比出轨更可怕的婚姻是……

 13nianjiedehun，daorujinwunianle。wo2019nian30sui。jinyinianduo，yinweigongzuozhongdeyuangu，renmenjibenshangmeizaiyiqiyishizhuxingguo，liangrenquyidiqianyinianhaimeishier，yeyouyugongzuozhongdeyuangutalaidaoyigeliwolveweizouyuanyidiandedi，renbijiaoduohulianwangbijiaofada，lejieleyigetaxiaide，chadianergenwoliyi，zongsuanquanhuilai。-ruhe wanhui

 keshixinqueyizhiweiwobijinzhe，rujinxifushuotaganjueshiwoxuduo wenti，buyuangenwoyishizhuxingxialaile，yijianshiwanquanxinhanle，juedewoxianggeluren，yijianshiyidianjuedeyemeiyou。yinweiwolejiewoyiqianmeiyouzaihuxifudeganqingyaoqiu，zhihouwodongdele，qinfenleyinianduo，danshixifuquewobutaikenenggenggaiwodexiguanxing，yebenzhibuguanzhuwozuodegenggai，shuorenmenyebutaikenengzaiyiqile。

 tashuotapahuiguotouhou，houbanbeizigenwohaizaiyiqibuxingfukuaile，buganxiangxinwokeyigenggai。rujinbuyuanjianwo，buyuangenshiwoyiqielianluo。

 tajiaoda detexingshi：tajuecedeshier，tarensheidoumeifaquanhuiguotou，chufeishitazishenkeyibianhuahuilai。shijishangtayikaishitingbucuode，wanhunqianhouzuoyouyinian，henhuitiexinheguanzhuwo，taileilehaihuibangwoanantou，zheizhongshiwoshifendadong，yelishiyaohaohaoaita，danshirujinlaikan，zishensuozuodejuedeaitadeshier，zongcuowutademenlu，tazongjuedebushangwodeai。

 tazongganjuezaizheiyijiashijuwairen，genjiapoyehebulai，danwomamajinguanxutaodian，danzhushiquanshiweitakaolvdaodeduoa。tayizhikanbujiantarendenuliheguanzhu，zongganjuezishenxiangdecaisuanshiduide。rujintaqinrendoudizhitaliyi，dantarengjianchibuxiezishendeniantou，zhuiqiuwanmeitashuobailedexingfukuaile，genwotichufenshouliyi。

 rujinzaoyiyouleisidabannianshijianyijianshilengdanle，taxiangzhuiqiuwanmeitayaodexingfukuaile，juedewojibushangtaxingfukuaile。xianzaiwohenmangran，buqingchushitazourulesilu，ganjuewogenggaibushang，feideliyi，buzhuangnanqiangbubashou;huanshiwozuanrusilu，feidewanliuzheiyijushi。

 tarujinganjuewohaizaichanzheta，ganjuezishenyigerenduju，henqingqingsongsong，hensuiyi。wofannaodeshi：wogaijitasuiyi，huanshiyaowanliu?wobuxianglihun，erwoqinfenletihuibushangshouyi，neixinhuihentongku，xiangxuehuifangxia，jitasuiyi，youbugan。buqingchuyinggaizenmebanle。

 jiushiwonajiadiquzuodebutaihaoma?wojinguanwangbudiao，danwomingbaijiaruqueshiqiangniuzaiyiqi，zhiyoushifangshishangdefufu，shijishangdeliyi。bushiwohaipayingduiliyi，yinweiwonenggou jitasuiyi，rangtabaituowodejushu。kewoyihuodeshi：woqueshishizaijushutama?zenmerangtajuedeyemeiyoujushuta，wonengzuoshenme?ziranbuliyishishide，lihunlexiaohaishijiaoda dexishengpin。

回应

 shenmejiaoaiqing?yizhongmobudaokanbudaodetihui，keshi，taquecunyou。rutongqitiyiyang，renmenjinguanchupengbushang，kanbujian，keshitadedequequecunyou。zhenzhengdeaiqinghunyinshenghuodejiben，shubuzhihunyinshenghuoyoubianchengganqingdemuzang，xuduo nanshengdougaoqingchu，wulungensheiwanhun，hunyinshenghuoquanshiyiyangdekuzaofawei。

 ruyishuchangshuo，qulebaisemeigui，tazhongjiuhuibianweidamifan;qulehongsemeigui，tayouyitianyehuibianweiwenzixue。shijishang，budanshinanxingzaihunyinshenghuoliaimuxurong，nvxingdoushizheiban，keguanxinglaijiang，rendejiaoda texingjiushishuoaimuxurong，buzhuanyi。ziran，zheileibingbushiyiweizhe，renmennenggou shiluanzhongqi，aishangyoufuzhifu，zhishicongrendebenxingdeshijiaokaolvdao，renmenmeifataobizheiyiquedian。

 juedaduoshuganqingdekaishiquanshixingfude，ouyulexinaidemubiao，zaixiangfengzhichuyongxintiqianzhunbeilenagezuixingfudezishen。duixianghutianmanhaoqixin，yongyoujijinwuxiandexixin，chengxianzhewenrouyoumodezishen，huxiangzhaogu，xianghuyishizhuxing。

 yiqizouguolinjianxiaodao，yiqikanjianrichuriluo，yiqiouyurenjianyanhuo，renweiduanduanhaoduogeyue，renweineirongzadeyiliangnianbianjianghuishirenmenyishengdezhenshixiezhao。

 keshijianjiandide，bansuizheshijiandebianhua，zuikaishidezheixiexixin，zheixieqingyi，bansuizheshijianyuanqu，manmantuoluo，renmenzaiyouyanjiangcuzhong，zaiwaibudexiyinli，zaiyishizhuxingdegongzuoyalixia，gangkaishixianxianchuzishendezhenzhengxiangmao，renmengangkaishiyuelaiyueyanfan，gangkaishizisizili，gangkaishiyanjuanrichangshenghuozhuduodeyiqie。

 dangshijianzoudaozuihou，yanzangbeituolixiaoshidaijin，jinshengyigepamanyingci，yuanqiyashendezishen，xianghuxianghuzhijianchaimo，meiyicixiangyongdouhuilingyifangdeshenshangliuyoudaliangdeshangba。shijishangzhenxinshiyidexiaiguo，daozuizhongmianbuleduoduoshaoshaodehuibugan。

 xuduo neishihou，renmenxunmiganqingdexingfu，keshixuduo neishihou，renmenyoubeiganqingsuoyihuo，minglejieaicuoleren，haishebudefangshou，zhidaobaoshousunhaipaoguangleduitadeai，youbushedezishenyiwangdenuli，bushedetichufenshou。zhidaodongdele，chajueshiquguoduo，jiaruyizhibushede，haiyaoyizhibeichaimo，huanshibeibuzuiaiderenchaimo。zuizhongfajue，zheiyiqietongkuquanshizishennongchude。

 shijishang，aiqingyuhunyinshiyoutingdaqubiede，dangshi，xuduo lianrenyinweiaiertaruhunyinshenghuoshengdian，keshiqueyouyuwufadedaoaierdianjizheliyi。

 weihe?yinweiaiqingyouqishiyongshouming，douhuiyinshijilidezhuduoerhaoguanghuoshizhuanhuanweizhenqing。wohaizaishupianwenzhangneirongzhonglunshu，shidehunyinshenghuoyousandajiben：ganqingjiben、wuzhitiaojianjiqihemudefuqixingshenghuo。erganqingjiben，bingbushizhiyiweizheganqing。

 zhangqidewuhuabushuo，jueduihuibasuoyourendeyoudianhequedianchedixianluzailingyifangyanqian，meifayounaxieyanzang。zheishijieshangyoulianggenshirendebiaozhunyuanyiweihenduonianlaiwukezhiyi——“renyiqunfen”yu“rijiujianrenxin”。

 sheihesheizuihounengzaiyiqinengbianchengpenyou，zaiyufangxiangshangdejiazhiguannianshibushiyizhi，jiusuanyikaishiyouyuyixieyuanguzheyanmeilezhenzhengdegexinghuaheniantou，danshijianzhangledouhuiwailuzuineizhideyibufen。feichangjiandandeshilishi，yigegongzuokuangmeifayujiatinggaoyuyiqiederenchaoguohemu;yigedananrenzhuyirenyemeifarangnvquanzhuyizhexiangxin。

 waidiliangdifenju，queshihuirangfuqijiandeqingganbianqian，keshibutaikenengzaizheiyiniannei，jiuchediranghunyinshenghuotubengwajie。huanlaijiangzhi，yaobushidajiadeqingganhexinzishenjiucunzainanti，neimayeburongyipuludezheibankuaisu。dajiazishenmeiyouguoduodeqingganbingji，yejiushishuojingshenshizhigongmingdian，yishizhuxingshangdebangfu，bingmeiyoujiazhongdajiazhongjiandeqinggan。

 shijishang，yexunantimeiyounideshenshang，zainilaopodeshenshang，keshijiaruotabingmeiyouxunzhaoyuniwanhundezhenshiyuanyin，jinjin yibianhunyinshenghuoerwanhun，neimazheiliangnianduitalaijiang，bingbushiyounaxieyouyuegankexun。

 zaixiexinzhong，nichedizaiqingtuzishendetihui，bingmeiyoukaolvdaodaolaopodeniantou，huanlaijiangzhi，hunyinshenghuoshiliangrendeshier，niruoyaoweichimuqiandehunyinshenghuo，wubiyaoyulaopozuoyicituixinzhifudeshenjiao。neiyangcaikeyilejie，hunyinshenghuojiangchuluzainali。