丈夫出轨妻子怎么办，狠不下心离婚怎么办？用这4个步骤

nanzhuchuguihenvpeihdeqingjiefashengle，zhangfuchugui，wobuganxinlihunzenmeban?jiarunibuyuanliyi，nenggoubenshenxiancaiyong4geliucheng，zheiyouyiyuwanliunizhangfu，nanrenchuguiduojiureducaihuihehao？zhangfuchuguiqizizenmeban？

流程一：疏通负面情绪

zuixian，bixushutongzishenxinlimingxiandefumianqingxu，youyunirujinrengzaiqitoushang，beikongzhiqingxudeqingkuangxia，dajiadouchulibutaihaonanti。

ninengzhaoxinlizixunshiyongjishuzhuanyewaishangjiejuedefangfabangnixunsujiejuexintai，dengzhenipingjingxialaizhihou，ninenggennizhangfukaizhanyiciguanjiandejiaotan。

流程二：掌握另一方的婚姻生活心态

nanzhuchuguihenvpeihdeqingjie，cicijiaotanzhiyouyigemudi，bianshigentazhangwoqingxixianjieduantaduihunyinshenghuodezhenzhengxintai，shiyaoxianggenniliyi，huanshiyaoxiangzhongguijiazhong。

cicijiaotanbingbushiweilegenghaodifaxieqingxu，shiweilegenghaodinongqingchutaxinliduidajiahunyinshenghuodexintai，yinci jiaotanquanguochengyidingyaobaochilengjing，zhongdianweiraojiaotanzongtimubiaokaizhan。

流程三：探寻婚恋问题的缘故

zhangfuchuguiqizizenmeban？jiarulingyifangyaoxiangliyi，neimaninengzhangwotayaoxiangdeliyideguanjianyuanyinshishenme?jiarutaduinishuoyuangu，zheiyiquanguochengnibuyaoqieduanta，yebubichahuahebianbo、zhengbian，zhishijingjingdeting，jingjingdiji，hainenggouzhengqueyindaotaduojiang。

jiarulingyifangyaoxiangzhongguijiazhong，neimaninengmingquetichulingyifangfenbiesisuoqingganzhongdenanti，suihouxianfenbiehaohaodixiangyixiang，suihouzaixiangjingoutongjiaoliuzenmejiejuewomenzhongjiandenanti。

流程四：采取措施方法解决困难

bubishexiangzaijiaotanzhonggoutongjiaoliuchulidajiadenanti，youyuzheixienantibixurenzhenshuli、pouxi，suihouzaitanshijixiaoguocaihao。

nanrenchuguiduojiureducaihuihehao？jiexiaqunizuihaozhaoqingganzixunshiqutantaopouxidajiazhongjiandenanti，qingganzixunshiyinweihenduoshilideleiji，chulihunlianwentidegongzuojingyanhuibijiaofengfu，gengjishuzhuanyekeguanxing，dedao dejiejuefanganyegengheli。

zhangfuchugui，wobuganxinlihunzenmeban?yingyongzhei4geliucheng，zhunimenzaoriwanhuilaogongdexindexin。