那样做出轨的婚姻才有修补的机会

老公出轨了 怎么办?应对伴侣出轨，许多人急切立在社会道德制高点上，啰啰嗦嗦地斥责另一方，或是又哭又闹着开展自身抨击。

shijishang，zheiduichulihunyinpoliemeiyouxiezhu，neimagairuhezuoni?laogongchuguilezenmeban?zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

应对出轨，声嘶力竭

zaijiedaishizhong，nvhaitongkuliutiqilai，yingduilaogongdechugui，taxinlishifenfenqi，buzhidaogailiqu，huanshitiaoxuankuanrong。

suiranlaogongdishengxiaqi，yibianbianbiaoshuzishenbingbushiyouxinsunhaita，rangtazaiweizijiyicijihui，

dannvhaihuanshitongkuwanfen。

 tawufashihuai，doujiehunwunianle，tazenmejiangchuguijiuchuguile，zishenquezishizhizhongmengzaiguli，shizishennaerzuodebutaihao，huanshilianggerenzaiyiqishijianzhangle，qianquelianaideganjue?

掌握出轨，认清翘翘板式心态游戏

 laogongjingshenchuguiheroushenchugui，bianchengxuduorenfuqiganqingpoliedeyuangu，richangshenghuoyouhuowusuobuzai，henduoren chuguibingfeixumouyijiu，zhishizaiyouhuodeposhixia，yibubuhuajingudi。

 “chugui”rutongyichangxintaizhuangtaishangdeboyi，yikaishi，chuguiyifangzongjuedezishenkeyizhangwoyiqie，gewaichimijinzaibawodejuede。

 qudonglishiduilianaideganjuedeqipanyuqidai，duifanfufaweiyishizhuxingdeyanjuandaijuan;mocazulizeshilixingyushehuidaodedekaowenqianzhi，duibanlvyuxiaohaideneijiuyuyiwu。

zaibuduandeqiancheyusipozhong，tahuitihuidaoxintaizhuangtaishangdejidakuaile。

erzai“chugui”beifajueshi，banlvyebeidaidaoyichangxintaiyouxizhong，budeyishiyan“shouhairen”derenwujiaose。

beiqi、tongchi、duzhanyuhunhechengweijuhunyintuolidejiaolvqingxu，lingrenwufarenshou。

 yincilianggerenhuigangkaishiyichangxintaizhuangtaishangdejiaofeng，yigerenlizaishehuidaodedezhigaodianshang，yigehuixinsangqididenghouzheshenli。

zenmecainengxiufuhunyindejunheng?

 chuguiderenchixurenrangqiuhe，qiaoqiaobanzheitoujiujianjiandishangsheng，lingyifangchixuchizemaiyuan，jiangdizishendeshenfen，zishendepinpaixingxiangbeichixudihui，yinciqiaoqiaobanjianjiandijiangdi……

neiyangdexintaiyouxi，gengshixuduorenkaiyan“chuguiduijue”deyuangu。

跳出来手机游戏，复建幸福自身

 zuixian，biejiqielizaishehuidaodezhigaodianshang，luoluosuosuodichizelingyifang，huoshiyoukuyounaozhekaizhanzishenpengji，zheiduichulihunyinpoliemeiyouxiezhu。

 zhenshiyaozuodeshier，shirangzishentiaochulaixintaiyouxidekunju，miandui“chugui”zheiyijidaweiji，rangxianghurenqing、lejie、zhenglizishencishidezhenzhengyaoqiuyuduofangmiandeqipan，xianghuzaihunyinzhongzhaoxundejiejuefangfa。

一、正确认识相互，提升朋友关系方式

zhengquerenshixianghudeyilaifangshi：

anquanxingderenqipanyikaoyubeiyikao;

 taobixingderendeyisibixuyidingdejianjuyushineikongjian，meibanfachedijianxinhejiezhutaren，jiarutaiguoqinmiwujian，tamenhuijuededaojiaolvbuanyubushigan;

jiaolvqingxuxingderenchangchangdanyoubanlvbushandaiziji，xiangchuangjianzhangqidepengyouguanxi，quechangchanghetuilingyifang。

dangdajialejiezijihelingyifangdeyilaifangshi，jiunenggengzhangwoxianghugerenxingweihexintaidegenyuan，jinerjinkuaijieshouxianghu。

 anquanxingderenyaojitaobixingdebanlvyidingdeshineikongjian，bubiqiongzhuibushe，jingchangbiwen。yaojijiaolvqingxuxingderenyichongzuxixin，shizhejieshoutamendefenqizhuyaobiaoxianjiqidanxinxintai。

 ertaobixinghejiaolvqingxuxingderen，zebixugenjuzhangqixingqinfenlaibaochizishenchengcai，buran，jibianhuanyigebanlv，yemeifachedixiaochuzishenxinlideyaoqiu。

二、看穿诱惑，面对本质的感情要求

zaichuguideqinshenjinglizhong，shishajinigenggaigerenxingweiyundongguiji?

shenmejiushiniyiwangzaihunyinzhongmeiyouguanniandaode，shenmeshibucenghuodekaolvde，shenmecaisuanshinibixurenqinghechulide?

yingduibanlvchugui，nideneixinshangyouqinshenjinglileruhedeneixinquzhe?

huoxuniyaoshiguochuguilaiduifu，huoxuniyaojiecijihuishifangchulaizhangqideweimanyunaonu……

youhuowusuobuzai，hunyinzhongbicidoubixuyikaozheiyiwaishigudezhutiqulaizaicizhenglixianghubenzhideganqingyaoqiu。

hunyinbingbushiliangrendejiaofengyupidi，chuguidoubuyiweizhemouyirendebuchenggong，xuduoneishihoushibicixiezuodechucuo。

 chuguidoubudaibiaohunyindejieshu，dangdahuoerzhenzhenzhengzhengdezuodaotoushizishendeqinggan，tiaochulaineixinkunju，shengjizishen，jiunengzhenshibaochihunyindetishengyushengji。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?