遇到感情问题怎么办？请面对它

 yudaoganqingwentizenmeban？niyouyihuodeshihoujiuyaoquxunwen，niyoucuowudeshihoujiuyaoquchengren，nixiangtajiuyaogaosuta。renheganqingwentidoubuyaolengchuli。henduoshiqingrenzherenzhejiubiandemohule，mingmingbushiwuhuiyebianchenglewuhui。bieyiweineixiewentihuizairennaideshijianzhongbeihuajie，tazhihuizairijiyueleizhongbaofa，jiniyigechengshoubuledejieguo。

一、学会放下

 henduorenzaiqingganlijinglilehenjiliedeqingxu，henshendeaiguo，henguo，beishangguo，tongkuguo，jihujinglilegezhongqingxudelianyu，dangzheiduanganqingjieshushi，jiuyouyizhongjinliledewenxinwukuigan，jingliyiduanshijiandexiufuhuihenrongyiquanranfangxia。

 danruguolianggerenzaiqingganzhongzongshiqianqiandejiaowang，buganshenruquai，huoshizhenshidebiaodazijideqingxu，zheixieqingxuzaifenshouhoujixucunchuzaishentili，qudaoyiqianheqianrenzaiyiqidehuanjinghuopengyouquanli，zheixieqingxujiuhuipaochulai，yingxiangdaodangxiadexinqing。

 buguanshizaiheqianrenhuoshixianrendeguanxili，henduoshihouwomenqishishizaixunzhao，xunzhaorenshizijidefangfa，heyigezaiyiqideaideganjuehuibangzhuwomenzhaodaoziji。

yinweiaishiwomenneizaidebenzhi，suoyourangwomentongkudeshiqingdoushizairangwomenyuanliziji。

 yincibingbushishiqingrangwomentongkude，ershirangwomenyuanlizijideganjuerangwomentongku，danyoushihouwomenshitongguoyuanlizijilaifaxianzijidebenzhi，dangwomenjieshouheqianrendefenkaideshishi，jiushiyigerangwomenfaxianzijibenzhidejihui。

womensuiyoubushe，yeyaoheduifangshuozaijian。

一、性与爱，能不能分开？

 aiqingdemeihaobuzaiyudanchunshengjie，ershiwomenkeyihexiangaiderenxiangshouzizaiqingxuhexingweidebiaoda，dongrendeqinghuashiaiqing，fuyoujiqingdexingaiyeshiaiqing。

aidechuqishixiyin，yuwangyuqingxudechongdong

 chuqideshihou，suoweiderelianqi，yejiushijiqingyuansu，zaizheigejieduan，womenduixingxiyinshigengmingan，xingxuqiushigengqiangliede。suoyixingdefenliangzhandeduoyixie，shiheqinghelideshiqing，zaichuqidexiangchuzhong，dakeyixiangshouzheizhongxiyinhexuqiudemanzu，buyongguofenjieyixingguanxidaodiyiweizheshenme，huozheshibushihuiyingxiangdaoaiqingdebenzhi。

aidezhongqishiqinmi，fenxiangbicidemimi

 ruguobicixingdexiyinnenggouchixuyiduanshijian，neimejiuhuijinruqinmiguanxidejieduan。zaizheigejieduan，womenhuiliaoguoqudegushi，liaorenshengdekunhuo，haiyouduiweilaidechongjing。

aidehouqishichengnuo，bicixinrenyuzhichi

zuihoudechengnuojieduan，dagaishihenduorenqidaide“jieguo”。

 ruguozhiqiandelianggejieduandounenggoulizhiyoubushiganxingdiyingdui，neimeziranjiuhuikaishigouleshuyulianggerendeweilai。womenzhisuoyiyuanyiheyanqiandezheigerenxieshouzouwanyuxiaderensheng，jiushiyinweizuizhongyaodelianggeyinsudedaolemanzu，jiqingheqinmi。

二、谈钱伤感情吗？

nigenbanlvhuitanqianma？nimendeqianshizenmefenpeide？

nimenzaiyiqizongtilaijiangsheijingjishangtourugengda？youshisheiduiqianzuibierbutan？

 doushuotanqianshangganqing，guanxijinderen，yitanqianjiuyuanle。youqiduiyuzhongguoreneryan，yueshiguanxihao，jiuyuebuhaoyisibaqiansuanqingchu。qishiqiaqiaxiangfan，“tanqian”budanbuhuishangganqing，fanerhuitishengwomendexingfugan。

 shouxian，mouzhongchengdushangjiang，qiandaibiaoyigerendenengli。yigerenyongyoudeqian，fanyingletazaizheigeshehuishangyongyoudeziyuan（zhishaoshiyibufenziyuan）。suoyiwomenshouxiankeyitongguoyigerendejingjizhuangkuangpinggutayuwomendeshilishifoupipei。

 qici，yigerenyuanyiweinifuchuduoshaoqian，yedaibiaoletayuanyijiniduoshaoai。qianshiyigerendeziyuan，limianbaohanzhetafendoudexinku，yigerenyuanyijiangzijiyongyoudeduoshaoziyuanfenjini，mouzhongchengdushangyejiufanyingletayouduozaihuni。

 disan，tanqiankeyiyansanguan，youqishijinqianguan。xingfuhunyinhenzhongyaodeyidianjiushi“sanguanhe”。dangwomennenggougongkaiditanlunqian，keyikanchuliangrenrenshengguan、jiazhiguanhejinqianguandechayi。

 suoyi，yudaoganqingwentizenmeban？henduowentijiushichuzaizheili。zaiyiduanguanxizhong，ruguowomennenggouyuezaodiqingxitanqian，yejiuyuenengbimianrihouyouyusanguanheshenghuoxiguanbuhedaozhidefenqi。