只能那样做 才可以挽回出轨的老公

男人婚姻出轨 我该怎么办?一段婚姻，刚开始时它一定是幸福的，只能在婚姻全过程中，彼此持续损害它，婚姻才会深陷危機，相互爱惜吧。

 hunyinchunanti，jiujingzaban?tashigezhangqinandian，renshou?buqingchuzishennengrenduozhangshijian。liyi?youmeizixinxindanduyingduibumingshenghuo。nanrenhunyinchuguiwogaizenmeban?zenyangduifuchuguidenanren?

 dangshisheiyebubisheiaideduo，danzuihouxuduorentongchuyisheng，xuduorenquenengyuzixielao，hunyinzhong，zuiguanjiandenenglishixiubunengli。

你的婚姻到底出了哪些难题?

 yigerenhuanshangbing，dexianqingxishishabing，duizhengzhiliaocaikeyizhiyu，ganmaofashao，duochidianweitaming;teshubingzhongzeyaokaozhangqixingyaopinhexixinguanxin。

yiduanhunyindehuimieyiban yaoqinshenjinglihonghua、bianhuai、zhahua、shiyouhuagongzheisigehuanjie。

 honghua：duiairenlixinghua，turanchuxianzailianaijijiehunhuanjie，lianggerenaidereqing，zhikandaolingyifangdeyoushishanshanfaliang，erhushilequedian。lirufenghuangnantongchangjinquxinqiang、liyuxunxin，danguoduzishen，shiminggancha。

bianhuai：zaijinyibudejiaowangzhong，xianghuzhenshidepixingmanmanxianchu，xianghudouganjuelingyifangbuzuhao。

 zhahua：nvxingganjuenanshengtaizha，bukenhuahuoliqugoutong，ernanshengxiang，jirantazongganjuewozha，neimewoguoduanjiuzhaba，laidaozheiyihuanjie，xianghudouhuixiangaixiangsha。

 shiyouhuagong：hunyinjindaozheihuanjie，zaoyifeichangfengxian，bicijingchangyongjiatinglengbaolilaiguliwuyuanlingyifang，biciyincijingpilijie，zaihunyinlikubukanyan。

 danghunyinchuxiannantishi，youderentiaoxuanmomodichengshou，dangyizhijiangtoumaijinshalidetuoniao。kebuguanniruheduobi，nantilibulemeiqu，burongyiquanzidongchuli。

youyijuhua：huaizhebuyongxindexintaishenghuo，zhongjiuhuibeishenghuosuochufa。

nitiaoxuanduobi，tiaoxuanqianrang，shoubuledaodedixian，jiezhongerlaidehuishibeiju。

nvxingzongxiaiwen：laogongchuguile，jiujingyingbuyinggaikuanrong?

 shuozhenhua，wanhunshizhishangmoliandeshitiaoxuanhefengxianxingchengshounengli。jiarushizhinantimeiyouchuli，nikeyiquebaoxiayiduanqingganhuiyizhihemuma?

hunyinchulenanti，gairuhezhengjiu?

hunyinzhong，dajiayifandebuzhengqueshiyongcuofangwei，fangweiyicuo，huashangzaihaoqili，yezongshibalingyifangyuetuiyuelaiyueyuan。

 yiqiankanleyigezongyijiemu，yiduifuqicongtouzhiweidouhuizhengchao。zhangfuganjueqizizhangkongyutaiqiang，qizizejuedezhangfubuzuguanzhuta。

 zhangfushifenbiequ，shuochuduixiangshi，qizitiexinwenrou，haishuojiehunhoulianggerenhaiyaoyoufenbiedexiaoshineikongjian，danhunhouqizirutongfashengbianhuabenrenyiban，budanguidingtaxinshuisuoyoushangjiao，haigesanchawutongdianhuachagang。

zhihou，youyuhaizijiaoyunanti，lianggerennaojiang，zhangfuqueshichibuxiao，lijibanchulaizhu。

妻子如何做呢?

jiexiaohaideweituoren，weixiezhangfuhuijia。

这让丈夫更为恼怒。

naxiecaisuanshihunyinxiubudeqiadangliucheng?

1沟通

yanyubenshigoutongdegongluqiaoliang，womenyiqixianghugengqinmiwujian，shubuzhiyueqinmiwujianderenzhongjianyueburongyihaohaoshuohua。

youxieren：“renmenchangchanggoutonga，womeiridouduitashuoxuduohua，dantajiushishuobuyuanlicaiwo，zheinengguaizijima?”

 zhenshidegoutongshixinlichedilakaide，hunyinzhongyiqienanti，doubingbushidanfangdaozhide，errenmendouhuibayiwuguizailingyifangshoushang，neiyangtaruhejianghuigennishuojuxinlihuani?

2延迟满足

yanchimanzu，shiyigerenzhenshichengshudebiaoxian。neixinqiangdaderen，gengfeichangrongyijiejuehunyinzhongdenanti。

yanchimanzubingfeirenshou，youyunilejiezishenshiyibiannaxiemudiersheqinaxie。

 dangnijuecewanjiuzheiyiduanhunyin，nijiubiezongtidaobukaixindejiushi，gengbubiyizhizhanyoushehuidaodezhudaoquan，ranglingyifangganjuekuijiuniyibeizi。

 jibiannizhengchaochaohuosheng，doubuyiweizhenenghuodemeimanhunyin，nikeyidongdesuzaozishendeganranliheqinmiwujiannengli，rongxulingyifangzaiyigejiaoweianquanxinghejieshoudeziranhuanjingliyunigoutongjiaoliu，lejienanrennvrensiweimoshidechabie。

3寻找技术专业建议

 hunlianwentibudabuxiao，dadaopoxiguanxi、haizijiaoyu，xiaodaoxiaofeihexintainian、shenghuofangshi，meiyizhongnantidexiubudouguidingyigerenjuyoubaohanpanduannengli、chengshounengli、luojisiweinengliyineidesuyang。erxuduoneishihou，renyoufeichangrongyipangguanzheqing。zheishi，xunqiubangzhujishuzhuanyedeganqingxiubushishiyigefeichanghaodetiaoxuan。

 zaioumeidengzibenzhuyiguojia，xunzhaojishuzhuanyedexintaizhuangtaixiezhurutongrenmenfashaoganmaokanyishengnayaoyiyangyiqiezhengchang，wuxudengniyouyuzhengzaiqushutong，hunyinyebubidengnibunengzhengjiudeneishihouzaiquchuligezhonggeyangnanti。

 xiubuhunyinzhongdenanti，bingyuzhongbutong，biaocengshangkanshangqujinjingoutongshouzu、hexintainianhebulai，shijishangzheizhongnantilitongchangzangyuzhefenbieyuanshengjiatinghechengcaiziranhuanjingzhongdegezhongneishang。yiner，jishuzhuanyedeshishiyijiangengyouyiyuhunyinguanxidezhangqi。zenyangduifuchuguidenanren?