在一起没有安全感而分手，分手怎样挽留？

 zaiyiqimeiyouanquanganerfenshou，fenshouzenyangwanliu？youyixieqingkuangxia，fenshoushiyouyubicinengruguobuaile。erhenduoqingkuangxia，fenshoudegenbenyuanyinshiyouyubulizhi，shiyouyuyishizhuangqi。jiaruqueshifenshoule，yeshitebieyihan。yiner，youyixieqingkuangxiayidingyaoxuehaoyixiewanliunvyoudefangshizhengjiuzigedeganqing。shijizenmezuoni

一、千万不要坚信“让我一个人静一静”得话。

 fenshouqianqihuoyixiaoyiduanshijiannei，nvshengyibanhuitidaoziyixianglizhiyixia，shinibiedajiaotadeniantou，cikeqianwanbuyaoganjuetalizhizhihoujiuhuixiangqingxibingpeizainishenbian，dengzhenizhuanguoshentayexujiuzhendelinierlaidao。

 fenshouzhihouxiangwanliu，nvshengbixuhong，zhixushitabugaoxingle，xianhongshangyihongkendingmeiyoucuo，bubiyouyuyishihongtabugaoxinghoujiufangqile，jiarunizheiyangzuodehua，jiuhuibunenggouhonghuinvyou，yehuiweirihouliuyouhouyizheng。zheiduijianglainimendejiaowangyeshifenbuhao，nvyouhuiyizhibazheijianshiqingguazaizuishang，zuoweibashou，shishikekenachulaichaoxiaoni。

二、认错并诚挚的道歉。

 suiran“nanrenbuhuai，nvxingbuxihuan”，danzaizheiliyaoxiangnvyouhehaoruchudejinyaoguantoujiuqianwanbuyaozaiwanshibugongle，shenrudeziwofansierqiexiangnvyoubiaoshuzigedechengzhideqianjiu，erqielingfuliwu，liwuyidingyaoyouqingyi，shinvyouxiaierqienihualejinglideliwu，zaichengxinheliwudeduozhongxiyinxianvyoushunlichengzhangdeliniyoujinleyibu

三、根据社交圈子间接性的向女友求爱。

 lijingyishangdedaoqianxingdong，jibiannvyoudouhaimeizhenzhengyiyishangdekuanrongni，keshiduinideguannianyehuiyouyidingdegenggaile。xiamianjiuxiangyaoniyonghuodonglaizuozhengshiniduitadedonglexin，nenggouzaiweixinpengyouquanheqqkongjianliuyanshangmianyongyixiemianmianbujuedeyujulaidaoqian，biru“xifu，duibuqi，baoqian，qingyuanliangwozenmeyang？”zaixiaohuobandejiluxiajiandaonidedaoqianheduitadeqingyi。

 fenshouzenyangwanliu？ziran，zheileibanfayeshiyoufengxianxingde，jiarunvyoubingtaoyanneiyangdedaoqianfangfa，neimazaitalaikanjiuhuikanqilaiyouxiehaiziqiheyumei，yincizaitiaoxuanliyonghulianwangjiaoyouwangzhanlaihuashigennvyouqiuaishiyaozuixianpouxinvyoudexinggetedianjiqishibushihuixinaizheileifangfa，ruruoburan，qiejisuibianshizhe。