50多男人怎样摆脱离婚的苦恼，无论多好的婚姻都会毁在这三句话上

 50duonanrenzenyangbaituolihundekunao？maerkesishuo：“richangsuosuidefannaobihunyinzhongdejudazainangengnanyibimian。”zheijuhuatingqilaihenfengci，danzheishixianshizhongdehunyin。takanqilaihenqiangzhuang，danshijishanghencuiruo。

 hunyinjiuxiangyigejudadewaiqiao，bazhangfuheqizibaoguozailimian，congwaimianjiyuqiangyoulidebaohu。raner，yidianneibushanghaihenrongyishitafenbenglixi。

zhengruwuxianshengsuoshuo：“zaihaodehunyin，yehuibeizheisanjuhuahuidiao，hunyinshirucicuiruo。”

zhengshizheisanjuhua，shitaheqizicongqinmi，yibubuyanbianchengmoshengren。

一：极化婚姻中的一点点矛盾

fuqishizuiqinmideren，erqiezhuzaitongyigewuyanxia，meitiandouyaomianduichaimiyouyan，meiyourenhemaodun，youzennengni？

 nihenidefumuzhijianrengranhuiyouzhengchao，nidebanlvhuiyibuyibudiconglianggemoshengrenneilixiangyu、xiangshihexiangai。zheiyidingshiyigemohedeguocheng。danzuizhongyaodeshifuqiruhechulizheizhongmaodun。fuqishifoutongxintongde，xianghuzunzhong，gongtongxieshangjiejuewenti？haishidangniyudaowentishi，nizhihuihuxiangzhize，weiyijianxiaoshizhengchao？

 wuxianshengshuo，cengjingtabudong，tadeqiziyebudong，lianggerenzongshibahunyinzhongdeyidianxiaomaodunbianchengjiduan，zhikaolvziji，erhulveleduifangdeganqing。

zhengchaoduole，xinyeleile，henduoshiqingdoubuhuizaiquzhengqushuying，danshikanzheduifangdeshihou，yemeiyouyiqianneimeshendeai。

二：不自觉地抛弃对方

youhenduofuqizaihunhou，huiyouhenqiangdepanbizhixin。youqishiduizijishenbianderen，zheiyangdepanbizhixingengzhong。

 50duonanrenzenyangbaituolihundekunao？liru，duiyunvxinglaishuo，nanxingdewuzhitiaojiankeyishuoshitamenzaipengyouquanzhongxuanyaodeziben。ruguonikandaonizuihaodepengyouchuguolvxing，nvrenkenenghuiwuyishidibuxihuantadezhangfu，yinweitadegongziyiban。

 nanrenjingchangyuqizidewenrouheshanliangxiangbi，zheijiushiweishenmexuduonanrenzaiwaimianhepengyouyiqiwan。dangnidadianhuacuicutahuijiashi，tahuiduinishengqi，yinweitajuedediulelian，rangbierenjuedetahaipatadeqizi。

 zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，tamenhuiwuyishidibuxihuanduifang，kandaoduifangbiandeyuelaiyuebuyukuai。danshihunyinzainalishiwanmeideni？ruguonizhizhidaopipingduifangdequedian，duiyoushishierbujian，hunyinchizaohuipolie。

三：互相猜疑，不懂得信任对方

liuxianshengshuo，tadeqizihenmingan，youshihoutachidaohuiquyihuier，qizijiuhuiwendongwenxi。

 guolehenzhangyiduanshijian，tajuedezheiyangdeshenghuohenwuliao，zheirangtachuanbuguoqilai，meiyoukongjianheziyou。dangran，tayezhidaozheiyiqiedegenyuanshiyinweitazaihu，danruguotazongshibaduifangbangzaizijishenbian，zuizhongdejieguozhihuishideqifan。

 zaihunyinzhong，bujinnvrenhuidanxindeshi，erqienanrenyoushiyehuihuaiyi。zhongsuozhouzhi，zaimeiyicihuaiyizhihou，nimenzhijiandejulihuiyuelaiyueyuan。

 nizhidao，hunyindejichushixinren。ruguoduifangzhendexiangbeipanni，buguanniyouduoyange，tarengrankeyizhaodaojihui。yinci，zhiyouxianghuxinren、xianghukuanronghexianghulijie，hunyincainengwennuanxingfu。

wuxianshenglihunhoufeichanghouhui，ruguozhidaozheisangezihuiduihunyinzaochengrucijudadeshanghai，tayidinghuijinliangbimian。

 raner，shenghuozhongmeiyouhouhuiyao。shiquderenzaochengdeliehen，wulunfuchuduoshaonuli，doushiwufamibude。suoyi，yikaishijiuyaodongdezhenxiduifang，duocongduifangdejiaodukaolv，buyaoshenmedouxiangyao。

 50duonanrenzenyangbaituolihundekunao？shishishang，zheicaishihunyindezhendi。xuehuilijie、lijiehexinren，nihuifaxian，qishixingfuyehenrongyi。