夫妻也需一声“谢谢” 幸福婚姻的几大保鲜法则

 wanhunshimeiduifuqidoukepandijiutianzhang，danyiranyouxuduorenyouyugezhonggeyangyuangugebendongxi。 jingshenchuguiyoushenmebiaoxian ?mengjianairenchuguizenmehuishi?

 juguojiaminzhengbu《2013nianshehuifuwufazhanqushitongjigongbao》xianshixinxi，2013nianzaiwoguoxianyou350wanduifufushenqingbanlilelihunshouxu，cu90houlihunwei2.6%。。er2003nianjinyou133.1wanduiliyi，90houlihunwei2.1%。。renmenzheiyiyiqianchengwei“quanqiuhunyinzuipingwendeguojia”，zhengchengshouzhe“zhongguoshilihun”demingxianchongjixing。

造就机遇彼此相处

 xuduoyihunzhemaiyuan：“jiehunle，meiyoulesuiyi”。doushuojulichanshengmei，“duju”dequenengzaibixushuipingshangkaolvduisuiyideyaoqiu。mengjianairenchuguizenmehuishi?danyebiewangjixiangchudebiyaoxing，erzheyingdangyouyidingdejunheng。fufunenggouyouxinshengchanzhizaomouxiegongtongxingdong，liruqinglingyifangbangzhujinxingjiawuhuo，goupiaohuanjuyiqikandianyingdeng。budannengsuzaobicideqinmiwujiangan，jiangufuqiguanxi，keyiduozaojiuxiexingfudejiyili。

让另一方体会到关注

 meirizaochenchumenkou，wenyiwenlingyifangjinridefenpei，jianghuitazhengtiqianzhunbeijian1geguanjiandeguke，huozheyouchangjiaolvbuandezhaopinmianshi，jijuwenhaonengranglingyifangtihuidaonidetiexinheguanzhu。chukaiyuyankuanwei，helingyifangyikuaierfentanrichangshenghuodedashixiaoshi，baohanjiawuhuo、huiji、zhaoliaoxiaohaideng，yekeyitahuitihuidaonidexinhezhichengdian，biandaqizaihunyinlidecunyoushiyongjiazhi。

在别人前重视另一方

 mengjianairenchuguizenmehuishi?wulunshibaomingcanjiajiaojijuhuihuodong，huanshichulaiguangjiegouwumaishuiguo，doububisuiyijilingyifangmianse，gengbukeyitahuigongranganga。duiweiwandewomenzhongguoreneryan，qingmianshishifenguanjiande，tebieshizaizaiqunzhongchangsuo。fanguolai，yingdangjilingyifang1geaidebicizhijianshujuxinhao。liruxingzoushiqianzhutadeshou，lanzhetadejianbu，zheizhong“dongzuo”dounengchuansongfuqizhijiandeqingyiheqinmiwujiangan。zaiqishishang，xiuyubiaoshuqinggandewoguofufuyingdangduoxiangouzhourenxuexipeixun。

biezhejizhejilingyifangxiafenbian

 “nijiushishuoshuaishouzhangju，shashidouwulun”、“tuogedidoutuobutaihao，niyaonengganshenme”dengxiangjindezongjiexingyuyan，shuoduolehuirangzishenjianxinlingyifangdequecunzaidewenti。erqie，beichizederenqingxuxiaochen，jianjiandiyehuimorenshezhizheileixiajielun，fandaoxiangbiaoshidefangweifazhanqushi，zuihouzaochengjiatinghuanjingjiaolvbuan。

爱屋及乌

 jingshenchuguiyoushenmebiaoxian?zhongguoshijiatingdehunyinyuqishuoshiliangrenderonghe，daoburushuoshi2gejiazhong。keyijieshouhezhongshilingyifangdejiaren、penyou，shixingfuhunyinde1gebiaozhun。guanjiandeshiriyaoyuelingyifangdeqinqipengyoucanjia、zaitamenbixushitaiqiyuanshou，quanshiaiwujiwudezhenxinshiyizhuyaobiaoxian，haowuyiwenhuiranglingyifanggengaizheni。dangfufuchuxianlenanti，keyixiangzheizhongqinpenghaoyouxunqiubangzhu，tamenyexunengbangzhujiechu“sijie”。

理智处理决定合不来

 fufujianyihebulaiqimaodunshi，bubideliburaoren，chaodelianhong，haiyaofangzhizhengzhichanshenghou，jiujizhegenlingyifangshuo：“woxianggennitanyitan”，zheileigoutongjiaoliuhuiyinweibicichuzainaonuzhongerxuangaowuxiao。youxiaodefangfajiushishuopingjingxialai，nenggouyaoyuelingyifangyikuaierwaichusansanxin，bujindujuezhengchaodizhi，yucitongshimanmanjianqingxingfendexintai，gengfeichangrongyijiangchuzishenzhenzhengdeniantou，yejililingyifangjiangchuzhenxinhua，youliyuxiaochuwujie。

赏析你的心人

 chuduixiangshi，ninengganjuelingyifangshizheiyishijiederen，zheileishangxishidajiaenaibingtaruhunyindejiben。danzainianfuyiniandesuosuizhong，zheixieyiqianshangxidewupin，quejianghuibianchengyinqifenqidedaohuosuo。bukeyizhijiandaomeiguiyouci，eryingjiandaocizhongyoumeiguihua。hebuyongzheizhonglianghaodexintai，bajujiaojizhonghuazailingyifangdeyoushishang。nenggouxiexieganenriji，meirijiluxialailingyifangweilenizuodeshi，keyishiguanliangenghemu。

buyueshulihecaozonglingyifang

 “zheiyijiajiujingjiushinilaidinghuanshiwolaiding?”jiaozhujialide“lingdaoquan”bianchengxuduohunyindefenqidianfushichuangxin。haoshengxin，bukenqianrang，dequeshizaidushengzishoushangcunyoudebijiaobijiaoyanzhongdenanti。liangrengouchengjiazhong，yingxianghuzhongshi，jiangdilingyifangdebiequ、yapogan。yingdanggaoqingchulingyifangshi1gedandu、suiyideren，bubiguoduoyueshuli，busheqiulingyifanganzishendeaihaogenggai。

按时小结婚姻体会

 chuguihuanxianghuibianchengzhendema?gongzuofangmianjingchanghuixiefennianduzongjie，laihuiwangzheiniandesuoshigerensuode，bingzhuiqiuwanmeigaishan。hunyindoushizheiban，fufulianggerenmeiguohaoduogeyue，nenggoufenbiexiefenrichangshenghuodexiaojieganshou。helingyifangyikuaiertaolunhunyinzhongcunzaidebuzu，bingjijizhudongshangyijiejuefangfa。zhongxinganxiehainengshuoshuoxinlihua。haikeyibaqianliangniandexiaojienachuqubizhaoyixiaxia，rangbicidouguanniandaoxianghuweijiazhongsuozuodeqinfen。