前妻要复婚好吗？如何考虑？

 lihunshougandongfuhundehaishiyoude，danshizaifuhundeshihouyouyixiajidianshouxianyaokaolvqingchu，buranjishizaileyiqihaishihuifashenghenduodemaodun，neimezhiyuqianqiyaofuhunhaoma?worenweiyaojingguoshensishulv，zhaochunimenzhijiandewenticaixing，qianqifuhunguranshikeyide，danshiyeyaokanjushibushima?

一、前妻要复婚好吗?

lihunshougandongfuhunbushimeiyou，danshizaizhiqianyaokaolvyuqianqifuhunxuyaofuchudedaijiayijiyixiefangfa。

1、shenshizijiweiheyaowanhuiqianqi?

 henduonanrenhenvrenfenshouzhihou，huibennengdewanhuiduifang，zheiyangfanyingjizhishiyouwomenjinhuaerlaide，zheiyangdebennengfanyinghenzhengchang，danhenshaoyourenjingxiaxinlai，tingxiajiaobu，shenshizijiduiyunvrendeganqing，shihaiaizheduifang?haishiyinweiduifangtichufenshou，womenxinlibuganxin，yihuoduifangpitui，chongmanbaofuxintai?xiangzhuihuinvrenzaishuaizhi?

 zairuhewanhuiqianqizhiqian，qingdajiapingxinjingqideshenshizijiduiyuqianqideganqingyijisikaoyixiazijixiangyaozenyangdeqingganshenghuo。

2、离婚的原因

 shoudaozhangfudelengluoshi。younanrendechongai，nvrenjiuxiangshenghuozaitiantang，xingfuzhiji;shoudaonanrendelengluoshi，nvrenjiuxiangshenghuozaibingjiao，shiluobeizhi，suoyoudexibao、shenjing、xueyedouhuiyongdongzhelihun、lihun，haoxiangzhiyoulihuncaikeyizhengjiuzijiyushuihuo。ganshoubudaozhangfudeguanai，hunyinjiushiquleyuanbendeyiyile。

 wuzhiyaoqiubunengbeimanzu。suoweijiahanjiahan，chuanyichifan。suiranxianzaidenvrennengduli，nengzhengqianyanghuoziji，danchuantongdejiehundeyiyizainvrentounaozhonghaishigenshendigu。dangnvrenduiwuzhidexuqiubunengbeimanzushi，shuomingzhangfudeshengcunnenglitairuoshi，lihunniantouyejiuyouranersheng。

 nanrenchugui。nvrenguzilikewangbicizhongchengdehunyin，yidanfaxianzijinanrenchuguideshishi，henkenengjiuhuixiangdaolihunlaijieshubuaidehunyin。dangrantamenweibizheiyangquzuo，danshilihundeniantouyidingshichuxianguode。

 fuqizhengchaobuxiu。fuqizhijianxiaochaoyiqingdachaoshangxin，xiaochaokeyirangnimengengjialejiebicidekuangjia，dachaozhihuirangrenshenxinjupi。shixiangyixia，chaojiazhongdeliangrenmianmuwuyishizhengningde，yinweilianggerendoulizhengzijishiduide。dangduifangmeicilianxiangdaodedoushihenizhengchaodeqingjing，ziranhuixuanzefangqi。

3、降低矛盾点

 rentongduifangdeguandian。yinqishuangfangduiliqingxuyuanyinwangwangshimeiyoutongyiduifangguandian，ganqingxiangchuzhongruoranbicibudongdetuoxie，jiuhuiyinqizhengchao。keshizhengchaowangwanghuishishuangfangbulizhi，daozhishuangfangguanxibaichihua，lengzhan，shuyuanzuihoulihun……ruguonihaichixushuoduifangshicuode，duifangzhihuigengjiacuodelipu。ruguonishuoduifangduile，tamashangjiuhuishaocuoyidian。

 zaizhe，chengrenzijidecuowu，chengkendixiangduifangbiaoshizijideqianyi，kongzhihaozijidexuqiu，bingyishijixingdongbiaoshizijidechengyi。erdaoqianyicijiugoule，lvcixiangduifangbiaoshinidehuiyi，zhihuirangtajuedeniyanerwuxin。xiangyaowanhui，haixuyaobuchongnideyizhixing。

3、改变自己

 gaidiaozijidemaobing，sheirenwuguo，renrendouhuiyouzijidequedian。bupafaxianbulezijidequedian，jiupajishizhidaozijidequedianhaiyizhibugai。ruguonishixiangyuduifanggongchuyisheng，jiuyaogaileduifangbuxihuannidedifang，ruguoyizhibugai，lihundeshiqinghaihuijixushangyan。

 ninengweitagaidiaozijidequedian，yenengtixianchutaduinidezhongyaoxing，zheiyangsheibuhuixindongni?yaoxuehuizunzhongduifang，meigerendouyouzijidexihao，bunenganzhaozijidexiangfahexihaoquyaoqiuduifang。meigerendouxuyaobeilijie，beiguanhuaide，zuoweitazuiqinmiderendouzuobudao，tahaizenmeganbaxinjiaojini。

4、增加联系

 erlihunbingbudaibiaozhenimenzhijiandeguanxijiuduandeyiganerjing，tongguogongtongdeqinpenghaoyoudengdengcanyupengyouquanhuodong，yekeyizengjianimenzhijiandelianxi，rangduifangkandaoniquanxindeyimian。

 lihunyiweizhenimendeguanxiyibufucongqian，suoyibuyaoqiwangyongguoqudekenqiuduifangyuanliangdefangshijiunenghuanlainimendefuhe。bijingguoquzaochengdeshanghaiyijingzaocheng，niyaotilianghelijieduifangduiyuhenizhongxinkaishizheijianshihaicunzhejiedihehuaiyi，chufeininengrangduifangduinimendeweilaizhongranxinxin，fouzefuhunjiangyaoyaowuqi。erzheixiedouxuyaoniyoujiandingdeyizhiheyanxingyizhi。

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