40岁女人老公有了外遇该怎么办？

 zhenduixiannian40denvxinglaijiang，youyanjiangcuyimanmandebatamenxunbiancheng“renlaozhuhuang”，chukaiyaodangxindeshenzhongweihubaoyanghunyinshenghuowai，xuzhuyibimianwaidirenqinshi。wanyiyoubeijudeshierchanshengzaizishentouding——40suinvxingzhangfuyongyouwaiyuyihouzaban？

一、整理忧伤，好好地的生活

 qiaoyu(35sui，youeryuanlaoshi)：woshuota，40xusuidenanrenyibianwaiyuerliyideneishihou， renmennvxingzheishihouzaban，tawurudeshuo，yingduizhezheizhongsuishisuidichangyoujianghuizhidaonitoudingdesunhai，nvxingtongchangmeibanfadebaozhengbinglaijiangdangyushuilaituyan。danworenweiyigenvrenwulunzaiwulunzenyang，doububiweiyigewuqingwuyiledenanrennanguo，youyuzuizhongshanghaideshizishendexin。jiaruneigerenruguojueqingde，yeshisunhaibushangtadexin。yinciyaozhengliyoushang，haohaodideshenghuo。

buranjiaruzaicihushizishen，chaimolenizishen，neimazhenshidehuaidanshihuiyousheilaichengchuni？

二、实际在当今，挑选了忍耐

 qianqian(36sui，gongsiyuangong)：woneishihouwenta，40suinvxingzhangfuyongyouwaiyuyihourenmengaizenyang，tashuo：youxieren，nvxingzhaonvpengyoudeneishihouyaozhengdayanjing，wanhunyihoujiuyingdangzhengyizhiyanbiyizhiyan。zheihuasuiyixiexiaochen，queyizhijudashihua。xiannian40denvxinga，yizhiyouguoduodewukenaihehegongzuoyali，yingduizishendezhangfudewaiyu，tamenjibianhuihendeziyaliezui、kuangjiaofafeng、zasuiwupin，kuazhedaozaiwuzhongluanzhuan，keshinifanyingtou，tamenyoupobudeyikaolvdaozhexuduodenanti：jiarulilehun，wozheishihouyouzaban？xiaohaiyougaizenyangwenhuajiaoyu？shenghuogaizenyangquebao？hainengzaicilaijianlihaoyigedexindejiazhongma？

 zaizheicicanrendezhanzhengzhong，tamenyizhichuzaibeidongjinengdeqingkuang。yincixuduonvxingtiaoxuanzaizhangfuwaiyu40suiyihou，zuihou，huanshitiaoxuanlerennai。“yashemao”zaoyikoumanzaitoudingle，erliyiquebuyidingshishidechulifangfa，zhiyoubazhangfuwaiyu40suidetongchumaizaileneixin，zhiyouzouyibukanyibu。

 neima，weihe40xusuinanrenyibianwaiyuerliyini？duizishenshenghuodexiankuangjuedeweiman，meiguodezhoushengdiegegaoxiaodejingshenbingxuezhuanjiajiaoshoujiaerwen·kelalusuoboshiyanjiushengyiqianqiangdiao，yiguo40suiguoshengri，xuduonanshihuiduixianxiadeshenghuo cengjuededanxinheweiman，ganjuegongzuodebuhao，hunyinshenghuozhongdebeiju，renshengdaolushechilangfeileguoduosuiyue，gantanzishenyizhizaijianxinnulimeiyouhaohaodixiangshoushenghuo，naizhiduizhoubiandeyiqiexincunyuanhen。