成就幸福婚姻 9个时刻女人闭上嘴

 qianzhongshuweichengzhongdaochuqianfuzhezhanzhengdeyinsu，1gebuxiaoxinjiuhuizaochengfuqidezhengchao，tangruoduifangzailingyifangjidongdeneishibaochilixingdejianmoshikuanrongzixinxindejutibiaoxian。bubishuohuadeneishibishangzui，dequeshizheileizhonghuachuantongmeide。 laopochuguiwogaizenmeban? nvrenweishenmehuichugui?

 gubabilunneiweiyouxiudejiaoyujiasugeladibianyubikaitadepiqibaozao、xunchichixudexifu，ningyuanduozaiyadiandeshuyinxiasikaoshenghuozheli;yujinnisuiranshigaoyadehuanghou，dantadezhangfu，napolunsanshibianyubikaita，jingchangzaiwanshangquheyiweihaokanbutaolaodenvshiyuehui。jiusuanguiweihuanghouyewufaquebaoxinendeqingganzhihua，shuobubishuodehuaweihaidebujinnanshengdexurongxinyuzixinxin，yeshiduihunyindezhongcheng。

 nvrenchuguihoudebiaoxianyounaxie?qianzhongshuweichengzhongdaochuqianfuzhezhanzhengdeyinsu，1gebuxiaoxinjiuhuizaochengfuqidezhengchao，tangruoduifangzailingyifangjidongdeneishibaochilixingdejianmoshikuanrongzixinxindejutibiaoxian。bubishuohuadeneishibishangzui，dequeshizheileizhonghuachuantongmeide。

 chengshuderenbutanguoqu，congmingderenbutanxianrujin，xionghuaitandangderenbutanweilai。chuzaiaizhongdedahuoer，liyingxinrenbunengcaiyi，liyingkuanrongbunengwanmeizhuyizhe。

 jiranaini，jiuliyingjini1gejiaoweibijiaokuansongdedilihuanjinglaijuyouwodeai。jiranaini，jiuweinichucunneifenguoqu，chucunneifenzizunxin，liandaonidemimiyiqiai。yiwangdeshiqingwenleyemeiyouyong，ruguoniganjuewubigaosuwo，nibenshenyingshuode，tangruonibukenshuo，wojiusuanshixunwenniyebuyuanyidafu，yexuhaicaiyonghuangyanlaiqipianwo。jiangnidemimifangjinfengli，erbingfeixinli，huxiangquanshiganjuedaoqingsong。

不质问是否爱

 wozhangfude1gepengyoushuo，“gangkaishi，xifugaosuwoshibushiaita，wodoupumansishuirouqingdigaozhitaai，yihoucishuduole，dafudewodouganjueleshifuyansaize，woxinlidequeganjuehaofanle，kewoyoubunenghelaopoji，ganjuexianglixinggongshi。”

 laopochuguiwogaizenmeban?nvshineixindelangman，changnanshengkouzhongdeemeng。yaobushiyiliangju“woaini!”nvshijiuhuihuanghuangbukezhongri。ercongxiaobeijiaoyuliyingjutibiaoxianyangbujiuwushinanziqigaidenanhaizi，yougegubuzifengdeguannian：“ba‘woaini!’guazaizuibian，shihen‘niangniangqiang’dedaodexingwei!”yinertamenningkeyongqitafangshi laimiaoshuaiyi。nanhaiziganjuenuligongzuo，zhuanqianyangjiashixihuandeshiquerenle。

 nvshizhongaitianyanmiyu，dantangruoxiwangdedao1gefuyansaizededafu，jiumeirizhiwenzhangfushibushiaiba。woyezhiqianzhiwenguozheizhongnandian，danshixianrujinwomingbaileyongxinquganjue。

不戳破他的小把戏

 zhenglanzhendezhangfujingchangjitajiangyixiegaoxiaoduanzi，erwuluntingguoduoshaoqianbian，lanzhenshizhongnengweixiaohuazhiluanzhan。wojiangta，doutingguoneimehaoduobian，nizenyanghainengweixiaoneimekaixin?lanzhenshuo，“taneimezuohaibingfeiyuanyiwokaixin!”

 duiya，nanhaizishizhongzainongyixiexiaobaxi，yexushiweileaidelangman，yexushibianyuboquqinglvdeqinlai，yexushichuichuiniupikaolvkaolvxiaxurongxin，cishinvshiwuxuchuopo，ruguoqinglvdedaogaoxing，qingsongyidianzhuanghutufuyijiehuatayouyoushenmenande。

 huranxiangqineinianwodeshengri，worenweipenyouhenzaojiugaosuwo，niyizhidouzaiweiwozhunbeichongfenshengrijingxi，erqielianguanjianhuanjiedougaosuwole，erwozhuangzuobuqingxi。shengrineitian，nihenzaojiuchumenle，haigaosuwowanshangbuyongdengnihuilaijiucan，wozhuangzuohenhanxindeyangzi，jiandaoniyanzhongqiangrendexiaoye，turanjuedejiusuanzhuanghutuquanshizheileikaixinkuaile。wanshangdouhaimeidaoxiuxiriyinweiwohuijia，changhaiwosongdaohendadeshuiguodangao，wangzhewojingyadeyangzi，nikongzhibushangnidexiao，youyuwohaizaixiao，keshiweishenmeerxiaowozhongguidoubugaosuni。

不做长舌妇

zaiouzhouyouneibanyipianwenzhangwangshi。

 shangbainianlaizishizhizhongqinruyijiade1gehemucunzhuang，turandaozhilelinlihemudewuxianmafan，benlaiyipengjianwubichengxinchengyidaoyixiaxia“zaoan”deminzhongmen，xianrujindounumuxiangxiang。dabufenjiajiahuhudoubianweichoudi。

 yuanlaibujiuqiangangbanzhicunzililaideyiweijingyuandexifushigeaibannongshifeidezhangshefu，quanbueguodoulaiziyutatuixiezerendenannanziyu。minzhongzhangwolaidaodang，yimeilizheiyinvshi。tayihoukuaisuyebanchule，dancunfengsudehemuguanximeibanfawufaxiufu。

dahuohenshaowanglai，yidaoyejian，henzaoyiqiandiguanqimenlai，sheiyebulishei。

 dongbabamama，xijiaduan，fangfobieshuodianshenmejiubushufu，tingbudaotabierendeshijiushibuzhiwei，keshizaikaolvdaobenshenhaoqixindeneishiwodoulaoji1geguifan，wuxusanbuyixieweihaibierendehua。jiusuanbunengzuzhibierenshuo，tingguoyejibianle，meifazaiquduibierenshuo，yinweizuichun，shiquanqiuzuidude。

争吵时可是分训斥

 laopochuguiwogaizenmeban?zhiqiankandaoguoneibandejingdianxiaogushi，zhangwolehenjiudelianggerenjiehunle，xifupiqiyoudianda，meijianshi，dounengbianweizhengchaodeyuangu。feiliaobudao、fangliaokoushibamenzhuanggandaoqiangmian，jiucanfachushengyin……yinweixiangyushenshen，xifuzaizhengchaodeneishihaowugujidixunchizhangfu。1nianguoqu，tajiadechichuanzhuxingmeiyouchuxianrenhebianhua。zhishifuqiyikuaierjiucandecishujijuxiajiang，tamenbuzaizhengchao，yebuzaishuohua。jiufangfochakailedaodehuoche，yuebenyuezouyueyuan。

 “jiagexianghusuanweibeijule，nishizhongneibanmeinaozi!”“nijibenshangdoubuchongfenkaolvwodeganshou，nizhitunibenshen。”“womingzenyangneimakua，jiagenizheigebendan。”……zheidoushixifujingchangshuode。《hunyinxingfukuailede7tiaobiaozhun》yishudeyuanchuangzhe，zhexueboshiyuehan·getemanganjue：“fengcihemiaoshihuijiakuaihunyindebengkui。”dangxifuxintaishangkanbuqizhangfu，buzaiyizhangfudeganshoushuochuweihaitadehuadeneishi，aiyeyeyaoxianrujuejingle。

不彼此之间揭短

 meiguoxiyatuhuashengdundaxueshehuifazhanquanweizhuanjia，《aizaigongpinggongzhengjian：ruhezhenzhengranghunyingongpinggongzheng》yishudeyuanchuangzhe，zhexueboshipeibo·shiwozizhuzhong：yunyong“shizhong”huozhe“congbu”neibandeguanjianci，nidezhangfu“zheishijiubudakenengyunijinxingmeiwentidejiaoliuyugoutong”。

 nvrenchuguihoudebiaoxianyounaxie?congqiandewotingshuoqingshangbeidaodeyiweizhangfuzaiheqizizheicizhengchaohou，12niandoumeiyouheqizishuoyijuhua，yinweixifumaletayiliangju“zheiyilajichilizhangdayihoudenanhaizi”。xifuzheijuhuacizhongletadeaimuxurong。dongshidehaizihenianmaidelaorenxiangzhehenduofangshi rangtamenhehao，danmeiyouyuqixiaoguo，taxifuweizheijuhuahouhuibuyi，tadianjizhedangshiyebingfeiyinweishiduoshaodeshizhengzhichulaide，jiarulixingyidianjiubuyishuochuneiyangdehuale。

 danfodaxuexintaixuequanweizhuanjia，《weihunyinerzhan：bimianlihunbingrangqingganzhangqideguilvxing》yishudeyuanchuangzhe，zhexueboshihewode·makemanboshiyanjiushengganjue，“tongchangxifuduizhangfuhendadebaoyuanshitamenwanquanbuhenishuoshenme;erlaogongmenzuitongyangdejianjiequeshishuodeguoduohuidaozhizhengzhi。”yincitajianyi：“ruguoninidezhangfubujintingnishuoerqiehenduodiyunijiaoliuyugoutong，yeyaocongshizhizhongquebaoxinpingqihe。”

终归别说离婚

 henduofuqizaizhengzhideneishihuidashengdishuo：“zheishihourimeibanfahuodehaoleile，lihun!”worenweijuedaduoshurenshuozheijuhuadeneishibingbuxianglihun，zhishijushangrendehua。quebuzhidaogandaoshiwang，mouxierendaoqitoushangshuochuzheijuxilihutudehuahou，youzuochulexilihutudeguanlijuece，dequezaiqitoushangbanlelihunshouxu，lihunhoucaihouhuibuyi。

 wozhangwonianqingfuqi，gangkaishijiehundeneishi，xifuyiyoumeimanjiuziyanziyulihun，zhangfubidinghuipaoguoqulianmangshuofancuo，yinerxifushuolihundepinlvyuelaiyuegaole，worenweizhishixiangrangzhangfuditou，xinlibingmeiyoudequexianglihun。yiguo2nian，xifuzaiyiciyingchuangzhongzaiyicitanjilelihunerzi，quebuzhidaozhangfuzhanliqilaishuo：“woyeliba，wohaolei。”xifuzhengzhule。

 nvrenweishenmehuichugui?biexiaokanzheierzi，takeyiweihairendeyisheng。pengshangdebudanshifuqiliangren，yeshiernv。hunyinyaoyongailaiweichi，chengxinchengyilaiguanhuai，tangruoshenghuoqijuzhongmeiyoujinliangxishenghunyindemaodun，jiuwuxushuolihun。