另一半出轨了我该怎么办

 faxianlaogongchuguizenmebanhao?lingyibanchuguilewogaizenmeban?xintaizhiliaozhongyudaolehenduohunwailiandekehu。zheixiehuatixiangdangnan。hunyinzhongdebuzhonghebuzhongtongchanghuijibanlvzaochengqingganchuangshang，leisiyu ☞chugui chuangshanghouyingjizhangai。

一、另一半出轨了我该怎么办

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 zaizhiliaodediyijieduan，tongchanghuifaxianbuzhongdeyifanghuijiandingdirenweitamenshiaiqinghehunyinguanxizhongde“shouhaizhe”，tamenbanlvdebuzhonghuijitamendailaishenshendeshanghai。

 zhiliaoshixuyaorang“fanzuizhe”canyuxintaizhiliao，bangzhuchuguideyifangchaoyuebingbaituo“shouhaizhe”dejiaosehexintai。shouxian，buzhongdeyifangxuyaomingbai，tamendebanlvduiqinmiguanxishiquxinrendezhongyaoyuanyinzaiyutamendebuzhonghebeipan。

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 faxianlaogongchuguizenmebanhao?lingyibanchuguilewogaizenmeban?youshi，chulefuqizhiliao，shuangfangdouxuyaodandudegetihuazhiliao。zheixietansuobangzhufuqijiangbuzhongzhiyuyouyiyidehuanjingzhong，bingbangzhutamengenglixingdikandaita。

 zhiliaodezuihoujieduan，yixiefufuhuirenweihunyinchongtudexintaizhiliaoshibubiyaode。zaizheixieqingkuangxia，zhiliaoshikeyibangzhutamenxieshanggengjiankangdefenjuhuolihun。

 raner，duiyuxuduozaihunyinweijizhongxingcunxialaidefufulaishuo，zheiweitamentigonglejianlibiyiqiangenghaodehunyindejihui。duizheixiefufulaishuo，zhiliaodezuihoujieduankeyibangzhutamentigaogoutongjiqiao，biaodatonglixinhexianghuguanxin，bingpeiyangzaihunyinguochengzhongchuxianwentishixianghuzhichidexiguan。