你知道柏拉图式恋爱是什么吗？

 bolatushilianaizhiyoujingshenshangdelianai，danmeiyouroutishangdejiehe。shenmeshibolatushilianai，bolatushilianaixintainizhidaoma？

一、 柏拉图式恋爱

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 bolatushilianai，yechengweibolatushiaiqing，yixifangzhexuejiabolatumingmingdeyizhongyixingjiandejingshenlianai，zhuiqiuxinlinggoutong，paichi。

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二、 什么是柏拉图式恋爱

 linghunshiaidejichu，zhishanshiaidezhongjizhuiqiu。zai《huiyinpian》zhong，xianzhidiaotimashuodao，aijiushiduibuxiudeqipan，eryiqiekexiuzhedouzaijinlizhuiqiubuxiu。yishengyufanyanweimudedejiaowangshiyanxulunhuidedijizhuiqiu，erzuigaodengjideaishireaizuizhongkeyidadaoshandexingshidezhihuihezhexue。renderoutishikexiude，weiyoujingshenbuxiu。yigerendepingeyugaoshang，xiongxinzhuangzhiyejiuyuda，yinweitamenaideshiyongheng。chuncuide、gaoshangde、yizhishanweizuigaomude、yizhihuihezhexueweizhuiqiuduixiangdeaiqing，chenjinqizhongdeliangrenguanxihuigengjialaogu，tamendejiaowanghuigengjiawanzheng，shengguofuqideqingfen，zheishiyinwei“tamenchuangzaochulaidedongxibiroutidezinvgengjiameili、gengjiazhangshou”。zaizheiyicengmian，aiqingshirenshengzuizhuyaodelixiang，yutaxiangbi，caifu、mendi、quanbingdoubuguoshifuyunfutubale。

三、 柏拉图式恋爱心态

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