出轨男人，确实只能零次和一次次?

老公出轨了 怎么办?基本上大部分家中遭遇出轨事件，最先想起的全是修补，但如果你坚信这一见解时，即便你要修补关联也会迟疑以至于舍弃，即便最后挑选宽容，也总可以在关联中找到真相，证明材料这一见解。

 danglianrenhuijialewanle，ninengcaiyitashifouyouchuguile，jietingdianhuadeshengxianglveweidian，ninengcaiyishifoudisanzhedalaide。meiyidianzhenxiang，shijishangquanshibalianrenxiangwaitui。laogongchuguilezenmeban?zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

 zheihuarutongyijumozhou，chixuyinyouzhenixiangnagezuihuaidejieguoqukaolvdao，erzheiyijieguoyuanbenbuyidinghuichanshengde。zheihuashijishangjiushishuorangniyucefenxileyigezuicaogaodeerqiejianghuibingburongyichanshengdejieguo。

hunyinzaoyuchugui，bingbushicongcijiutarubuguilu，daliangshikazailezhei2genantishang：

一、如何在婚姻中再次找到均衡?如何让出轨的损害变成以往?

xuduoganqingbingbushishujilechugui，zhishishujilechuguihoudezhonggui。

二、如何摆脱破旧的感情模式，再次找到新的交往模式。

renmenzongganjuejiude、lejiedewupinjiushishuohaode，yincibujingyidizunzhaozaojiupojiudemoshi。

zaoyuchuguideren，zonghuailianzhiqiandeshiri，shuo“ai，nengfanhuizhiqianjiuhaola”。

 shijishang，zhengyouyuzhiqiandeganqingmoshibutaihao，hunyincaihuipengdaochugui，jibiannijinlixiangzhongguijiumoshi，huanshijiyoukenengpengdaohunyinpolie。niwubiyaozaicizhaodaoyitiaoxindelumian。

 dangnizhei2genantidoumeichuli，neichuguidequezhinenglingciheyicici，dangniqudechenggongchulile，neimachuguijiuhuizhongzhinizaiyici。

 zaizheizhongkenqiuxiezhuwanjiuderenxinli，wotingjiandeshiduixingfukuaileheaideqipan，zaitamendezhengtuotongchutongyixingdongyihou，yongyouyikebucengyuliaodexin。

 erzhenshideyuliao，jihudoubingbushikaozenghenduifulaijinxingde，zhishiyaogenjuai。wanjiuyiduanganqing，meishenmediuliande，tashinvshizishenchengzhanglicheng，shitamenzhaodaoxingfukuailedegangkaishi。

三、人们该怎么让自身摆脱受害人的窘境呢?

diyibu，kefuzheizhongyouhaideniantou。

“chuguitongtongshitadecuo，wojiushikeliande”

“tajiushishuozisizili，yincicaihuizuozheizhongshierlaisunhaiwo”

“tajihuyebushuoaiwo，bawotapianle，tajiushishuogehuaxinnan”

“wogaibianxianzhuangqutiexinta，neibingbushitaihuasuantale，zheifuchudaijiayeguoqingle”

dierbu，mianduizishenxinlideyaoqiu。

 zheizhongyaoqiuyouhaode，yeshihuaide，tongyang，lingyifanggennishiyiyangde。zheirutongdajiazhengchaodeneishihou，liangrenxinlishijishangdouhuipengshang，nibingfeiqingganwentideweiyishouhairen。

disanbu，“wodetongchu，wochengdan。”

 ganqinglaidaojinrizheiyibu，shenmeshizishendenantidaozhide，shenmeshilingyifangdenantidaozhide。hehu、duifu、weixie、yuantianyouren……doubukeyixiezhunihuodeyigezhenzhengainideren，zhinenggenjugaibianxianzhuang，nicainenggouweihailingyifangduinidexintaiheguandian。

zheiyiquanshijiemeiyoujueduianquanxingdehunyin，yejueduimeiyouzaogaotoudingdehunyin。

 zaihunyinli，sheidoubuqidailingyibanqupanbianzishen，keshidangshierchanshengleyihou，renmenyebubiyigunzidasiyipian，henjiduanhuadeshuolingciheyicici。

 jinliangbuyaodiqushuo：tayouandi，tahuizaicifasheng，yebubishuo“gougaibule”dehua，zhongjiubengongsishiren，bingbushigou 。wulunzenyangjinliangbuyaodiqufourenyigeren，fourenyizhonggailv。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?