初入职场大龄单身男女青年该如何脱单

 lianaihunyin wentizenmejiejue?xuduodanshennvshengyizhimeiyoushihedenanyou，jiubeidajiachengzuo“dalingshengnv”，chuxianzheizhongqingkuangyebingbushitaliangqidaijiandaode，xuduonvshidouxiangjinzaokefuzheileidanshennannvdeqingkuang，jinjintaliangmeiyousixiangyishidaodaozhizishendanshennannvdeyuangudaodishishenme，yejiubuqingchuyingdangruhegaijinzishen，shijishang，xuduodalingnvqingnianzaiyouhuideneishihoudoushifenquefazixinde，zheihuijianshaoxiangqinyuehuidetongguolv。

 yinci，churuzhichangdalingnvqingniangairuhetuodan，queshiyigeshouyaonantile!yinci，wangbianjidahuoerchuxinzhao，xunsukefuyigerendeshenghuo!

1、了解自身要想哪些

 jiarujiangnanrenbichengxiaodongwudehua，nenggoufenchengliangzhong。yileishijianzhayoufangshi，henaiwan，zaiyiqishifengaoxingcijixing，danbingbuyiguoshenghuodelang;yizhongshilaoshibajiaolaoshi，bumingbaifengyun，burongyilanman，zaiyiqipingpingchangchang，quetebieshihedegou。niyaoxiangnayige，nizishenneixinyaoqingxi。zhinengquelilezongtimubiao，nicaikeyixunzhaofangwei，kefudanshennannv。bubijiqianguazhelangdefengqucijixing，youyaoxianggoudelaoshianquanxing，shijieshangbenjiumeiyoushiquanshimeideshier。yinci，kefudanshennannvdiyibu，jiuguidingdajiaquelizishensuoyuan，lejiezishensuoxude。

2、不必太贪婪

 danshennannvzenmejiejuezhongshendashi?rujinderen，qingganzaoyibuxiangzhiqianneimachunsui，douyaoshejiqian、fangwu、cheliang、rongmao、shenxing、tiexin、guanai，haiyaoxiangzhushiweizhuzishenzhuan。danzheinaliyouneimashiqingni?laotianyeshigongpinggongzhengde，jileniyiyang，bijianghuiquzouyiyang。zuoxiangqichengdejieguo，zongyaojinizaigegendoude。ganqingdoushizheiban，bukeyinaxiequanshinide，quandourangnishide。dajiayaomingbaihengliang，ruguoniyaoxiangtaxintengni，jiuqingbietahuirangnifangwu、cheliang、qiancai;ruguoniyaoxiangqiancai、fangwu、cheliangdeneishihou，jiuqingbietanlandeqidaitakeyiqianyibaishun。

3、看一下别的的景色

 huoxu，zuoweichuruzhichangzhongdedalingnvqingnian，zongyaoyouneimagequdechenggongderenyuan，jiniyuanyuandidekanjian，qianguazhe，quebuqingchushibushikeyilaidaoyiqi。shijishang，shidebuyidingshizuiheshizishende，danzuiheshizishendeyidingshishi。dajiayizhikanjianzuimeilidefengjing，quecuoguoxianfengdexuanliduocai。ganqingdelumianshang，bubiyizhiyaoqiuzheixiewanwandabudaodejiaose，budanhuijiniyuelaiyuelei。dangjieguobingbushinideneishihou，yanlidajigengda。fanguolai，manxialai，huitouqiaoqiao，nideshenghuozhongzongyouneimagechiqingdenghoudehundan，dengzhenijiandaotadezhenxinshiyi。

4、等候是的

 jianxinyuanfen，tingbucuo。dantangruoyaoxiangdenghou，dengnagedongniderenlai，nishengyudekenengxingjiuhuiwuqiongda。ganqing，congbushidenglaide。dajiayebixuweiganqingqinfenyiba，caihuixunzhaoderen。xuduodalingshengnv，yizhitianmanzheluomandikedeniantou，juededongniderenzongyaoxunzhaozishen，zongyaoyouyitianlailin，jinjinshijiandezaozhongwannanti。danrenyurendeyuanfen，shijishangshifenbuzhiyiti，yushangshibixudajiajijibawocaihao。yinci，xianzaikaishizhongguishiji，bubixiangxiangbaimawangzihuixunzhaoxiaogongzhu，xiaogongzhuhuixunzhaobaimawangzideyuyangushile。

5、不必太苛刻

 danshennannvzenmejiejuezhongshendashi?xiangqinyuehui，haoxiangzaoyibianchenglerujinkefudalingshengnvfangshizuizuihuodefangshi le。shubuzhi，zaixiangqinyuehuideneishihou，dajiayizhitiaosanjiansi，yizhikanbushangzheiyi，kanbushangnage，dengnizuizhong，xiangguoqinderenyejielehun，nirengrandanzhe。zhenduixiangqinyuehui，dajiayaoxunzhaoyoutongyangjiazhiguannianderen，yougongtonghuatide，danhaiyaoshanyufajuetarendeyoushi，bubiyiweidekeketarendequexian。yaolejie，nizishendewentiyexuduo。yinci，bubitaiguokeke，neiyangzongshijinishengdaojiazhong。

 lianaihunyinwentizenmejiejue?xiangqinyuehuishiyijianshifenyoudaxuewendeshier，zuixiandiyiyinxiangshishifenguanjiande，yidingyaodiaojiehaozishendexintaizhuangtai，yaozaixiangqinyuehuideneishihouchongfenzhanshigenghaodeziji，yeyaozhuyaobiaoxiandejijiyidian，bubitaidanchun。