaizenmequwanliuwaiyubianxindelaogongni?

　　shijishangwanliuchuguidezhangfushiyaozhuzhongfangfade。

　　jiaruwanliudeguochengdangzhong，nizuoleyixiebuzhengquedewanliushijicaozuo，jiuyoukenenghuirangjianhuanwanliudeshizhang，tishengxuduokunnan。

　　neiyang，zuilixiangdewanliuchuguizhangfudeguanjiansuozaidouyounaxieni?xiabianlihuajiuweidajiazhenglilezuilixiangdelaopowanliuchuguilaogongdeneixin7daqiaomen，xiwangkeyibangdaoni!

　　wanjiuhunyinqiaomen：zhangfuchuguiruhewanhuilaogong?

　　1、避免直接矛盾。

　　ruguonixiangzaicihuodechuguizhangfudeneixin，neizaitiaomingyihoudanaoyichang，jibenjiushiduandiaoziyidetuilu。

　　yinweizheigeshihoushuangfangdoumeiyouhoulu，guanlianhenyoukenenghuilaidaobukewanhuichengdu。

　　laogongchuguitongchangbingbushidanfangmiannanti，laopoyeyingdangziwofansizishendebuzu，sikaoshishenmefangmianbingmeiyourangrengandaodadao，shihuxiangdoubuyiyangle，youhuozheshitafashengbianhua。

　　2、nvxingdexianzizunziai，caihuidedaolaogongdeqing。

　　hunyinjieshulegaizenmewanhuicongjiehunqian、jiehunhouguoyouxiaohai，nvxingderenwujiaosehuichuxianjudadezhuanbianhezengjia。

　　congfumudexinganbaobei、beizhuixundenvhaizi，zhuanbianchengzhangfudeqizi、gongpodeerxifu，houlaizaitishengyigejiaose：haizidemama。

　　zheibushiyishengbijingdeguocheng，danshihenduorenbingmeiyouhenhaodirongruzheixiejiaose，youqishizaichengweimamahou，wangwanghuihulvezuoweizhangfuqiziderenwujiaose。

　　dangyigenvrenzaijiehunhou，bahenduoshijianhejinglifangzaijiatinghehaizideshenshang，wangwanghuihulveletayulaogong。

　　zheiyangderen，huoxuhuichengweijiapoyanlidehaoxifu，danjueduibushilaogongxinlidehaolaopo。

　　lalilata、buzhuzhongbaoyangchuanzhedaban、bingmeiyoushenghuolequ……zheizhongxushudouzhixiangyigeci——renlaozhuhuang。

　　weihehenduodisanzheyaobizhengshigengxiyinnanren?

　　qishitamenzhidaoruhexiyinnanren。

　　nidelaogongmeitiangongzuokandaodejiushiguangcaiduomudenvsheng，huijialequekanjiannihunandemianse、lingluandetoufa、kuandajiajufu，zheiyangdeqifudangranjiuhuichansheng。

　　zhangjiuyiwang，nizaitaxinlikenengjiushiyige“daibuchulai”delaopo，gengbuyongshuoduinidexiyinlile。

　　nidelaogongyexubuhuiguidingnijiuxiangjiehunqianneibanqingchunnianshaomiren，danshitaqueqidaizijideairenhuiyouyidingdeqizhihefengcai。

　　jiaruniyouyu“zhaogujiaren”erbianchenglerenlaozhuhuang，taxinlingshiburongyiganjinide。

　　yinci，xuyaowanhuizhangfudexin，nixuyaojiejuerenlaozhuhuangbiaoqian，duodaozijishenshangyongxinyushijian，rangzijichengweiyigeyouqizhidenvshi。

　　jilaoyaozhanshizijizuimeideyimian，shiniduilaogongzunzhong，shiniduihunyindetaidu。

　　3、懂得换位思考。

　　nvxingxuyouwenrou，jiuxuyaoweichihuanweisikao。

　　nengsheshenchudidekaolvdaotadeqingxu，yongxinpeiban，renzhenqingting，zheiyangjiukeyibuzhibujuediquyuebieren。

　　wenroushinvshengfazineixinzhencheng，shinvshengduinanshengsuozhanxiandexingfu。

　　wenroubaokuoleguanyuaidesixiangneihan，tayuanyuxingmingdeshenchu。

　　youyadenvrenyongwenrouzhichengqiyigejia，chengqinanshideneixinshijie，yeyingxianglenanshengshenzhijiazhongdexiachang。

　　zheiyangyigerouqingmiyidenvxingpengyou，laogongyouzenmehuiyebuxinteng、buailianni?