处理好这6点，婚姻不是爱情的坟墓

 zaihunyinlianaidezheitiaolushang，youderenjingliguohou，bianhuishuohunyinjiushiaiqingdefenmu，qishizheijuhuakeyikeyishuoduiyekeyishuobudui，zhuyaoshikanrenyushi。ruguonengzuohaoxiamianliudian，hunyinbushiaiqingdefenmu。

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一、家务活

 jiehunqianyigerenzongsuisuibianbianguolaile，danshijiehunhouyedaibiaozhechansheng jiawuhuo，xiyizuofan，dangranhaiyoushenghaizi，xianzaidaduoshudexiaogongzhubuguanjialiyouqianmeiqian，doushifumushoulidebaobei，meijigehuizuoxiangpenpendefancai，hebajialidasaodeyichenburandexiguan，neimehunhousheiquzuo，yaoshinizhaoleduohuahuilai，tongshiguorizideshiqingyidianbuhui，ganqingyezonghuimocachubuyiyangdehuohuade。

二、婆媳问题

 poxiwentishiziguyilaizuiweitoutengdeshiqing，zaijialimamashineiyangbaorongtengaiziji，yinweishizijishengde，kanzhenalidoushunyan，danshijiadaobierenjiadangerxijiubuyiyangle，yexuhuiyinweiyijuhua，yijianxiaoshiernaodebukekaijiao，zheigewentibuyongduoshuodajiayehuiduoshaoyoudianlejiede。

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三、生孩子问题

 xianzaidaduoshurenjiehunhouhenkuaishenghaizi，zheijiujiqikaoyanfuqiganqingle，dajiahaishihaizideshihouturanshenglegehaizi，haotangtua，zenmedaishigedawenti，yinweihaiziwentierchaochaonaonaodehunyinlianaibuzaishaoshula。

四、家庭开销

 hunhoudaoditadeqianshibushiwode，yeshigewenti，daodishiaazhihaishihehuoa，dajiadangranshuo，zhongguorendangranshihehuola，dangranshiqiziguanqianla，shihenduozheiyangde，danshiruguofuqishouruchabietaida，yehuixingchengluocha，henduojiatingyeshisheizhuanqianduosheilaodadeyangzi，shijianjiule，woxiangwentiyehuiyouba。

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五、第三者问题

 dangranla，yekenengbuzhidisanzhe，xiaosixiaowuxiaondoukenengyouda，zheigedaozhinanrenzhaoxiaonvrendehenduoyuanyin，zheigezhenbuhaoshuola。shuo“hunyinjiushiaiqingdefenmu”，dadishimeiyoulingwudaojingyinghunyindejiqiao，zaihunyinshenghuozhongzaoyulewentimeiyouhenhaodeshudaojiejue。

六、浪漫的问题

 jiehunqiandajiayinggaidouhuijingguotanlianaizheigehuanjie，neishihoushijianguodezhenkuaia，riziguodeyeshihenkaixin，ganjuenanpiaoshirucichongaiziji，duida，jiushichongde，rangnichihaoshuihaowanhao，haibuyongniganyidingdiandehuo，dangnianbanglaoniangtoucaidouhuirucidegaoxingzhi，xianzaijiehunle，shengwale，jiaonidageguaishoudoujiaobudongle，zheiyeshibeicuideshiqing，yeshibukebimiandeshiqing，ganjueshichongle，ganjuezijibuneimezhongyaole。