夫妻一方外遇的种种心态

 jiatingyongyuandoushirenleishehuidexibao，weixifuqiliangrenzhijiandeguanxideniudai，shiliangrenganqinghexintaidexuyao。yidanzheitiao“niudai”fashengzhidebianhua，neimezheigehunyinguanxiyejiuhuishiqulecunzaidejiazhi。daozhifuqiyifangwaiyudeyuanyinchangjiandeyouyixiajigefangmian。

一、寂寞心态

 youyugongzuoyuanyinhuoshiliangdifenju，yixiezhangfuhuijingchangbuzaiqizishenbian。ruguotazheiyangdezhangfu　youquefajiatingzerenxin，buguanxinzijideqizi，bujingchangyigezhongfangshilaibiaodazijidesinianzhiqing，jiuerjiuzhi，biranshifuqizhijiandeganqingyuelaiyuequxiangdanmo，shiqizichanshenglejimoxintai，gandaomeiyoujingshenyituo。cishiyaoshiruguoyushangheshideyixing，qizijiuhuisangshidiyuyouhuodenengli，daozhifuqiyifangwaiyudeqingkuangchuxian。

二、怨恨心态

 xingshenghuoshifuqiyifangyouwaiyudedailici。ruguonidebanlvshiyinweixinggongnengdezhangai，huoyinweizhuiqiushiyezhongrimangliu，hushileyaojiyuduifangdewenqing，huoshizhangfushiyinweizaiwaimiantanlianjiuse，bunengmanzuqizizhengchangdeshenglixuyao，jiulezhihoujiuhuishiqizichanshengleyuanhenxintai，congerjiyoukeneng“hong

xingchuqiang”。suoyifuqizaishenghuozhongyaozhuzhongfuqiyifangyouwaiyudedailici——xingshenghuo。

三、失落心态

 zheizhongxintaiduojianyuhunqianquefaleduiduifangdelejie，yijianzhongqingcaolvdechenghun；huozheshilianaibujiujiu“shengmizhuchengshufan”，ernimenshishenbuyoujide。hunhouzhangqishenghuozaiyiqi，tamenzhujianfaxianduifangyouhenduohuaimaobing，huozheshenglishangjiukenenghuiyoumouxiequexian。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，rongyichanshengxintaishangdeshiluogan，congermengfaleyixin。

四、达标心态

 youdenvhaizijiushiweilemouzhongmude，weishenyubingbushizhongyidenanren。youyutamenyuzhangfuquefaganqingjichu，yidanzheizhongmudedadao，jiuhuijuedezijidezhangfuhuolaohuochou，bushiyilihunergaozhong，jiushi“lingbaopipa”。

五、报复心态

 youdezhangfuhuiduiqizibuzhong，zaiwaimianhuitouqinglieyan，yidanzheijianshiqingbailu，wangwangjiuhuidaozhilenimenbuyukuaidejieju。ruguozuoqizidekaolvruguoqiantuo，yinuzhixiakenengchanshengbaofuxintai：jirannikeyizaiwaimiannianhuarecao，neimewoweishenmebukeyiquxunzhaozijidejituo？zheigeshihoufuqiyifangyouwaiyushifoulihunni？zheizhongqingkuangxiadaduoshudoushixuanzehuxiangbaofu，buhuixuanzelelihun。

 fuqiyifangyouwaiyushifoulihunzheigewentitaiguoyuyansu，nimenruoshixiangzhidaodaandehua，qingguanzhuxiaobiandexiayipianjingcaidewenzhangba。