婚姻中，如果你的另一半出轨后，你会选择怎么做

 yingduiairendewaiyuninengzenmeban?airenwaiyuzhenduiyiqieyigerendaolejieshiqingdeneiyike，suochanshengdeyanlidajinaizhishizhimingxingde。jinguanshijiannenggou quanyuyixiechuangkou，keshinideyishizhuxingyinerhuidaluan，xintaizhuangtaijianghuicihouchangyouheiyingle。neima，jiaruairenwaiyule，gaizenmebanni?xiabianzheiwujianshier，ninengneiyangzuo。-ruhe wanhui

1、弄清楚真相，不必盲目跟风欲望

 jiarufajuetayouwaiyudejixianghuoshizhaodaowaiyudezhijiezhengju，shizhexunzhaozaochengtahunhouchuguidezhijieyuanyin，suihouziwen：rujintazaoyiyongxingdongjizijizuochuletiaoxuan，zishenqingkuangleshisha?shijixuaita，wanliulizhidixiangyixiangnidezhenzhengniantou，zheiduinishifenguanjian，youyuhoubianjiejuezheijianshiqingshideguandianhexintaidouzaiyuci。

2、不必装作不清楚，希望他会和好如初

 doushuochuguinanrendepincizhinenglingciheyicici，jinguanlaohuadeyixiejuedui。keshichengqianshangwanshishishangniwubimashangfuzhuxingdong。buwenbuwen，huaiyouxiwang，jianghuihuirangtamenyulaiyuni。jiarudisanzhezaiduitashifangmouleifangshi，neimajiudengdaitajijitililehun。

3、不必在沒有提前准备的状况下和爱人商讨

 zuixianliangrenyiqieyigechuxianhunwailian，dajiajianghuihuiyoukuyounao，naizhihuiliyi，erzuihoudeshouhairenjianghuishixiaohai。yinci，jiaruyaotanzheijianshi，shishengchanzhizaozhuanyedejiyu，xiaohaijinliangbuyaodaochang，2gechengnianrendeshier，yidingyaogenjuchengnianrendefangfalaichuli，erbingbushijianghuiyikaoxiaohailaixuanxie。zuiguanjiandeshi，yaoyoulenideguandian，suihouyoukeguandibiaoxianchulai。

4、不必扩张事儿的范畴

 suyushuo，jiachoubukewaiyang，waiyuderenshifenkechikee。keshiyibianzishen，weilebaobao，nengkeguanjinkenengkeguankandai。jiaruniyaoyaoxiangwanliuzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，neimajiugengweibubirangtaiduoderenlejie(tebieshizaishibabamama、qinpenghaoyou)，tashiyibianrangnideairenliuhuijiadecemen。

5、不必由于恼怒而损害你自身

 yingduiyishizhuxinghenduonian，enaideairenwaiyubieren，neixinnaonulaidaodingdian，niyebukeyiyinerersunhaizishen。gengbubigenjushiquziwo，chaimozishenlaihuodetadehehaoruchu。takanniwufakongzhidemoyang，zaibizhaoshanjierenyidelianren，xinjiuhuigengweipianzhonglianren，juedezishendetiaoxuanshifenqiadang。

 doushuo，hunyinshenghuoshiganqingdemuzang。keshirenmengengyaojianxin，hunyinshenghuoshibixuliangrenyunyingde，bubizaiairenyouwaiyujixianghewaiyukeguanshishishi，yiweidifourenzishen。yaolejiezheiyiquanshijienengjinishizhongjiezhudeweiyounizishen。yincinizuixianyaogongxianzishen，yaohaohaoaiziji，caikeyizaizaodaosunhaishi，caiyongyouyideduice，huoshichoushen。