ruherangqianrenzhudongqiufuhe?shilianhou,henduorenhuigandaofeichangnanguo。tamenbumingbaiweishenmeduifanghuiwuqingdipaoqini,bazijidingweiweiganqingdexishengpin,xiangyaozhengjiuaiqing,quebuzhidaoruhezhengjiuaiqing。
zaihuifudeguochengzhong,wozongshijuedezijishiwugude,suoyiwodeqingxushiwufakongzhide。wobufanshengzijidewenti,yebukaolvduifangdeganshou。wobunengtingbierendejianyi,buduandijiuchanduifang,zhidaotatongyizhongguiyuhao。houguokexiangerzhi。tabujinmeiyouhuifuchenggong,erqierangnideqianrenduiniyuelaiyuefangan,meiyoufuhedexiwang。fenshouhouruhezhengjiuaiqing?
一、承认分手的事实,表现出积极的情绪
henduorenzaifenshouhoubazijidingweiweiganqingdeshouhaizhe,renweitaweinigandaonanguo,tagufulenidexin。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia,nixiangyaohuifudeaiyidingshishibaide。jirannixiangshouhuinideqianren,danbaoyuantaduinibuzhencheng,zaizheizhongzhuangtaixia,nimeiyoubanfawanjiujumian,chulejiuchanhexunwenduifang。yinci,ruguonixiangzhengjiuaiqing,nibixushouxianbaituoshouhaizhedeshenfen,yibianzuochuzhengquedehuifuxingwei,bimiangengduodemaodun。
yinci,ruguonixiangzhidaoruhezhengjiuaiqing,shouxianchengrenfenshoudeshishi。nibushizheizhongguanxideshouhaizhe。dangyiduanguanxipolieshi,lianggerendouyouzeren。ruguonixianghuifu,nibixuchengdanzijidezeren,jiuzhengzijidequedian,zheiyangnicainengzhaodaozhengquedebujiucuoshi。ciwai,niyinggaixuehuibiaoxianchujijideqingxu,zheiyangnicainengganrannideqianren,erbushichenjinzaibeishangzhong,yinweizainideshenghuozhong,chuleganqing,haiyougongzuohejiating。dangnifengfulenideshenghuo,duifanghenrongyizaicijiejinni,nidekangfuhuigenghao。
二、找出分手的原因
juyougaoduweituojingshendefunvweituoxinlishiyizhongxinli。tamenbazijiweituojibieren,rangbierenzhaoguzijideshenghuo。yougaoduxinrengandenvxingtongchanghuijinanxingdailaijudadeyali,yinweinanxinghuirenweitamenzhendeweinifuchuletaiduo,shenzhirenweinihaipa,ziranbuxianghenizaiyiqi。
yigeyouquanshi、zifudenvrenmeicichaojiadouyinggaishiyingjia。meiyici,tadouxiwangduifangnengwanquantingcongzijidehua。ruguotabuzuohuobuzuo,tajiushi“buaini”“buzhenxini”。zheijiushirenmenchangshuode“zuo”,zongshirenweinidelingyibanyinggaiduizijihao,guanxinnideyiqie,renweibierenduinidehaoshilisuodangrande。renmenxuyaodedaokending,jiushixuyaolian,ruguonizheimeqiangzhuang,ziwoyalirangtachuanbuguoqilai,meiyourenyuanyiliuxialai。
duiyuruhezhengjiuaiqing,buyaochengweiyigexingweijiduandenvren。chaojiadeshihouku,dachaodanao,dachaodanao。“wobuhuole”guazaizuili。zheizhongnvrenyibandouyoushouhaizhedeqingjie,zongjuededajiadouduibuqita。tashizuikeliande。damianjidefunengliangzhihuirangnanrenhaipa。renmenxihuanheneixienengrangrenkaixinderendaizaiyiqi,yinweiganqingshiyouchuanranxingde。yikaishi,nizheiyangzuohuirangnanrenshangxinhebuqingyuan,dannibuxuyaojicijiuhuigandaojusanghekangju。
三、放下你的芥蒂,对于爱情没有对错,只有值得
ruherangqianrenzhudongqiufuhe?nifeichangguanxinnineixindeqingganshanghai,ranhounineixindeshangkoujiucunzaile。nijizijiliuxialetaiduobugaishanzhuangtaideliyou。youshihou,fangxiatashichenggongxiufuaiqingdediyibu。nihuirenweinibuguanxinduifang,dannirengranguanxinduifang。zheizhinengzhengmingtarengranaizheni。weishenmenimeiyoukandaozheiyidian,ershigezhonggeyangdebaoyuanhezhize。ruguomeiyouaidezhichi,meiyourenhuiyongyuanjizhuyigeren。jishishiyiduizaogaodejiyiyehuizhanyongtaiduodeshijian!
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