想离婚又下不了决心怎么办，下定决心离婚时考虑清楚这三点

 xianglihunyouxiabulejuexinzenmeban？tazhangfuweizijizuoleyixieduibuqideshi。tabenlaidasuanlihun，danzuijin，zaipopojiahepopojiarendequanshuoxia，tayuanlaidejuexinkaishidongyao。xianzaitabuzhidaogaizenmebanle。nixianglihunma？

 dangwomenzaihunyindemougeshikeyoulihundexiangfashi，zheizhengmingduifangzuoleyixieniwufarongrenheyuanliangdeshiqing。dangguanxifazhandaozheiyibushi，sihumeiyouhuitoudekeneng，yemeiyougengduodebuchang，danzhendeshizheiyangma？

 zuoweiyigejuwairen，nidejiarenhepengyoukenenghuijiniqitadejianyi。youxierenhuijianyinihunrizi。kuanrongshihunyindezhenli。yourenhuishuo，tatongchangduinibuhaoma？niyinggaiduokankanhaodifang。youxierenhuishuo，zaizheiyangyijianxiaoshishanglihuntaitianzhenle。shijieshangzenmehuiyouwanmeideren？

 danshidangnijiehundeshihou，nirengranbixuzijijinglizheiyiqie。nimianqianderenjiangshiheniyiqiduguoyishengderen。ruguotahenyouxiu，duinihenwenrou，nideyushengjiuhuixingfu。ruguotazhijinidailaibuxinghetongku，neimejianchizheiyangdehunyinjiumeiyouduodayiyi。

 danwomenyedanxinwomenhuiyinweichongdongerzuochucuowudejueding。bijing，lihunbushierxi。zheibingbuyiweizhewomenkeyihuiqu。zainimaichuzuihouyibuzhiqian，wenwenzijijici。zheigejieguozhendeshinixiangyaodema？

 lihunhoudeshenghuokenengbinixiangxiangdegenggudu、gengcanku。niquedingninengzhunbeihaochengshouzheiyiqiema？zaizuochuzuihoujuedingzhiqian，kaolvyixiasanjianshihaibusuantaiwan。

一、离婚后如何生活

 youhenduorentounaofare，huozhehelingyibanchaojia，shengqidishuolihun，meiyourenhuirangrenherenlihun。jiuzheiyang，wozhendejinruleminzhengju。zhidaowonadaolihunzhengshu，kanzhexiaobenzi，woturanjuedezheiyiqiedoushizhende。wozhendeyishichongdonglihunle。

 danshilihunhoudelugaizenmezouni？conglaimeiyourenzhenxiangguo，zhishiyinyuejuede，meiyoutawokeyihuoxiaqu，erqieyidingyaohuodepiaoliang。

 tazuihaodepengyouxiaodijiushiyigehenhaodelizi。tahezhangfuguanxihenhao，dantamendoushipiqibaozaoderen。meiyourenhuirangrenherenshengqi。yishichongdong，tamenzhendelihunle。womendouhendanxintalihunhouruheduzishenghuo。xiaodiyehennanshuo，hunqianwohuizuoshenme？zheiyoushenmekunnan。

 danlihunhou，conglianggerendeshenghuoturanhuidaoyigerendegudu，neizhongganjuerangtahenbushufu。youqishimeicixiabanhuilai，huidaokongdechuzufangjian，xiaodizongshixiangdaohezhangfuyiqichiwanfan，liaotian，yongbaokandianshichangjing，gengduodehuiyigengxinsui，jingchangliuleidaoliming。

niangjiadefumuyeguaitataichongdong，zuoshibukaolvhouguo。tamenxiaoliangkouganqingzheimehao，zenmeturanlihunle？

 tadeqianfulaizhaotahaojici，danxiaodizhendetaihaole，nazhejiazizongshijujuejugong。houlai，tadeqianfuzhujianmeiyoulai，ranhouxiaoditingshuotayouleyigexinnvpengyou，tadexinzhongyuwanquansile。

 xianzaixiaodihuidaojiaxianghefumuzhuzaiyiqi，youzhaodaoleyifengongzuo。wozaijuhuishangouerjianguotajici，tadeyanjinglimeiyouyiqianxingfushideguangmang。tebieshidangtakandaoyiduifufushouqianshoushi，xiaodideyanjinghuibianan。

 tandaoguoqudehunyin，tayekuxiaozheshuo，meiyoushenmekeyihouhuide。zhinengshuo，zheishiyizhongzirandefangshi。jintian，danruguowonengzhongxinkaishi，wojiubuhuineimechongdongle。

二、是否还有退路，还有另一个机会

lingyibandaodizuoleshenmecuoshi，rangnixiadingjuexinyaolihun？

 xuduorenlihundezhenzhengyuanyinbushiyinweitamendebanlvzuolecuoshi，jiantalehunyindedixian，biruqipianhejiatingbaoli。xiangfan，zheishishenghuozhongdeyixiesuoshi，kenenghuirangtamengandaowufarenshouhefennu。

 dannibufanglengjingxialai，xiangxiangzuihouyibushifouzhendewufawanhui。ruguonizaijitayicijihui，tahuijiuzhengde。nixiangtuiyibuma？

 suhuashuo，chaishihuidiaoyizhuanghunyin，buruchaidiaoshizuomiaoyu。lianggerencongmangmangrenhaizhongxiangyu，xiangai，xiangshouyehennan，suoyibuyaoqingyizuochufenlidejueding。

 fuqizhijianmeiyoukekebanbandeshenghuo。ruguowomenyinweiyidianmaodunhezhengchaoerzhengchaolihun，yinweiwomenbuxihuantadeyixiexiaoquedian，neimewomenzhudinghennanzhaodaowomendezhenai。

 buyaobeihulianwangshangsuoweideaiqingjitangxinao。nirenweinizhenzhengaiderenyidingyuanyiweinizuochuyixiegaibian。shishishang，renmendoushishentishangdetaier，zongshixinqinghaohuobuhao。

 dangyiweitongshitandaotahetaqizidejinglishi，tazongshifeichangnanguo。tashuoyouyiciwoqichuangwanle，jihuchidaole。jieguo，diandongyashuayouhuaile，bunengshuaya。neitianzaoshangwodexinqinghenfanren，meiyourenxianghewoshuohua。woqiziqichuanghou，tayejizhequshangban，rangwoshuachilidewan，diebeizi。

 xianglihunyouxiabulejuexinzenmeban？danshineitianwoxinqingbuhao，shenmedoubuxiangzuo，suoyiwobulita。dangtakandaowoyidongbudongshi，tahenshengqi，malewoyidun。dangtabeizemashi，wogengshengqile。womenmomingqimiaodichaoleyijia。danshidangwoxiabanhuilaideshihou，xiangdaobaitianfashengdeshiqingshihuangmiude。zheigenbenbuzhideshengqi。

 youxieshiqingshizheiyangde。dangnizaiguoqudeyiduanshijianlihuixiangqilai，nihuijuedenibuzhidezheimedanxin，meiyoubiyaobatafangzaixinshang。yixiexiaoshiqingkeyitongguoweixiao。meiyoubiyaolaihuila。laihuidejiuchanzhihuiduilianggerenzaochengjidadeshanghai。

三、财产和子女的归属

zaikaolvlihundeshihou，zuihouyigewentishicaichandefenpeihezinvdeguishu，zheiyeshizuixianshidewenti。

 hunhoushuyunimendegongtongcaichanyounaxie？youjitaofangzi，jiliangche？lihunhouruhefenpeizheixiecaichan？ruguotanbushang，yougaizenmeban？

 niyouduoshaohaizi？nanhaihaishinvhai？haiziduodale？niyuanyigensuinidefuqinhaishinidemuqin？ruguonixiangdaizounidehaizi，nidebanlvhuitongyima？huozheniyuanyibahaiziliuzaizheilima？

 zuihouyigewentiyeshizuicankudewenti。xuduofufuzhendetongyilihun，dantamenzaifengecaichanfangmianyudaolekunnan，huozheyinweitamenbuyuanyifangqizijidehaizi，tamenbudebujixujingyingpoliedehunyin。

 ruguowomenzhendekaolvqingchu，womenbuxiangzaihezheigerendaiyifenzhong。ruguowomenjixuliuzaizheiduanhunyinzhong，nideyushengjiangshiqurenhejiazhi，suoyibuyaozaiyibierendeyanjing。renmenyinggaiweizijierhuo，kuailedizouchuqu。

 dantongshi，womenyeyinggaihuidazheigewenti。caichanfenpeidemudeshirangzheiduifufujishilihunhouyenengchengweiputongpengyou，erbushichengweidiren。tamenjianmianshitebiejidu，buhuirangzuimingandejingjiwentishanghainidexin。suirantamenyinggaifenkai，danzuihoujinliangbaochitimiandetuichu。

 xianglihunyouxiabulejuexinzenmeban？haizishimeigefumudexin。dangwomenjuedinglikaishi，haizimenyinggaiqunali？ruguonixiangweinidehaizizuochuxisheng，niyuanyima？zheishiyigemeigerendouhuisikaodewenti。wulunzuizhongdaanshishenme，womendoubuyinggaihouhuijintiandejueding。