fuhedehuayaozenmeshuo?zaihuifuqijian,goutongfeichangzhongyao。zaihuifuguochengzhong,xuduorenbuzhidaoshuoshenmeduihuifuyouli,shenmeduihuifubuli。tamenmangmudicaiquhuifuxingdong,daozhiguanxiehuashenzhiwanquanpolie。
在恢复期不能说什么
1.说对方的坏话
ruguoniyinweifenshouerbuyuanyiheshengqi,dannixiangyongzheizhongfangshijinxingbaofu。ruguonizhishishuohuaihua,neizhihuirangduifanggenghennijuedefenshoushizhengquedexuanze,gengbuyongshuohuitoule。
yinci,ruguonixianghuifu,buyaozaikandaobierenshishuotadehuaihua。xiangfan,shouxiankongzhinideqingxu,manmanxiufuguanxi,zhuazhumeiyigehuifuchuangkou。buyaoyinweinibuyuanyishiquhuifudejihui,shenzhikenenghuiyingxiangnideshengyu。bijing,ruguonicengjingaiguo,jiumeiyoubiyaoxiangdirenyiyang。
2.过度消极的抱怨
fenshouhou,henduorenhuibiandefeichangxiaojiheqingxuhua。tamenbuchibuhe。tamenhuijingchanggengxintamendepengyouquan,zhidaotianliang。raner,tamenshiyixiebaoyuan、beishanghexiaojidebiaoda。zheixiezinvedefangshibuhuirangtamendeqianrenhuitou,danhuihengaoxingfenshou,yinweitamentaijusangle,nidexiaojiqingxubujinrangnibukuaile,yerangzhenzhengguanxinni、ainidejiarenhepengyoudanxin。
suoyibuyaojixujusang。meiyouhaochu。rengranyouhenduorenaini,xihuanni。zuoyixierangnigandaokuailedeshiqing,biandejiji。zaizheigeshihou,nihuiyudaonixiangyaodeai。
3.xiguanyuchengnuohejieshi
xuduorenfenshouhou,xiangyaojiyuwanhui,jiubutingdixiangduifangdaoqian,“wozhidaocuole”,buduanchengnuoshuo,“wobaozhenghuigaibian,nixiangxinwo”。
dangran,ruguoduifangyuanliangnibingyuanyizhongguiyuhao,neishizuihaode,dandaduoshurenbuhuixiangxin,yinweidaoqianhechengnuoduitamendeqianrenlaishuoshixuhuandekonghua,genbenwufajiejueqingganmaodun。
erqie,zhihuirenweinizhihuishuo,queyongyuanzuobudao,duinideyinxianghuibiandegengzao,gengbuxiangfuhe。
4.butingdiduiduifangshuotianyanmiyu
fuhedehuayaozenmeshuo?zairelianqijianduinideairenshuoyixieqinghuakeyijiashennideganqing,rangduifanggengaini。raner,fenshouhou,youyubiciguanxidebianhuaheduifangdeqingxuzhuangtai,bushiheshuoyixietianyanmiyu,zheijiangqiangliebaolunixiangyaohuifudexuqiu,jiduifangdailaijudadeyali,congershinigengjiapaichiheshuyuan。
所以说什么是正确的,如何沟通才能缓和彼此的关系,让恢复的机会更大
1.zaifenshouqijian,wochenxiaxinlai,fansilehenduo。woyishidaowoguoqutairenxingle,jinizengjialehenduoyali,zheidaozhiwomenzoudaolezheiyibu。xiexienijilewomeihaodeganjue。woxianzaihenzhenxizheizhongganjue。wobuzhidaonishifouyuanyizaijiwoyicijihui?
2.wohenlijienixianzaidexinqing。wobuxiangkanzhewo,buxianghewoshuohua。zheidoushiwoderenxingzaochengde。woyinggaichengdanhouguo。danshi,ruguowoyuanyigaidiaorenxingdehuaixiguan,qingtingnidexiangfa,jieshounideyijian,zhudongyunigoutong,nihaiyuanyihewoliaotianma?
3.fenshouhou,wofaxianwomenshirucidekuaile,rucidekuaile,nishirucide,danwozongshiguanxinyixiesuosuideshiqing,hulvelexuduokuailedeshike。meiyouni,wodeshenghuosihubiandeyituanzao。
4.wozhidaowomenzoudaojintiandezuidayuanyinshiwo,suoyixianzai,woshitugaibianwoderenxing,wodehuaixiguan,woxiangchengweiyigegenghaoderen,danmeitiankandaonicengjingjiwoliwu,nidezhaopian,chongmanmeihaodehuiyi,rangwocuoguo,houhui,buzhidaoxianzainulibiandegenghao,meiyoujihuicanyunideshenghuo?
5.nizongshibaoyuanwo,congbushuoaini,yinweiwozhidaowoaini,juedemeiyoubiyaoshuo,danfenshouhouwomingbai,aishibiaoda,duifanghuizhidao,huiqueding,huikuaile,shenghuoyexuyaoyixietianmidehuayu,yexuyaoouerdelangmanqingxu,suoyiwoxianzaifeichangyansu,feichangyansu,“woaini”xiwangbuhuitaiwan,dangranniyemeiyouyali,wozhishixiangrangnizhidaowodexiangfa。
6、wocengjingrenweifenshoushiyizhongjietuo,huiyouwuxiandeziyou,wuxiandefangsong,danzhendefenlie,wofaxianwobunengshiyingyigerendeshenghuo,ziyou,danmeiyounideguanxin,meiyounidewennuan,wotaixiangnianbiciyiweidemei,shenzhizhengchaoyejuedezheishiyizhonglequ,wohaiyoujihuijixuzheizhongshenghuoma?
dangran,yishangzhishiliaotian,xiangyaowanhuiqianrenbixutigaoziwojiazhi,tigaoduifangduinidebuliangyinxiang,zhongxinxiyinduifang。
ziwotisheng,biaoxianzaihenduofangmian,birunidewaizaixingxiang、gongzuonengli、shejiao、pengyou、xingquaihao、xintaidengdeng。
huifubushiyijianjiandandeshiqing。chulezhengquedehuifufangfawai,womenhaiyinggaiyouzugoudenaixin,huafeidaliangdeshijianhejingli。zhiyaowomenduibiciyouxinxin,kangfuzhirikedai。
fuhedehuayaozenmeshuo?ruguonengzhunquepanduanlianggerendexingweihezhuangtai,jiunengyouxiaodibimianyixiewenti。
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