五六十岁的男性，50多岁的男人爱上一个女人的表现

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当一个人超过50岁时，他会很快变老。此外，体力下降相当严重，社会地位开始动摇和不稳定。因此，对于男人来说，50岁是人生的一大障碍。当50岁临近时，男人们不禁感叹：我要跑50岁。

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他认为这是值得的。

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