伴侣出轨了我要怎么挽救婚姻关系

 banlvchuguilewoyaozenmewanjiu ☞chugui hunyinguanxi?gaibianxingweihetaidu，ruguonishicuowudeyifang，nirenweinibixu“kandiao”nazhongxingweihetaidulaigongguhunyin?

一、伴侣出轨了我要怎么挽救婚姻关系

 xianran，nibixuyuheniyouaimeiguanxiderenduanjueguanxi。 (lianggezhongyaodeci)weilebimianheneigenvrenjiechu，shangmiantidaodelgaibianletadegongzuoshijianheshoujihaoma。

 jinguanruci，wofaxiangongzuozhongdejiechurengranbukebimian。 youyutajuexinzhongjianyuqizidexinren，tayiranciqulegongzuo，fangqileshouji，zhiyongqizideshoujiyurenlianxi。

 suiranzheizaochenglegezhongbubian，danzhidema?tadeqizishuo:“yijingliunianle，woyoushidanxinzheigenvrenhuixiangjinyiqiebanfahewolianxi danshixianzaiwoyouxinxinwonengdikangyouhuo。 “ruguoshinifanlezheigecuowu，nikenenghaixiangkaolvyixianibixugaibiannidetaidu。

 liru，dangniguoquheyixingliaotianshi，nishifouyouyizhongmanbujingxindetaidu，qinglvdishuohua，shenzhixihuanhuanxiangheyixingzuoai?ruguoshizheiyang，nibixugaibiandiaoqingde“fangshi”，zheiyangnidepeioucainengzhongjianduinidexinren。

 banlvchuguilewoyaozenmewanjiuhunyinguanxi?nishizaiyigerangninanyibiaodaganqingdehuanjingzhongzhangdadema?jishiyikaishiniduixiangnidepeioubiaodanideaigandaobushufu，yeyaoxuehuizheiyangzuo，zheiyangnidepeiouhuigandaoqingsong。

 sshuo:“weilebiaodatadeai，zhuibushipaipaiwo，fumowo，jingchangshuo‘woaini’ “zaizhongjianxinrendekaishi，nixiangxidigaosunidepeiouyitianzhongsuoyoudehuodong，wulundaxiao。

 shangmiantidaodewoshuo:“xguyigaosuwomeitianfashengdeyiqie，shenzhishisuosuideshiqing，zheiyangwojiuzhidaotameiyoushenmehaoyinmande。” “shiyishi:wenduifangninengzuoxieshenmelaizhongjianxinren，ranhoulieyifenqingdan，xianshidiquzuo ciwai，xiangxiangnimendouxihuanzuoshenme，ranhouanpaizairichangshenghuozhongyiqizuo。

xuyaoshijianbuyaojiyuxiangyiqiedouyijinghuifuzhengchang，haoxiangshenmedoumeifashengguo。

 banlvchuguilewoyaozenmewanjiuhunyinguanxi?zhongjianxinrenxuyaoshijian，yexuxuyaojinian。 ruguonishiwugudeyifang，jizijizugoudeshijianlaiwanquanyuanliangduifang。

 wozongshibumingbaiweishenmeqizibunengkangkaidiyuanliangyouhunwaiqingdezhangfu，weishenmetadefennuhuichixuhenzhangshijian raner，dangwozhangfuduiwobuzhongshi，woyishidaoyuanliangshiduomekunnan。 “keyikanchu，kuanshuhexinrenshiyibubulaide。

 lingyifangmian，《shengjing》shuo“shijieshangyiqieshiwudouyoushidangdeshijian”，baokuo“youzhiyudeshijian” qichu，nikenengrenweizuianquandefangfashibuyaohenidepeioutanlunnideganshou。 danshiruguozheizhongqingkuangjixuxiaqu，fuqizhijiandexinrenjiuwufazhongjian。 weilexiubuliehen，yigerenbixuyuanyicongxindiyuanliangbingbiaodazijidexiangfaheganshou，yibiaomingyigerenzhendeyuanlianglelingyigeren。

 ciwai，gulinidepeiougaosunitadekuailehebeishang。 fangxiayuanhen，nulixiaochuzheizhongxiaojiqingxu dangnihenidepeiouzuochudiaozhengbingnuligaishantamendeguanxishi，nizuizhonghuizhongxinhuodeanquangan。

 cishi，nikeyiyiqishedingqitamubiao，erbushijinjinzhuanzhuyuwanjiuhunyin。 raner，nirengranxuyaodingqihuigunidebiaoxian，buyaomanzuyuxianzhuang。 ruguoniyudaoxiaowenti，niyinggaijijidijiejuetamen，bingtongguoxingdongbiaoxianchuyuduifangxiangchudejuexin。

 banlvchuguilewoyaozenmewanjiuhunyinguanxi?buyaozhishishituhuifuyiqiandeguanxi，ershikaishijianliyigebiyiqiangenghexie、gengwengudehunyin。 suoyi，qipian、kuqi，ruguonibuxianglihun，yebuxiangjiuzheiyang neiwomenlaiyigezhongjianxiangmu aiqingshiqinggan，hunyinbushi hunyinshiyidongnianjiushixiudefangzi。

 wanshangxiayushi，nihuifangqinidefangzima?yigehaodehunyinbushiyigeyongbushengbingdeshenti，ershiyigejuyoulianghaomianyilibingnengziwoxiufudeshenti。 xiubulibashikenengde。 zhiyaonimenlianggedouzugounuli!zhujiaozuobile，danshiwozhendebunengyuanliangta!zuihou，qinaide，meiyoubuxiudefanrenshinibixuyuanliangde。

 bingfeisuoyousiqudeqinggandounengfuhuo。 zunzhongnizijidexin nikeyiwanquanlihun。 danshi，buyaohouhui xiangxinnideguoqushizhenshide。 buyaohuaiyiyiqiansuoyoudeqingxudoushijiade，zhishiyinweizhujiaoxianzaidebeipan。

 womenbixuxiangxintianyanmiyushifazineixinde。 raner，yonghengaiqingdeshiyanyouyige“baozhengqi” meiyourencengjing“yongyuan”huozhe，meiyourenzhidao“yongyuan”shishenme，suoyimeiyourennengzhenzhengchengnuo“yongyuan” dangran，nibuxuyaozaiyige“meiyoujiating;jiatingbaoli;guanjianshi，niyoulikaideneizaililiangma?

 zaihunyinzhong，mosun，huolihunhou，fuhe youshihoushenghuodexuanzezhishikanninengzhandegenghao。renxinshiguizhade，sheinengkantouni?