究竟婚姻是爱情的坟墓吗？

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很多人年轻的时候觉得爱情是天，没有爱，恨不得天都塌下来了。 在婚姻匹配后进入婚姻生活中后  faxian，aiqingtajibushitian，yebunenggaibianshenme。zhishiruguobutangelianaidehua，jiehundeliyoubianbuchongfen。yiwoxianzaideyanguangkan，zaizhongguohunyinchengzaileshengeryunv，yangerfanglaozheiyangdegongneng，hunhoutanqingshuoaideshijianhejinglidoumeiyoule，ziranhuijuedehunyinshiaiqingdefenmu。shuo“hunyinjiushiaiqingdefenmu”，dadishimeiyoulingwudaojingyinghunyindejiqiao，zaihunyinshenghuozhongzaoyulewentimeiyouhenhaodeshudaojiejue。

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