适婚单身男女挑选直系亲属的心态分析

 lianaihunyin wentizenmejiejue?meirenxiangyaoyizhidanshennannv，xingdanyingzhidenanrennvrentongchangyongyouzishenxianweirenzhidexintaizhuangtaiheyuangu。zheizaiqizhongbenzhideyuanyin，chukaizuiguangfandezheixiegongzuogongzuozhongweizhu，jieguodangelelianqingde，huoshiguidingguogao、huoshiqinpenghaoyouganyu、shejiaomeitiziranhuanjingmianzhaidengxianding，yeyouyixieguishuyuxintaizhangai，zheixingdexintaizhuangtaihuoshifannaochukaidajiazishenfajuediaozhengqingxu，xuduorenshimeiyoucaiqucuoshiduicelaichulide。

一、缺乏爱与不爱的工作能力

 qiuzhuzhemounvgenwoshuo，tajingrenjieshaoqujiannanshideneishihou，yipengmiantanwanyijuhuajiugangkaishikaolvdaoheshi、zenyangyutaxiangfenshou。

 lingyiweinvshiqiuzhuzhezishenchanshu，yizhizaiyunanpengyouxiangchudao3liugeyueshangxiadeneishihou，juedezishenyanjuandehen，yizhinanyirenshou，pobudeyiwanbi。

二、未从以往的写作和损害中摆脱

 yiweinanshiqiuzhuzhe，dangxuduorenjitamenjieshaonanpengyoushi，tajinglingzhegainvshidaoxinlizixunshiyanqian，qingxinlizixunshixiezhutaquerenyixiagainvshi“zenmeyang”，“huifoushiweipianta”eryaoqiuta。

 yuanxian，taliguoyicihun，zhengshuobaile“yichaobeisheyao，shinianpajingsheng”。tayunyingyouzishendeqiye，zaibendachengshiyoufangyouche，zaitiaoxuanxindelianrendeneishihouzongdanyounvshishiweizhitutadecaifu，yinciyingduinvshishi，shiqulepanduannengli。

 danshennannvzenmejiejuezhongshendashi?tamenbukeyijiangyiwangdeexingshijiandangzuoshiyijiandandudeexingshijian，zaiwanbiyihoulizhidepouxiluojiguanxi，zhaodaochenggongjingyan，jiangxinderenjijiaowangdangzuozhenshishixindeexingshijiandegangkaishi，erbingbushiyiwangexingshijiandexuyan。

三、个性化层面的缺点

 danshennannvzenmejiejuezhongshendashi?yiweinvshiqiuzhuzhe，tanleshucilingyibandoushibai，lejieyuangu，tagaosuwotameiyicigangkaishitannanyoudeneishihou，xiaixiangzhoubiandenvpengyounvyouguimizhengxunjianyi，zheizhongnvshidayingdeyeshishuobuxingdeyeshi，zheizhongxianxiangxia，tazishenjiumeiyouxiangfale，zuizhongtongchangshiyuekanyuebuxing，jiugaoyiduanluo。

四、缺乏与异性朋友相处的方法

 lianaihunyinwentizenmejiejue?youzheixingdebugoudenanshihuonvshiyebuzaishaoshu。yiweinvjiaoshi，tazhudongzishendeshejiaonenglijiaoweidi，yinweikongjukandaonanyoushishuohuabuqingchu，shuocuohua，yinciguoduantiaoxuankanbudaonanyou。tayunanyoudouhuiyigedachengshi，libaitiandouxiexi，nanyouguidingxiexishiyiqiguo，dantayinweidanyoukandaonanyoushi“zhuyaobiaoxianbuxing”，jiuhuijuenanyou。

 yiqiezhengchanglianqingzhongdenianqingnannv，jiaruxianghelianqingpengmianerbunengde，neixinmianhaowuyiwenshiyouxuduoniantoude。guoduodehusiluanxiang，jiyouyushuangfangqianquexinrengan，doushijianjudechengxian。neineiyanglingyifanghuoxujuedetashibierenyouxinhuijuehetaobi，shilingyouyidingdeaihuoshibuxiangyaozaici。zheileiwujiejiazhongdeduice，liangrentichufenshoujiubianchengbijiang，haibibushangtandangshuochuqu，zhijieledang，bicixianghuzhangwo。