夫妻一方外遇的种种心态

 jiazhongshizhongshirenmenshehuifazhandetixibao，weichifuqilianggerenxianghuguanxideqiaoliang，shilianggerenqingganhexintaidebixu。yidanneitiao“qiaoliang”chanshengzhidezhuanbian，neimazheiyifuqiguanxiyejiuhuishiqucunyoudeshiyongjiazhi。zaochengfuqiyifangwaiyudeyuangupubiandeyouxialiehaoduogecengmian。

一、孤独心态

 yinweigongzuozhongyuanguhuozhefuqiliangdifenju，yixiezhangfuhuichangchangmeiyoulaoposhenpang。jiarutaneiyangdezhangfu　youqianquejiazhongzerengan，buguanzhuzishendelaopo，buchangchangyigezhonggeyangfangfalaibiaoshuzishendexiangnianzhiqing，zhangciyiwang，bidingshifuqijiandeqingganyulaiyuquyulengmo，shilaopozaochengleguduxintai，juedemeijingshenjiezhu。zheishiruguojiaruyudaoshihedeyixingpengyou，laopojiuhuiqueshididangyinyoudegongzuonengli，zaochengfuqiyifangwaiyudezhuangkuangchuxian。

二、怨气心态

 fuqishenghuoshifuqiyifangyouwaiyudedailici。dangnideairenyouyunanxingxinggongnengdezuai，huoyouyuyaoqiugongzuozhengrifanmang，hulveleyaojiyulingyifangdewennuan，huozhezhangfuyouyuzaiwaibiantanqiujiuse，bukeyimanzuqiziyiqiezhengchangdeshenglixuqiu，jiuleyihoujiuhuishilaopozaochengleyuanqixintai，jinerhenyoukeneng“hong

xingchuqiang”。yincifuqizairichangshenghuozhongyaozhongshifuqiyifangyouwaiyudedailici——fuqishenghuo。

三、惋惜心态

 zheileixintaichangjianyujiehunqianqianqueleduilingyifangdezhangwo，yijianzhongqingqinglvdejiehun；huoshishilianqingmeiduojiujiu“shengmizhuchengshufan”，erdajiashishenbuyouyide。jiehunhouzhangqixingyishizhuxingzaiyiqi，tamenmanmanfajuelingyifangyouxuduobuliangxiguan，huoshishenglixueshangjiujianghuihuiyouyixiequedian。zaizheiyangdeshiqingxia，feichangrongyizaochengxintaishangdecuobaigan，jinerchuyalecaiji。

四、合格心态

 youdenvshengjiushishuoyibianmouleimudi，chenfuyuyubingfeizhongyidenansheng。yinweitamenyuzhangfuqianqueqingganjiben，yidanzheileimudizuodao，jiuhuiganjuezishendezhangfuhuolaohuochou，bingbushiyiliyierjieshu，jiushishuo“lingbaopipa”。

五、报复心态

 youdezhangfuhuiduilaopochuguixingwei，zaiwaibianhuichuguilieyan，yidanzheizhongshiqingdongchuangshifa，tongchangjiuhuizaochengledajiabukaixindexiachang。jiaruzuolaopodekaolvdaojiarubutuo，yinuzhixiajianghuizaochengbaofuxintai：jiranninengzaiwaibiannianhuarecao，neimawoweihebunengxunzhaozishendejiyu？zheiyineishihoufuqiyifangyouwaiyushibushiliyini？zheiyangdeshiqingxiadabufenquanshitiaoxuanxianghuzhijianduifu，burongyitiaoxuanleliyi。

 fuqiyifangyouwaiyushibushiliyizheiyinantitaiguoduyansurenzhen，dajiatangruoxiangyaozhidaocankaodaandehua，qingguanxinwangbiandexiayipianjingcaidezheipianwenzhang。