老公出轨了，不甘心又无法忍受

laogongchuguilezenmewanhui？nvxingchuguiguanjianjizhonghuazaipengyou、penyouyutongxue，yeyouqianren，lurenhenshao，ernanshiwaiyudemubiaodaliangdeshiluren。laogongchuguizenmebanni？

bingqie，nvxingchuguideshijiandaliangdeshijizhonghuazaihelaogongzhengchao、meisulengzhan(zaizheilitishinanshibubihelaopolengbaoli，dangxintarangnidailvmao，shoudongshixiaorong)。

erchuguinanrendeyuanguhelaopodeqingganmeiyoutaidadeguanxi，daliangdeshizaimeiyoufeichangdezhuangkuangxiawaiyu。

laogongchuguizenmebanni？congernenggoukandechu，nvxingdeshizhishiyinaierxingde，lianwaiyuquanshineiyang：zuixianshihezishendelaogongfanlianle，shangleqinggan，zaiyiqingtaren，jinerwaiyu，bingqietamentiaoxuandemubiaoquanshiqinqipengyou，youyuqinqipengyoufeichangrongyizaochengqinggan。

ernanshengbushizheiyang，nanrenshisuishinenggouwaiyu，zheizaiyutaheshipengdaoyinyou，bingqietamentiaoxuandedaliangshiluren，burenshiderenhuichuxianqingganma?burongyi。

yinci，chuguinanrengengzaihudeshixing，youduoaibuzhongyao，guanjiandeshixing。

neima，dajiazuoweinvxing，yingduilaogongdewaiyu，gaizenyangrulini?

1.剖析老公出轨缘故

erlinglingsannian，yingguobulaideligaoxiaoxintaixuexidehalisi，bangshouyixiangkuawenhuajiaojiyanjiufaxian，zai52gewoguode16000duoweibeishizhezhong，nanshengqidaidexinghuobanshuliang，zaiyiqieyigenianlingcengshangmianyaochaoguonvxing。

liru，nanshengqidaisanshinianneiyouqigexinghuoban，ernvxingzeshi3ge。

eryeshiyoukexueyanjiushiyongnanshengdejiaofa：

m·kalan·niumandiaoyanle200ming“renfu”，shujudiaochabaogao，48%denanshengjuedeqingganshangwufadedaokaolv，tashitamenwaiyudezhuyaoyuangu。

ziran，rentidekaolvyeshihenshijideyaoqiu，zhongjiuyeyou8%denanshengbiaoming，yuqiubumanshitamenwaiyudeguanjianyuangu。

chuguinanrenshiyigehenfanzadenanti，jiarucongyanbiandeshijiaolaibiaoshuhuiyuelaiyuehenyouqu。

zuixianrendebenxingquanshizisizilide，douqidaizishendeyichuanjiyin“fayang”，rangzishendeyichuanjiyinhuodegengqiangdechixu。

keshi，gushihou，nvxingnenggouhaowuyiwendishuo：“zheiyixiaohaijiushiwoshengde，tashiwomendehaizi。”erquemeiyouyigenanrenganneimeshuo，tashimeifahaowuyiwendekeguanshishi。

yinci，tamenyaorangzishendeyichuanjiyin“fayang”，jiuxuyaojinliangduodegenbuyiyangnvshifashengxingguanxi，jiqishengyundaliangdezisunhoudai，tishengzijiyichuanjiyinbeijiyinyichuanxialaidetongguolv。

zaishuqianniandeyanhuazhong，lanqingnanshideyichuanjiyinzaiziranxuanzexueshuozhongyouxianxuanzechixuchulaile，erbulanqingdedaduoshudoujuezhongle(youyutamendeyichuanjiyinbukeyigengqiangdechuansongchulai，erjianjiandiweisuo，maixiangwangguo)yincichuguinanrenshidangranqudaidejieguo。

neiyangshuohenyoukenenghenhanhu，neijiujingzainanshengmuqiandeyichuanjiyinzhong，youmuyoushihewaiyuyouguanxideni?

youguanzheigewentihaiqueshiyouxierenkaizhanlekexueyanjiu。

niuyueshilaisidaxueyiqianduqulehenduoyichuanjiyinyangban，fajueleyigelingrenchijingdejieguo：zaidrd4yichuanjiyinzhong，jiarubaokuozuishaoyigezuhe7r+，neimazheigerenbibierenyougaoxiedejilvhunwaiqing，yeshiyougaoxiedejilvwaiyu。

shishishang，baokuo7r+derendechuguilvzuodao50%，erbierenjinyou22%。

zheiyebiaoshulenagenanti，weihebabamamawaiyudejiazhong，xiaohaiyefeichangrongyiwaiyu，youyutamendaishangletongyangdeyichuanjiyin。

yinci，zhenduinanshengeryan，shenmiganshishifenguanjiande。tashinanrendeliegenxing，tamenzhuiqiuwanmeicijixing，zhuiqiuwanmeisuiyihefengfuduocai。jiarunimeiyoukaolvtamendezheileiyaoqiu，henyoukenengjiubeitapaozainaohoule。

2.反思自己的不对

xuduo laopojiehunlejiuxiangananwenwendizaijialidangge“haolaopo”，zheileiniantouduimani?shuoduidoubudui。

nanshengyaoxiangdenvxingshijishangfensanzhong：lianren，xifu，zhixin。

lianrenshiyongyuchongde，xifushizaijialiwendinghoucaide，zhixinshinengdongzishende。

jiarunizhizuoyigezaijialipeihulaoren，qinjianchijiadexifu，shengyuderenwujiaose，zhiyoujiaojitarenlaiganle。

lingwai，xuduo furenzongganjuezishenzaijiali，buchanhuzhangfudegongzuoheweixinpengyouquan。shijishangnineimexiangbushiduide。

jiarunichangchangjinchuzhangfudepengyouquan，tamendouhenrentongni，ruguonimeiyoudeqingkuangxiayebangnikannidelaogong，youyiqiedongjingtamendoushilaiyunihuanqi，neimanidezhangfujiusuanshixiangchugui，haiyaoxiangyixiangzishenzaipenyouyanqianzenmezuoren，zhihouyouzenyangruli。

zhongjiunanrenshihenyaomianzide，ruguonizaiwaimianjizuletaqingmian，tadexiaohuobanmendouyanjianzhenishiyigeduomedehaodelaopo，tamendouhenbuxiaxinsunhaini，yougenghekuangnidezhangfuni?

nanshengjiehunlezhihoujiudianjizhezishendedahoufangyiding，zishennenggouqinfenzhuiqiuwanmeigongzuo，wanchenggerenjiazhile。

zheigeshihou，jiarunizhiananwenwendizaijiazuogerenlaozhuhuang，shijishangniyelejie，neiyangzhongjiuhuibeirengxiade。jiarunimeifazhan，nideweizhidangranyouxierenlaizuo。

3.假如想挽回老公，该怎样做

zhangfuchuguibushinidecuo，keshijiaruniyaoxiangwanliu，yebixuhuayixieshijian。

zhongjiutiangaoluyuan，shitazaiciaishangleniyihou，haibingbushinijuedeshenmeshishenme，bubicaiyongyixiejiduanhuafangshiqushizhangfujiufan，neiyangdegerenxingweihenyoukenenghuibatayuetuiyuelaiyueyuan。

nanrendeliegenxingquanshiyiyangde，huanxialaiyigehuoxuhaiburuzheiyige。

laogongchuguilezenmewanhui？jiaruniyaowanliudehua，shicongzishendeshenshangzuoyixiegenggai，jitamenyixieshenmigan，genggaitaduinideyuanyouyinxiang，shitazaicizaochengzhengfuyuheqiuzhiyu，rangyibentarenweijiuneimaliangyedeshuzenghou，shitaduyedubuwan。