分手了还有联系，想和女友复合怎么直接说

 youxierentanlunaiqing，turanfenshou；suiranwomenfenshoule，danrengranyoulianxi。womenzenyangcainengzhongguiyuhao？yixiashiruheyuqiannanyouheqiannvyouzhongguiyuhao，yijiruhezaifenshouhouyuqiannanyouheqiannvyouliaotian？xianghenvyoufuhezenmezhijieshuo？

如何和前女友分手

1.yaoyounaixin，zuohaozijidezhuangbei

 zuoweiyigenanhai，ruguonixianghenideqiannvyoufuhe，nixuyaonaixin。yikaishi，taweishenmeyaohenifenshou？taduinibumanyi，nibixuzhaodaota，rangnvhaikandaoniyijinggaibianle；yikaishi，nanhaihuiyudaotalengmodetaidu，zheishizhengchangxianxiang。zaizheigeshihou，nvhaimenhuiweinizuohaozhunbei；

 yinci，nixuyaogengduodenaixin。ruguonixuanzehenideqiannvyoufuhe，niyinggaiyouzheiyangdexinlizhunbei；zheijiuxiangzaicizhuiqiuta。tongshi，niyinggaizhunbeihaozijideshebei。ruguoniyouhaodezhuangbei，nikeyitongguoshengjihezhandou。

2.以试探为前提

 shouxiancongshejiaopingtaishanghudong，dianzanhuopinglun，shuadiaonidecunzaigan；ruguoduifangchuxianle，pinglunnihuozhedianzan，zhijieshuomingduifangguanzhuni，buzaiduinifangan。

3.了解女孩的心思

 nikeyihuiyideqiannvyouxihuanshenmema？jiehepengyouquanhuoshejiaopingtaideneirong，ranhoujinxingfenxi。ruguonixiangzhongguiyuhao，niyinggaishidangdizhunbeiyixieliwuhuojingxi，zheiyangnvhaijiukeyihenrongyidibeinigandong。

4.jiduifanggengduodeanquangan

 ruguoniyiqianbunengjiduifanganquangan，niyinggaigaibianqiannvyouduinideyinxiang，zaiqiannvyoumianqianchengdanzeren，jitazugoudeanquangan；henideqiannvyoufuhehenrongyi。

和前男友分手分手

1.学会复盘感情

 xuduonvhaiyuqiannanyoufenshou，youlianxi，buzhidaoruhefuhe；zheilideqiannanyoukeyilianxizhengmingduifangbunengrangnizou，dandangduifangkanbudaonigaibianshi，duifangbuhuihenifuhe；neime，fenshoudeyuanyinshishenmeni？xianghenvyoufuhezenmezhijieshuo？

shiyinweinitaizuonanpengyoushuobuheshi，haishinichujilenanpengyoudedixian，zheilidewentixuyaonizixisikao。

2.不要情绪化

 zuoweiyigenvhai，zaiwanhuiqiannanyoudeshihou，daizheqinggan，yidandaizheqinggan，nijiuhuizuochuhenduocuowudepanduan，zhihuibafuheladeyuelaiyueyuan。

3.让自己更新鲜

 meiyiduanguanxidouhuijingli。meiyouxinxiangan，jiuhuiyoupilao；zuoweiyigenvhai，womenyinggaixuehuirangzijiyouzugoudexinxiangan，tongguozijidemeilixiyinwomendeqiannanyou；shishishang，zheibingbunan。bijing，tabeinixiyinguoyici，zaicixiyintayebunan。

分手后如何聊天

分手有几个阶段：

1.fenshouchuqi(yaoshaoshuohua)；

zaizheigejieduan，buyaojizhezhaoduifanglianxi，bijinggangfenshou，duifanghaishihuifangan；

2.jianghuoqi(kaishijiechu，yiguanxinweiqianti)

 tongguoshejiaoruanjian，yipengyoudeshenfen，guanxinbici，zheiyangjiubuhuitangtu，nikeyizheiyangkaishi：“woxiangtongle。yexuwoyiqianzuocuole，zheirangnihennanguo。duibuqi，wobunengchengweiyiduifufu。zuopengyouqishitinghaode。”zaijiashangruizhidebiaoqing。

 jizhu，xiangshuoshenmejiushuoshenme，yijuyijudishuo，yitiaoyitiaodifaxiaoxi，jiqianrenshedingyige“niyizhizaifansi，feichangzhongshizheiduanganqing”ganjue。budannengweiniyingdeyixiehaoyinxiang，niyongzhenchengqianxudeyuqi，hainengjiqiqianrenhuifunideyuwang。

3.guanxihuanheqi(yaobaochiwending，buyaoguozaobiaoshinixuyaoduifang)；

 buyaotijiguoqu，buyaowenguanyuganqingdeshiqing。suiranxianzaiguanxiyijinghuanhele，danyidingyaohanxu，jiduifangliuxianiyijinggaibiandeyinxiang，zheishiyigequanxindeni，zheiyangduifangcaihuigengyuanyihenijiaoliu。suizheshijiandetuiyi，renqihuimanmanshangsheng，henrongyifuhe。

 xianghenvyoufuhezenmezhijieshuo？qishiwomenfenshoule，haishiyoulianxide。wobuzhidaoruhezhongguiyuhao。wulunshiqiannanyouhaishiqiannvyou，chulelengjingzhiwai，womenhaikeyixianzhongfuzijideganshou，ranhougaibian，zaibicidejiechuheliaotianzhongmanmanfuhe。