爱人出轨，这才算是合理的解决方式

老公出轨了 怎么办?有关出轨，以前听见过那样一个叫法：人要有婚后出轨，原因很简单，就是说想和爱的人在一起，去喜爱的地区，做喜爱的事。

许多人会立刻辩驳，喜爱也不可以出轨呀?

 huoxuchuguishicuowude，danpingjingxialaixiangzhe，yangzhangbiduanyuanbenjiushishuobenzhi，renmendoushibuzhudongdeyuanyitiejinxiaide，dujuetaoyande。dangdajiadeganqingchuxiandisanzhe，tingdajianghuishidajiadeganqingzishen jiuchuxianlenanti。laogongchuguilezenmeban?zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

erxiangzhezhequganpaodisanzhe，wangdiaolaixiuyixiuzishendeganqingfengxi，renhuijiale，ganqingrengranshifengxiande。

huozhiyifangchugui，qiadangdejiejuefangshishishenme?

1、释放出来完心态后，让自身平静下来独立思考

 airenchugui，daodishisheidoujienabushangde，yemeirenxiangyaoneiyangdeshichansheng，danjiaruchanshengle，youxierenhuigenairenchaonao，youxierenhedisanzhebaoda，yeyouxierenyigerenduorenyoushangshiluo。

wulunniyeshizenyangxuanxiexintaide，zhihouyaorangzishenpingjingxialai，sisuoneiyanghaoduogenanti：

renmendeganqingchuxianlenaxienanti?

shizenmehuishirangta/tachugui?

woaita/tama?aibuai?

yaoshimeiyouzheiyiren，womendeshenghuohuichanshengnaxiegenggai，woshibushinengjiena?

tichufenshouhewanjiufenbiedeliyubishishenme?nayizhongshiduiwomeneryanshigengqiangde?

 kaolvdaoqingxile，jiarujuecewanjiu，nijiudediaojiezishendexintaizhuangtai，jienachuguizheiyikeguanshishi，erbingbushibawozheijianshiqingmeifang。

 kanledianshilianxujushuzuiduodejingdianpianduan，jiushishuolaogongchuguile，xifuchashouji、chaxingzong，yizhiyushizhaosirendiaochazhuizong，yaobujiushishuohedisanzhezhengmianjiaofeng，pingeyusiwangpo。

 zheizhonggushiqingjiequanshifanmianjiaocai，neibanzongshirangzishenkanshangquxiangxuduorenyanlideyigeduanzi，youxiuderendoushitiaoxuanlizhijiejue。

 lizhijiejuebudanshirangzishenbaochiqingxingdesisuo，yekeyijilingyifangshijianheshineikongjiansisuo，ranglingyifanggengfeichangrongyixuehuifangxiatifang，erbingbushibeihaidegengweixiangtaopao。

2、选准感情出现问题的缘故，想方法处理它

 yingduichugui，renmenzuifeichangrongyibamaotouzhixiangdisanzhe，danjiejuekunnandezhongyaoquequjueyudajiazhongjiandeganqing，jiarujiejuehaoladajiaxianghuguanxi，disanzhetongchangbugongzipo。

hunyinshenghuozhongchangchanghuichuxianneiyangwucha，zaiyiqishenghuolehaojinian，quebuqingxilingyifangzhenshiyuanyideshishenme。

 yiduanganqingzhongxianghuzhijiandoushiqukaolv，yincicaihuixiangwaizhaoxun。lianggerenganqingchuxianyixiexiaomaodun，zheizhongmaodunquanshirangnideyujingxinxi，yexujianghuimeiyouzaihu，meiqulijixiufuta，yincidaozhishierwufamibu。

dangchuguiexingshijianchansheng，nijiucongyujingxinxishenggaolaidaotishi，zheishiniyiranmeiquhaohaodidechulima?

3、好好地沟通交流，并调节好自身

fuqijianzuiqianquegoutongjiaoliude，yigebuxiangyaoshuo，yigemeiyoushijianting，rangganqingyanhuadaozheiyichengdu。

 xuehuifangxiazhizehechengjian，helingyifanghaohaodiliaoyiliao，qiadangdebiaoshuzishendeniantou，ranglingyifanglejie，huanjieduoyudewujie，yanyudegongxiaoyejiuqujueyuci。

ciwai，zishenfujianyehenguanjian，fujianbingbushifourenzishen，zhishihaowuyiwenzijideyoudian，kefuquedian。

 jiandaozishenshoushangdebugou，zuochuyixiegenggai，wulunshixingqingshang，huanshirongmaoshang，xunzhaolingyifangbixude，chanshengercixiyin，ranglingyifangzaochengxiangyunizaizaiyiqishenghuoxialaidequdongli。

lingwai，haiyaoxunzhaoxianghudejiaowangfangshi，gangkaishigenghaodeshenghuo。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?