如何让前任主动求复合，分手后如何让前任想复合

 ruherangqianrenzhudongqiufuhe？bushimeigerendefenshoudoushizhenzhengdefenshou，youshishifennudehuayu，wanfenshou，fenshouhouhouhui，xianghejie，danbuzhidaoruhezhengjiuduifangdexin。

1.克制自己不去找他

 buguannijuededuifangyouduohao，niyouduobuxiangfenshou，yinweilengbaolilengchulifenshoushibiyaode。weishenmehuizheiyang?yinweiduifangyijingyanjuanleni，jidukewangziyou，nicishiderenhejiuchanhejiazhizhanshi，duiduifanglaishuodoushiguyide，shitaziyoudadaoshangdeluzhang。suoyiyuqichengweizhangai，buruziyouqingsongdifangshou，zheizhishaokeyirangduifangdexinyoudianshiluo。

 henduorenkendinghuiwen，worenbuzhuquzhaotazenmeban?shuoshihua，zheishi90%yishangfenshouderendouhuizuodeshiqing：jiuchan。womenyijingzuole，congxianzaikaishixuehuiziyouqingsong，womenbixubimianneixieleiqudehuifu，jutineirongwomenzaiwenzhangmoweifenxianglehenduo!

2.在他的世界里寻找存在感

 buyaodigucunzaigan，nanrenzaifenshoushijinglilesangejieduan：fangfeiziji;kongxu;fengkuangdixiangnianqianren。dangtafangfeizijishi，niduankailelianxi，dandangtakongxu，kaishixiangnishi，nizongshiyouxiedongjing。zheigeshihoubushirangnizhudongquzhaota，ershizaitadeshijielizuogedongjing。zheizhongcunzaiganshouzhiqian，yidingyouyixieweiwanchengdeshiqing。

 birutaxiangkanshenmeqiusai，huozhetaxiangkanshenmeyinlehui，taxiangqunalilvyou，huozhetaxiangzaiyouxizhonglianxishenmeshuiping。zheixieshiqing，nidouzuole，erqiehenrongyizuo，xiangxinwo，tadexinhuitebiebushufu。

 zheizhongbukuaibushihenni，ershinideshiluogan，zheizhongqiangliedeshiluoganhuidaozhitafeichangxianglianxini，dantaburongyishuohua。zheishi，nikeyizhaopengyoubangmang。zheishiyidingyourenwenlaoshi，nibushishuozhaobudaoguimibangmangfuhema?shide，womenhaishiyaojizhu，zhaobudaoguimifuhe，danshikeyizhaoguimibangmangzuoyixiefan，chuangzaoliangrenjianmiandejihui。

3. 见面后:普通朋友暧昧

 jianmianfenweisangecengci，diyizhong：zhizuopengyou，yuqinguzong。biedanxin，zhiyaonishiqianren，jianmianjiubuyiyang，danwulunduifanghexianchangqifendouhenganga，nibixuqiangdiao：womenxianzaibushimoshengren，womenshipengyou，woduidaiwodexiongdi，woduidaini。diergecengci：zhanshijiazhi。yi

 dingyaosuiyishuochuzijizuijindebianhua，biruzuijinyoushengzhile，biruzuijincanjialeshenmehuodong，renshilehenhaoderen。zheigerenzuihaoxihuanni。jizhu，zheixiedoubuyaogaosuta，keyihepengyoushuo，pengyouyeyaohenhaodebangzhuhepeihe。disanbu：zhizaomoqi。ruguozhishiyiweidikuaxinren，laorenjiuhuibeihepao，suoyituikai，womenyidingyaoxuehuilahuilai。

 suoyizaichifanhuozhektvzaiyouxizhong，nibixuzhizaoyixiemoqi。biru：chihuoguojiduifangdiaoxiaoliao，yinweinizhidaoduifangdeyuqi。huozhedianduifangxihuandeshiwu，jizhuduifangbuchishenme。huozhedakaigengduodedisanfanghuati，jizhuyaoheduifangyizhi。zongzhi，yidingyaoxuehuikeyizhizaoyixiemoqi，shibangongbei。

 ruherangqianrenzhudongqiufuhe？shishishang，quxiaoyigerenbingbuyidingbiaoxianzaiyuyanshang，yuyanzuiduoshiyidianchaoxiao，yazhi，danruguozheixiezhiyongyuhuifuhoudeliaotian，jinzhanhuihenman。suoyizaizhengquedeshijian，zhanshizhengquedeshiqing，bazijifangzaizhengquedefenweizhong，shihediaoqing，duifanghuifangsongjingti，zhongxinshenshini，zheiyangdiaoqingcaiyouyiyi。ruguonixianzaimianlinzhehuifudewenti，changshilehenduofangfadoumeiyouxiaoguo，keyikanxiamiandemoweixunqiubangzhu!zanshideqingganwenti，bingbukepa，yebushinijuedewuyaokejiu!zhiyaocaiyongxitongdekexuefangfa，chenggongwanhuiziranbingbunan!